These basic rules are merely THEORIES that fit the MODEL of the way the playing field is like. The MODEL
is only a representation of the real world. In other words, these RULES weren't handed to us on a stone
tablet by a guy coming down from a mountain. They were figured out by literally thousands of trial and
error APPROACHES (mostly error). To a PLAYER, there are no such thing as failures, only results. We learn
from our mistakes and use that knowledge in the future to modify our next approach.

FORMAT:
Dress
Go out
find
approach - 3sec rule - hi
INTRO script - elvis
main body script #1 music game
main body script #2
main body script #3
CLOSE - kiss close and # close
Leave - or eject

This format is for EVERY girl you wish to meet.
1. find
2. meet
3. attract
4. close
Pick-up lines are shit (Usually).

Refrain from sitting if at all possible.

when you see her, show her a smile, confidence, coyness, charm, be welldressed, look just a little shy,
and be friendly. dont PICK HER UP. dont HIT onher. dont compliment her. Just BE. Like when you are with
a good friend.Then tell her you intend on bringing her with you to a get together.

RULE: NEVER give your # only. get hers or TRADE, but NEVER just give yours.This IS the hardest thing to
do ... FIND them. Imaginethe difficulty for a moose in the forest. Its the same for some guys. You have to
roam around and FIND your potential mate. I KNOW she is out there.There is a 19 year old girl who would
LOVE you - she is even within 50 milesof you now. Get a map. Draw a circle. Search this out batman style
- you know - with a map on the batcave wall and the deriddling computer.for the not knowing what to say
thing: write a small outline of topics of discussion.

Here is my example:
20 min - question game
5 min - the music game
2 min - elvis and his hair
15 min - esp - is it real?
5 min - titanic connection pattern
5 min - the ant farm I bought for my niece and what I learned
10 min - my friend Tal likes this girl but is having problems ...
10 min - My other friend's girl became a stripper - what do you think about that?

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These are TOPICS of discussion that althogether run over an HOUR!

have you told any stories to a buddy on the phone? well give the story a title and write that on a list to
put in your pocket or wallet. This TOPICS OUTLINE can be referred to while she is right there. You go into
your wallet and check something then continue talking. She wont know you have a cheat sheet.

ALWAYS carry a pad and pen with you. consider learning sleight of hand with a pen. This will come in
handy OFTEN. Take the pen and before you give it you say, "check this out" and make it vanish. That's a
coy and playful surprise. You need to be better at disarming them with humor. You CANNOT enter with
SEX on the BRAIN. NO HITTING. NO PICKING UP. Have fun, make them laugh and convey confidence,
connection, smile and humor. Then they will want you because every other guys doesn't do this. They do
shit like give beers and other stereotypical mating ritual things. You don't do that and you are IN baby IN.
Honest. You haven't had a chance to work the club PROPERLY. You do NOT have to be a 'mack'. Swear.

SOLUTION: smile. When she looks fo rhte very FIRST time, smile BIG and say "Hi." THAT's the 3 second
rule. You will get used to saying hi and smiling to EVERY beautiful girl everywhere you go. No you already
have come off as playful and pleasant. If you miss this first opportunity to do this, you risk STALING out
the girl. That is what you keep getting yourself into. You STALE the entry so you feel awkward to
approach. Why? Because you know she knows you have sex on your brain. You have no other reason to
approach her. That's STALE. Now if you smiled and said hello in the first 3 seconds of seeing her, then you
can immediately start chatting. Its natural this way.

"My spoon is dirty. (Pause for impact then show a dirty spoon andlook at it like its really scary.) My
kingdom for a clean spoon. What am I talking about? My kingdom 'is' a spoon. A dirty spoon at that. What
should I do now? Im at a loss! Quickly, lets team up and solve this issue together. I'll do the delegating.
You do the field work. No, I'll be Molder, you be Scully."

use the elvis bit on the potential boyfriend. Everyone with the girl must be disarmed FIRST. They are to
like you first. When they are laughing or you feel they are not a problem, then its all good. You can
address the entire group, but remember to pay LITTLE attention to the target.

Sure. Just dont pay particular attention to any ONE girl. In fact, pay more attention to the ugliest and
work your way up. This is to disarm the obstacles to the one you prefer. If a woman is with a guy, you
must approach HIM first. To direct your attention first to HIM. If a woman is engaged in a conversation ...
hmmm, thing is, sometimes they are talking about serious stuff. Dont intrude if they are passionately
conversing. But if there are pauses and such, by all means ... enter

Go out 4 or 5 days a week. Dont carry a beer bottle in your hand like others.

