Internet Dating for Dummies
A date a day - the digital way!
First of all, I’ve used the tips below for finding dates on
with excellent results. These are
all from my own personal experience, and I’m sure they can’t be wrong as I’ve had a lot of dates (1
every 2 days), and a long list of "sex buddies" after just a months experience on
. So if
that’s what you’re looking for, read on.
Introduction
It's important to look at the statistics of people who use online dating, to get a better feel for what
you should expect. When it comes to men who use online dating sites - they rank physical
appearance at the top of their list. Women, on the other hand, claim they are more attracted to a
man with an excellent personality.
has more single women as members, than men.
Women are looking for men with a great sense of humor and who are older than themselves. Men,
on the other hand, are looking for women younger than themselves. A lot of people who use
claim to just be looking for no-strings relationships. However, there are just as many who
are looking for serious relationships.
Choosing Your Profile Name
Your profile name is one of the first things you're going to have to consider when you sign up.
When it comes to your profile name you should choose something that is attention grabbing and
descriptive. For example, ScottishGuyinFlorida. With this screen name, you're building interest
from girls who may be Scottish or like Scottish guys. You're also attracting girls who are in Florida.
Don't be afraid to look at other members names to find something you like and make it your own.
A lot of people don't think the profile name is important. It is. Your screen name, your profile, and
a picture are all going to combine to give other members their first impression of you, and you want
it to be a good first impression.
Pictures
If you want to be successful on
, you should post some pictures of yourself. If you post
more than one picture, you'll have a successful profile. Statistically speaking, profiles with pictures
get 2x more responses than profiles without pictures.
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Use a recent picture of yourself.
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Use good lighting on your pictures.
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Make sure to smile and look friendly or happy.
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Don't use props in your pictures.
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Consider professional pictures if you're serious about finding a long-term relationship.
Writing Your Profile
The biggest challenge you will face, will be to write your profile. It's not an easy task to try and
come up with words on a screen that define who we are and what we are looking for in another
person.
Think about meeting someone for the first time who you have an interest in at a coffee shop or
party. Imagine what you would say to describe yourself to the other person. This is the sort of
approach you want to take when writing your profile.
Be sure to throw in some humor. Remember, this is your chance to flirt, to have fun, and tell the
world about you.
And always be sure to mention exactly what you are looking for in a relationship within the ad. If
you're looking for a serious or long-term relationship don't be afraid to say so. If you're just
looking to have some no strings attached fun, don't be afraid to say so.
Avoid negativity at all costs! People are looking for upbeat and positive people to be around.
Remember to use your profile to its fullest potential. The biggest piece of advice about writing your
profile I can give, is to just be yourself, it's as simple as that.
The Easy Way to Get What You Want
People on online dating sites want to know you are serious, and not just a time waster. The easiest
way I have found to prove that you are genuinely looking for someone, is to upgrade to a paid
membership. Not only does this give you access to more features and make it even easier to find
the person of your dreams, it also proves to other people that you are genuine.
I myself upgraded to a paid membership and got 5x more responses then I did before the upgrade.
I'm telling you from experience, upgrading to a paid membership will guarantee you more dates,
sex buddies, or whatever it is you're looking for.
That's the end of my guide. I'm positive if you apply my tips on dating sites like
, you'll be
getting girls in no time. If I can do it, I don't see why you can't.
Thanks for reading my guide.
All the best,
Michael Styles