Rion Williams Wussification of the American male

The Wussification
of the American Male
-by Rion Williams
10/12/05
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THE WUSSIFICATION OF THE AMERICAN MALE
-Rion Williams
Is it about time for some information on this subject to come out or what!? There is a
HUGE and growing riż� in our society where American men are confused as to how
women are behaving and treating them. And women are wondering, Where are all
the real men?
Are men supposed to be ultra sensitive or wussified so that they kiss up to women all
the time? No. I m going to look at the root of where this came from. However, worse
than the wussification of the American male is something even griż�ier which is the real
behavioral cause for most marriages failing.
Some people may think is blasphemy that I would even think it, yet, sadly it is true
despite all violent opposition it may gain from progressive, educated, liberal, feminist
thinkers and some of our media.
However it is up to you to deal with our modern social dynamics and know where you
stand as a male in our modern society and for the rest of your life; especially in relating
and living with women. It is up to each man to do his best part.
Ultimately relationships should be a good harmony between a man and woman.
Hopefully I can bring that balance back or at least give the American male awareness
of his own inherent power.
I feel and know that I am the messenger for this great social issue s awareness because
of the level of clarity I have realized aż�er studying and observing relational social
psychology, behavior paż�erns, biology, tradition, religion, personal experience and
cultural differentiation. Also because no one has even brought it up from a universal
perspective.
Because of the inherent truth of my discoveries and it s multi-paradigm approach,
man today can be re-awakened and empowered again.
The root of our problems are so obvious that the rest of the world must be snickering at
the goings on in America. Why don t any of them stand up and say anything? Maybe
they are everyday; I don t know.
Partly because I think most Americans (sadly) wouldn t believe them because we re so
busy, wrapped up in our cultural lifestyle (yes there is one), and only see what is right
in front of us.
Even if someone was telling me some insight I would have filtered it out. We have to
become aware of it ourselves. With this information you can be aware for yourself.
As an American man myself who did realize the universal contextual dynamics with-
out anyone telling me (through my own observations of cultural differentiation), I
think American men (and women) will stand up and listen to me.
We need an insider who gets it and someone with enough balls to take on the media,
imminent feminists, and jaw-dropping emotional retaliatory response from our female
population to start it going.
From there, men can start being open to their own right to power instead of wussi-
ness and can spread it from there. The point for me is to just get the message out. I am
founded in multiple paradigms of truth and this is where I draw my strength from and
you can too.
The divergence and frustration in our society is reaching a peak in the last few years
and it s time for some universal clarity without the shallow solutions of pervasive 50/50
dating advice , tips , or how to pick up chicks .
This is the global macro-dynamics of our relationships and not a shallow fix. If you
relate to women at all, then this eBook and my Men s Guide to Women concerns you.
Whether you may be more interested in the short term success of aż�racting women
or not; these issues are far more important and essentially lead to your ultimate success
anyways. None of those seduction experts bother to go into relationships because they
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I had a chance to skim your book, and it has me intrigued. A lot of books I actually
skim and just decide that they are regurgitated info from our site, other methods,
etc.....I was impressed by the global perspective in particular...I m curious how you
came to have this global perspective (I probably missed that while skimming).
-Rey, FastSeduction.com
know that s a big mess as well.
They are also unaware of the global dynamics which explains this behavior in the first
place that they are working against; they re just happy to see results because sex is a
short term solution to a long term desire.
I will not be bashing women directly but rather looking at their own behavior paż�erns
(which I may bash) as part of the culture in which they were brought up; accepting that
they are who they are, but not giving them any slack for it because as a man YOU have
to know how to deal with it and where to stand.
I will say that part of the problem is that men are being wussies to women and this is
part of what is making things worse in the short term but I think you can tell who is
destroying the long term relationships (without their own awareness or acknowledge-
ment).
Independent women have added unparalleled value to our society and culture and
it wouldn t be fair to not mention that here, but primarily, this is going to have a pro-
male stance; it has to be because of the opposite is happening in our media and society.
However, I will cover things not from the angle of a solely hardcore traditionalist
(keep her barefoot and pregnant over the kitchen sink) but rather from a universal
perspective that really puts the natural alignment back into place for men to be
successful with women (hence giving women what they want in the short term).
Primarily this information will make a man more comfortable in who he is and in HIS
relationship to our fragmented and flipped society.
I will purposely cover primarily the long-term view for two reasons:
#1: It is what really maż�ers the most throughout a man s life (unless he really is a per-
manent bachelor) and his dedication of time, money, destiny and peace
#2: The global perspective of stepping forward to explain the results, consequences,
reality and ultimately the foundational behavior paż�erns and dynamics of our wussi-
fied society (and the powerful women) is more important than short-term sex or even
a dating fixation which may lead to disaster in the long run with the wrong type of
woman
#3: I teach the other stuff (how to meet women, state of mine, DEwussification, dat-
ing , etc.) in my other materials
Let me talk about the wussification of the American man and get straight to the point.
Today men are acting unnaturally around women, especially when meeting them and
even dating them.
This is vastly hurting their chances of success in dating. Unfortunately few can look
beyond at the REAL consequences of this type of woman to prevent disaster ahead;
but before I primarily talk about the long-term dynamics here I ll say some more about
the wussyness factor upfront when meeting women (no one talks about the long term
REALITY).
Women WILL oż�en reject men even before they approach her. Why? She has extrasen-
sory perception and intuition of body language. She knows where he is coming from.