Oh, remember the first time you drove? How scary it was? I remember how scared I was and I took a
course and I actually hated having to do it because I had the responsibility of driving on me. It was such
a horrid feeling. Even when I got my license it was a bad feeling. It was this anxiety whenever I knew I
HAD togo somewhere. In fact I got that again when I took a course last year on motorcycle driving. (Got
my license for bikes 6 months ago). Remember having been through this pain?

Did it go away with time? yes. Would it have if you only drove once a month? hardly.
Well, in order to get comfortable with the meeting girls thing, one must keep going out and trying. I am
talking 8 to 10 girls a DAY. If you devoted a good portion of your time to this endevour, you would finally
solve this problem, nip it in the butt, and be able to attain your desires before they pass you by. Its not a
looks thing. Its entirely style. Ever see Gone with the Wind? Rhett Butler - when you watch the movie,
notice how in real life that guy is actually sorta ugly. But he FOOLS us, he tricks us into believing he is
great looking by his sytle. He has the VIBE, the confidence, the demeaner, the cockiness of a man who
knows what he likes and how to get it. Watch the movie and think about HIM.
Whenever you feel the 'pain' of not wanting to go out and meet girls (even though you want to be in one
or more relationship - that just a choice thing) your body is sabotaging you. This feeling is not a sign to
say, "DONT GO. GIRLS are BAD." It rather is a very strong indicator that says, "Be careful, get good sleep
the night before, eat well, be awake and lucid for the challenge". Just like driving.

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get a microcassette player and tape ALL your approaches. Its also good because an approach is very
formatted: it has a beginning AND an ending. So does a tape. So when you see the girl, you think I want
HER. You scan the situation and say,
"OK, here goes" and you press record. And in you go. When it is over, you press stop. Its so perfect for
your brain. you are going in not to get the girl but rather to perfect the pick-up so you can have the
PERFECT tape to play to friends. They will listen and say, "FUCK. YOU are GOOD!" Then you show them a
picture of this girl that you fucked and she is a 10!. That is what its all about. Getting GOOD at this do
you see WHY I said to get her to YOUR place? You NEVER have control of the situation at HER place.
Phone calls and other unexpected things can excuse her from paying attention to you.
a neg hit is when you are talking to a girl and you do little things that show you arent completely
interested. EG: "are those nails real?" when she says no reply, "oh. well, they're still nice." You arent being
an asshole but the end result was to put her down. She will feel a little bad though she wont think you
meant it. You should drop 3 neg hits on a girl in order for her to want try to impress you harder and regain
her composure. Another one is this: "Is your hair real? Well its still nice." Remember to say this with a smile
as if you are oblivious to this being a neg hit. See? You ,are HITting on her, but its NEGativie. There are
many others that are great.
OK one more, do the pull my finger joke on her. Do it twice. Who the hell would do this to a girl who was a
10?!!! Only a man who is used to being around girls and doesnt care about getting this girl or not. And this
makes you different from the rest. You are toying with her - and it works!
My patience is usually unending ... EXCEPT! If someone doesnt TRY, I tell them to fuck off. I care only
about people's learning curves. I know everyone is at a different place on the learning curve but if they
aren't at least PLAYING the game, then they are wasting my valuable input and therefore my time. If
someone just tells me they arent getting girls because they are too scared, and they dont attempt any
way of beating the fear (excitement) and challenging themselves, then they can fuck off out of this NG
becausethey arent PLAYING the game. All this talk of ours in the NG is about the RULES and TACTICS and
STRATEGIES and GAMBITS of the game. But if you only READ the rules and never pPLAY the game then I
say, fuck off, right? Hey, one can SUCK at the game but at least they try. We've got teenagers that are
getting more pussy than some LAMO adults.
I stand firm on this EXCEPTION. "If someone doesnt have the guts to PLAY the game at all, they can fuck
off. If they have the guts to TRY, then I have the patience to offer advice on playing the game BETTER."
yeah I guess the legal thing is an issue, but so far its just for fun and I dont allow names to there is no
PROOF within the audio. I will always remove names and change them to NICKS anyway so Im pretty safe
there. You can edit the DETAILS out and edit the audio any way you want to make it shorter and such.
its realy fun too. to talk in the car about girls gets you PREPARED and to use it in the approach motivates
you to really think about what you are saying.

