Exercise 1
Sensory Acuity Exercises VAK
Do 1 Visual and 1 Kinesthetic
For Visual
Have two people sit or stand facing each other.
The second person closes their eyes while the first person
moves.
The second person opens up their eyes looks at the first
person and makes the same movements.
Repeat this exercise until you are good at it.
Next level –
The first person turns circles with their eyes while the second
person moves, then tells the first person what they did.
Exercise 2
Unconscious Hello which we call Instant Rapport.
Airport 1
Pick people (those we know are most demonstrative) out of the audience and tell
them – It’s 6 months after the seminar. You meet at the Ft. Lauderdale Airport
and you recognize this person. Say hi to them.
Ask the audience, “What did they do – what did you notice?”
Airport 2
Now, have the people do it again, but this time we secretly tell one of the people
to not stop, just walk by and ignore them.
Ask person that got ignored, “What was that like for you?
How did you feel?”
Ask person that got ignored, “What did you learn from that?”
(Now we say) How would you feel if you knew that
EVERYONE has a specific way they say hello and if you don’t
do it, they feel disrespected and if you do, you will have
instant rapport and they’ll love you.
We call this Instant Rapport, also called, Looking
for friendlies. This section is covered in the
DVD.
Exercise 3
Pattern Interrupt Exercise
This is done between two people.
Person B tells person A a sad story
A tells B a funny story and uses the analogue of the sad story
throughout.
Exercise 4
Convert Anchoring and Closing
This isn’t really closing – you are already going to know.
What’s the difference between nodding your heads now and
firing off anchors now and contaminating?
If you get a no – don’t do it.
This is really sneaky.
Final Exercise
Putting It All Together
Instant Rapport
YesNo
Criteria Elicitation
Verify Criteria
Anchor Criteria
System’s Check
Meta Program Check
Elicit Problems
Amplify Problems
Check if they are with you.
Ask yesno’s
Check if they are ready to close?
Fire anchors and close