How To Captivate A Man, Make Him Fall In
Love… and Never Want to Leave.
If Only I Could Understand Men.
Men
always say they cant understand women, and that women are so complicated. Well, for
many
women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes
men
tick. Even though women want to know what hes thinking, men are often reluctant to
share
what is in their hearts. Whats a woman to do?
Rather
than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is often more helpful to focus
on
a few areas that any woman can understand.
1)
Men are more sensitive than women. While that might sound silly, the truth is that men
dont
have the ability to recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman. Because
of
this, men keep themselves from getting too upset. When a man hears he should just let
his
feelings out, what he translates that into is this, If I let my feelings out, I might not be able
to
control them.
2)
Men hate fighting. For men, conflict is not simply resolving a problem. Fighting, to a man,
means
one has to win and the other needs to be totally defeated. Men often prefer conflict
that
is non-emotional because it is less threatening to them. Once a conflict becomes
emotionally
charged, it is very difficult for a man to contain those feelings and the most
frequent
coping skill is for them to become quiet. It may seem like they are punishing you,
but
they are most likely trying not to lose control.
3)
Men want to get married. In spite of what many progressive cultures preach, the truth is
that
a majority of men in the world do get married. While the freedom of being single has its
appeal,
it comes with one primary drawback it is lonely. While this might not sound overly
romantic,
finding a woman that a man can trust is just as important as finding one who is
beautiful.
If
you liked these insights, there are more available in Bob Grants wonderful e-book called,
The
Woman Men Adoreand Never Want to Leave. Bob Grant, P.L.C., has taken his 17 years
of
private practice as a Licensed Professional Counselor and Coach and condensed only the
best
information into a mouth-watering, powerful handbook on what men find themselves
powerless
to resist in a woman.
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