You have this notion that lying is an EVIL thing. You arent HURTING them by lying. You are using
deception - so what? All animals use deception at some form or another to increase their chances to
survive. Cheating and lying are evolutionarily advantageous. Read The Selfish Gene.
See my new perspective? Cheating and Lying is OK, so long as you benefit ... and the other doesnt DIE.
yeah I guess the legal thing is an issue, but so far its just for fun and I dont allow names to there is no
PROOF within the audio. I will always remove names and change them to NICKS anyway so Im pretty safe
there. You can edit the DETAILS out and edit the audio any way you want to make it shorter and such.
its realy fun too. to talk in the car about girls gets you PREPARED and to use it in the approach motivates
you to really think about what you are saying.
WOW. Ok, DONT give your CARD out anymore. EVER!!! What I mean by SELLING is that you are a product.
You have to package yourself so you look like the TYPICAL perfect man. Smiling and funny, confident and
connecting. Pleasant and not HITTING on them. Not buying them beers. Being a challenge. But like a
salesman, you have to get ready for the sale. you have to look good, shave and dress well (dont dress
LIKE a salesman - never wear a tie but dress well) have shiny shoes (very important) and be confident like
a salesman who knows his product and KNOWS that it sells well so the salesman doesnt even have to try.
he just has to make his presence known. Like a pepsi rep. Look good but dont say, "will you buy some
soda from me??? please???"
Pick up a spoon and walk up to the girl and say, "look at this. would you use this? look how dirty this is.
elvis wouldn't use this spoon." Remember to be more absorbed with your disgust with the spoon than the
conversation with her.
FIND is the hardest part of the game I think. They ARE out there. In fact, they are looking for YOU too.
They have just as tough a time as you. You have to make yourself available to them. I DARE you to go for

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a walk. Go from store to store on main st. and ask the cashiers where they would consider a good place.
These people are your resources. They know the area and can guide you. "Can I pick your brain for a
couple minutes about this area?" say that and they would most likely love to tell you more.
its unrealistic to attempt to identify SINGLE girls VISUALLY. If you arent sure, go in and approach. That is
a RULE to the game. Go in and make them think you are a great guy then ask them for details of their life.
Plan to go out JUST to pick up a girl. You can go alone. Its in fact preferred. Bring a microcassette
recorder and talk to it (to us). Where are you going? how many girls are you meeting in a day? You should
be approaching 12 in a day ( 6 girls in 2 clubs in an evening of 4 hours is very fair). You should tape these
conversations so we can best help you.
The BF is an obstacle. Obstacles must be disarmed. Do this by befriending HIM. Ignore HER and make him
think you are really a cool dude. You ingore her (which is good psyche) and you disarm him. You also have
the opportunity to find out how WELL he knows her and if he is even a boyfriend and not a brother or
friend. This is standard obstacle disarming tactics. NEVER neg the obstacles. ONLY NEG the TARGET.
respect the BF ALWAYS. I mean, show him all the attention and he will think you are not hitting on her.
SHE: I have a boyfriend.
YOU: If you think your boyfriend would feel THREATENED by your meeting new people maybe we shouldn't
bother getting to FREELY know eachother.
If a girl says "I have a boyfriend", I know that I fucked up and made her feel threatened. This is a reflex
answer from women who are shy scared girls. If they really HAVE a girlfriend, it is likely they feel
comfortable with that and so will appreciate attention from others. Afterall, she feels secure with her
relationship so she won't just blurt out "I have a boyfriend." If a girl says this, she unlikely HAS a boyfriend
but she DOES have a fear of you that must be disarmed. the art of attreaction is to get a girl under 2
hours. if not in 15 minutes. you dont take weeks and weeks. this is so COMPLETELY fuck up the entire
system. Trying to get a girl by talking iwth her for weeks and not finally CLOSING it NUTS man. meet the
girl, be funny. now, either get her # or bring her somewhere or kiss her there. those are the 3 options. In
class, you get her somewhere for lunch or you invite her to a party or you get her #. thats it. invite her
to your place. Once you have chatted for 15 miutes, you will have her attracted to you (that is if you do
the SS stuff). thats it. now CLOSE the sale. Its a sale man. You dont wait around trying to close a sale
for a month. This isnt selling a $40,000 copier. Its a $300 VCR. thats it. its not rocket science. we need
perspective. while you are every day trying to CHAT with her, she goes home and masterbates. Theyn she
meets a guy like me who comes along showing all the traits she would want in a man (a well honed image)
and she chases him. he plays hard to get for 10 minutes and then gives in and BAM we are fucking while
you are at home masterbating thinking about how you will make her MORE attracted to you. Anything over
2 hours and its a NOGO! Remember. after 2 hours, its gone. To attract someone is to BE attractive.
ATTRACT her. Convey the traits she wants in a man. And how do you both find out what they are and
then convey them back to her? Well, I would suggest CONVERSING with her. TALK with her. DONT HIT on
her. Make her laugh for a good 10 minutes and then try to CONNECT. Then go for the kill. dont hit on her
until she is INTERESTED. She wont be until she has already been given the traits she wants. SMILE,
HUMOUR, WILLINGNESS to LEAVE, CONFIDENCE, SOCIAL STANDING, NICE EYES (dont wear glasses). Be
charming.

Intro
Establish eye contact. Say hi ... make it sound sincere. Don't make it seem like you are trying to pick them
up. "Hi there!" is wrong. They will in fact question in their minds why you are talking to them ... you may
later on tell them
Obstacles
If other people are present, you must get them to like you first before you may show your intentions to
the one you want. If one is her brother, he must like you enough to not become an obstacle. If he thinks
you're an asshole, win him over first.
Close - give something personal - a necklace or bracelet.
Don't use pick-up lines.
Don't use anything obvious to your intentions.
Don't buy a girl a beer. Don't buy a girl a flower. In fact, don't think about picking her up; rather think
about attracting her.
What attracts a person to another?
The person is interesting. There are 2 types of interesting people: good interesting and bad interesting. If
you meet a girl and start giving knock knock jokes, that would seem interesting but in a ... "this guy is
fun, but lame" way.
Be entertaining - that is interesting. People want to hang with others because that person feels good

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around you.
The second day
Most people believe that calling a girl the next day is too needy. I don't think so. Never ask them out on a
date though. Movies and the like are out. Videos are too soon.
The more pretty the girl, the more she has been hit on. The more likely she is already taken and is only
flirting. They can knock you down more quickly because they've had practice. However, the more practice
you get at talking to pretty girls, the easier it will be to NEG HIT them. NEG HITS are LOVED by 10s!
In each case of my getting laid, I first intro'd, then entertained with out obviously showing my intentions
to seduce. I merely talked. You have to go through this too. So perfect the INTRO first. Do it withOUT
looking like you are hittin gon them. START there!
a woman will assume you want to have sex - you must confuse them into thinking that you actually don't
care about that. That is in fact a difficult thing to do.
a woman must be reached at an emotional level first and foremost. Be intellectual but reach her
emotionally. You cannot reach her this way until you have only reached her intellectually (showing no
emotional attachment to her like horniness) in the first few minutes.
I have a boyfriend if you think your boyfriend would feel threatened by your meeting new people maybe
we shouldn't bother getting to know eachother.
The close
only close when they are attracted to you. do not close until you have a pretty good certainty that they
are (see body language). once you know they are attracted, you MUST close or lose!

•

" this was good"

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"so when are we going to get together again? I'm going to be performing at a club on the weekend,
are you free on fri or sat?"

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esp joke

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give necklace

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i want to see you again

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you want to see me again

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lets get together again

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· i like you

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what's your #? (Have pencil ready)

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i want your #

Scripts:
"may i call you sally (or whatever)? you can call me mr. poo-pee pants." - great if the girl is a 10!
"if i follow you home, will you keep me?"
"so how do you like me so far?"
"the voices in my head told me to come talk to you."
"would you like to kiss me or should i apologize?"
"hello suzy, your mommy couldnt make it this afternoon. she asked me to
pick you up and take you home. my thats a pretty dress. would you like
some candy?"
"Ive never driven a cadillac ... whats your name?" - too sexual for an
opening
"you have an interesting figure." - good if the babe is a 10!
"shh! people can see us!"
"you drank too much last night didnt you?"
waiting for the subway - "dont fall onto the tracks - youll make me late for
work"
1. "your nose wiggles when you speak. its sooo cute! :)"
2. pointing to feet ... (saying this like you really dont know), "are those
size 10s?"
3. "I bet you are even prettier without so much make-up on."
4. "Your eyes are rather red. You havent been treating your body very well lately have you."
5. "do you know what the C in E=MC2 is? (constant = speed of light = 186,000 miles a second) if she
doesn't say, "oh. well .... nice meeting you. :)" then turn your back to her.
The 3 SECOND RULE: when you are interested in meeting a girl, don't wait for more than three seconds
before smiling and saying hi. You have 3 seconds to do that. ALWAYS do it. Even if that's ALL you do.
Walk around, assessing women (rating them in your mind from one to ten) and if they are 8 and up, smile
and say hi. Then you are committed to following through. NO MORE FEAR because you will find yourself

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doing this to ALL. Remember to SMILE and say Hi.

There are 3 TYPES of WOMEN, each must be treated differently. You must accurately assess their rating:
TYPE C: girls who are 7.4s and below - what to do? avoid them. They are ugly!
TYPE B: 7.5 and 8 all the way to 8.9: they are pretty but the know they arent MOVIE or TV quality.
TYPE A: 9s to10s: these girls seem to be the hardest. But they arent. They are just DIFFERENT.

A dif approach is needed. You must give them 3 NEG HITS first. Things like, "Oh those are very nice nails
... are they real?" When she says no, say "oh. well ... they're STILL nice :)" Its a put down without
putting her down. Read another post of mine about that.

I suggest getting good at internal fear stuff by chasing Cs. WHY? Because you dont have to have sex
with them, you can just be friends and use them to learn about women from. Going out and having girls
already around you increases your probabilities 10 fold.

Type Bs are fun. They are numberous enough to enjoy greatly. They are very attractive but arent the TV
model type. thats ok because they are very NICE girls.

As REAL pro-players know, the other people within the group are considered OBSTACLES. If you can make
them like you, then they will give their consent and ALLOW you to have time with the girl you want. The
fact that her peer group likes you will cinch her accepting your advances. Lets say there are 4 girls as an
example. You introduce yourself to ALL FOUR. Begin by saying ... "ladies." and smile. You are addressing
the entire group this way in a polite manner. Remember to SMILE! Enter with the Elvis script as an example
- though there are TONNES of INTROs. You are playful and fun and confident. Then continue into other
scripts or topics of conversation IGNORING the one girl you want. You arent paying particular attention to
any ONE girl, just adressing the group and when the vibe is good and you've gotten EVERYONE laughing,
THEN you pay attention to the one you want. See, if you paid attention to the best looking first, then the
ugs would get jealous and dislike you immediately and pull the girl from you. By paying more attention to
them first, you make them like you as a person (the TARGETS friends must RESPECT you for you to get
ANYWHERE with one of their friends) and at the same time the pretty TARGET feels a bit self-conscious
that she isnt getting the attention she usually gets. Only when everyone likes you do you FINALLY give
the TARGET the attention she now craves. Since everyone likes you, the obstacles have been thwarted
and the peer pressure will be great for the good looking girl to pay attention to you. When you notice you
are paying a bit too much attention to her (afterall, you will get along with her GREATLY) that is when you
ask for permission from your news friends (the other girls) if its alright that you pay particular attention to
her. They will appreciate you for being honest and have enjoyed the romance of the two of you smiling
and holding hands ... and THEN you wisper to your TARGET, "look at what you made me do. I had to make
EVERYONE here like me before I could talk to you. See that? This would have been so much easier if you
were alone."
Alright gents, THAT is the way. Instead of wussing out and slipping her the lame card (fucking goofs do
that) instead you take the fucking bull by the horns, go in and mow that sucker down. Its systematic.
Make friends with ALL of them. Make them ALL like you. And then PICK what you want.

May I suggest verbalizing what your intentions are first. That way if she says no you can say "wow. you
really wrecked a moment! Your boyfriends musta really hated that about you."
So you can say, "I want to kiss you."
or
"Kiss me."
or
"Do you like having your neck bit? why? Because right now all I want to do
is bite your neck."
or
"stick your tongue out." Then slowly go up to her face and suck on her tongue. This is MY personal
favorite kiss close.
They are just considerations. I found just going for the kiss without indicating your intentions can
sometimes lead to embarrassment - more than her saying NO. at least you can save face from the chat

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than from the situation where she moves AWAY from the kiss.
"Would you like to kiss me?"
if she replies with a question instead of a blatant NO, it means she DOES want to but she is unsure of
public protocol only.
"Why did you ask me that?"
"Shhh. come here :) *kiss*"
Shit, I cant figure this one out you say to yourself, fuck it, 3 second rule, Im IN. BAM, you walk up. "Hi.
*smile*"
Girls: hi
you: my kingdom for a pencil
girls: here (giving one)
you: (sharpening it then giving it back) hows THAT for a random act of
kindness, hmmm?
girls: where's the kingdom?
you: my kingdom IS a pencil sharpener.
compliments are good on women who are 8.5 and below. They are very useful (but never looks or anatomy
or something that you know the girl got complimented on alot before). But a 10? uh-uh. dont do it. she
gets them ALL the time. by NOT giving them, the girl will feel the LACK of attention (a self-esteem) thing
and she will do things to TRY to ellicite a favourable response from you (which means she is now CHASING
YOU.)
Telling a girl, "you need to wash that dress
already!"
I took a gum out and offered
it to her. She said, "no thanks Im drinking beer." I replyed, "I know ... take the gum." It was fun.
"I know some women who have enough love for TWO men! So ... do you have the room in your house for
me?"
let us kindly differentiate between a NICE GUY and a GENTLEMAN. Pick-up artist is a GENTLEMAN, but not
a NICE GUY. 100% true! Do the approaching and initiate a conversation, but be funny and cool and a tad
cocky even. Appear to not care whether you ever see her or not again. That is why openers (or INTROs)
must be non sexual.
NEWBIE MISSION: Pick 4 nights this week to goto night clubs. You are NOT to pick-up girls. You are simply
to approach 12 girls per night of the 4 days and OPEN with the ELVIS SCRIPT (ask around). Then leave
saying, "Pleasure meeting you." with 48 approaches under your belt, you will discover the nuances. You
arent attempting to hit on them and therefore you CANT get rejected. You are just chatting. OPENING
have to get INTERESTING and thought provoking, NEVER use a line. NEVER buy a girl a beer. Never say,
"excuse me but ..." Always smile. NEVER compliment the girl as an OPENING. Whne you have approached
48 girls in 4 days, (if you cant do this, you arent committed enough to get GOOD at this). Im not saying 4
days in a row, but 12 girls PER day (a 4 hour set from 10pm to 2am is cool). Go ALONE. This is work. Get
this over with and you will FLY brother!
audio tape all your approaches with a recorder hidden. then post the approaches. newbies out there could
really use your inspirational audio. give me ten minutes to talk away my ugliness, and I can bed the queen
of France."
We are all artists, all with many tried and true lines, routines, scripts, sequences or patterns. We give
ourselves a different TITLE such as player or pick-up artist but are all still gentlemen. Like the devil himself
Formal courting sucks because it sets up classic behaviors - well defined ROLES each must play. Forget
formal situations. Dancing, formal dates, etc. Dont buy her a beer or any other stereotypical mating ritual
until AFTER you know they are interested. Candles and incense is good to burn in your room if a interested
girl comes over, but if she is just hanging, these things will tip her off as your immediate intentions and
shell feel uncomfortable.
Here is my favorite all time any situation opener..."What are you looking for?" The first response is almost
always "huh?" or "nothing." To which I reply, "Everybody is looking for something, unless...you've found it.
My name's ______, what's yours?"
Definition: OPTION. And option is not a phone # on a piece of paper. This paper is merely a representation
of aOPTION to fuck. The OPTION is the attraction of you that the woman holds in her head. Hey, this may
actually be HER option. consider learning about GENES. Watch The Sexes on TLC and read The Selfish
Gene to understand WHY we do what we do. very thought provoking. From there get out there and solve
the 11 month issue. OUCH! how could someone go THAT long without getting some? you just arent
focusing enough energy to the task at hand. NOBODY should go with out some sex for more than a
MONTH TOPS! Its unhealthy for the mind and the ego.

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all the other girls were OBSTACLES. you have to REMOVE the obstacles first buddy, this is textbook.
spend MORE time with all the others than you do with the 10. thats how you GET a 10. Heres the
reasoning. the friends NEVER get the attention because of the 10. so when you come and IGNORE them,
they see you as just another guy. Instead, if you ignored her (putting her in her place) and payed
attention to the friends, they would like you for two reasons 1) you are paying attention to them which
feels good and 2) you arent paying attention to the 10 which makes you look like you are in control and
therefore a perfect match for the 10. Its textbook. REMEMBER, ALWAYS remove the OBSTACLES first.
GUMPTION week - do not succumb to the STRAWMAN SYNDROME and get scared to meet and kiss a girl.

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