Her social prowess is very adept at picking these things up, so much so that a man
may not even be aware but she has already decided if he has a chance or not. It s more
important that a man be a man that knows how to make her feel the inherent magic of
her own unexplainable and biological response mechanisms.
She ll say she wants one thing and obviously go for another because of how the man
makes her feel . Looks aren t important anymore because the real counterparts of our
hoż�est women, have for the most part become wussies.
They kiss up to her, give her the power and let her squeeze their balls. She doesn t
want this power and she can t tell him how to be or not to be. She s waiting for a man
who just KNOWS how to be a man who she can respond to and start the sexual mat-
ing dance with.
Most men are not behaving like their real self around women and women are wonder-
ing where are all the real men ? Men think that being nice to her will work and they
see her run off with a bad boy while she cries on the nice guy s shoulder.
She can tell they are being weak. She doesn t want another wussboy at her heels who
sucks onto her energy like a leech and keeps calling her or wanting to buy her things.
He s essentially trying to cover up the fact that he wants to get into her pants by put-
ting on a facade upfront and really not being his true self.
A woman respects honesty and congruency. If she can see who a man is who doesn t
make apologies for who he is; she knows he s not a wuss (unless he proves wrong and
turns sappy aż�er a few weeks professing his love for her and then it s over).
Wussies are coming from a shaky foundation in the first place that isn t natural. They
are doing what society has taught them to do; court her and take her on traditional
dates.
Well, times have changed and there s too much implied intention and pressure on
women in these scenarios. Today s women are more carefree and do want things to
happen naturally. Plus, they re being chased by all kinds of wussies that they just don t
have time for.
These men think that because they re interested in her that she ll be interested in them;
NOT if they re acting like a wussy. A wuss is someone who is just handing over the
power and favor to her, oż�en without even knowing it.
Most of these men (and I used to be a wussboy as well) really are great guys with a lot
to offer but are confused as to why women are the way they are.
I could talk on and on about how men are wussies (from buying her things to impress
her to chasing her instead of her chasing him to just not being his true self up front
with her) but it s more important to understand how we were wussified.
From there it s even more important to briefly look at the long-term dynamics that
even 50/50 relationship counselors can t grasp because of their limited vision. Yes it s
going to piss people off but am I dependent on having to marry an American woman
just because I m here? No.
You don t have to deal with it or accept it yourself; it s not running from anything (ac-
tually it is..running from turmoil), instead it s wanting peace and fulfillment by making
an educated life decision and not being sucked into a trap if there are warning signs.
This may seem a liż�le out there for you to even comprehend if you re thinking of
course I d marry an American woman...well...just think about things, that s all. Look
at what s really going on in marriages here. If you re still single, you don t owe any
woman anything.
You can see how adamant I am about the long term issue but before that continues let
me cover more of how we became wussified in the first place. This is covered in-
depth in the Men s Guide through it s historical and cultural coverage but basically
the U.S. is different. Who we are as a culture has become invisible and second nature
to those of us who are in it.
We take what we see for granted. Liż�le do most of us realize that our culture is quite
different from other cultures around the world. More importantly, our behavior
paż�erns are distinctively different from other culture s around the world still despite
much American influence.
Most countries are still grounded in tradition; they are more slow to change than the
U.S...ironically their divorce rates are much lower.
The wussification of the male population began with the empowerment of the Ameri-
can woman. Basically around the suffrage movement in the early 1900 s and geż�ing
women to vote.
I m not here to argue about the empowerment of women; feminism has a lot of advan-
tages but unfortunately it s GREATLY affected our relationship dynamics for the worse
and both sexes are suffering.
Today women have more power than ever before and are man s equal on many fronts.
Of course we take this for granted as just part of who we are and how we live. No one
questions it.
Liż�le does anyone (especially most relationship counselors) realize that the real cause
has been covered up in the first place. We just deal with the fact that women are in-
dependent today and that s how it is...most counselors and lawsuits ironically favor
women anyways and this doesn t help either.
Men have become wussified through our society and cultural and it s influences. The
media has had a big role to play in this. The days of Leave it to Beaver are over.
Despite all of the glamour and glory of our beautiful social exterior as a nation, there is
a lot of hurt going on inside; especially in relationships.
The portrayal and exploitation of beauty and it s consistent inundation has become so
pervasive that of course we are used to it) but it really has a big effect on the wussifica-
tion of the American man.
They allow themselves to fantasize about the women they see and become so emotion-
al about it by lingering on the topic that when they see a woman in public who has this
social level of validation that they instantly connect her beauty to, they become weak
and when she turns him down (rooted because of the power shiż�) he wants her even
more.
And if he keeps looking more and more at pictures of beautiful or sexy women he ll
continue to build the value of it in his own mind and he ll want it even more because
he can t have it .
Women continue to treat him like this (for their place in our forced reality ) and he
becomes more escapist and repressed. It changes his behavior and the way he acts
towards women even if he is a grounded man in all other ways; he s not being himself,
he s being a wuss just by his body language and actions upon the sight of someone he
perceives to match this ideal .
The entire glorification and edification of beauty this forced reality has given women
more power than ever before in history and some of the world is still looking on in
shock. You have to understand that this didn t exist before.
The U.S. was (and arguably still is) the most progressive country in the world, leading
in many industries, civil rights, women s rights, equal opportunity and more. It was
probably inevitable that her power was going to happen. Am I saying there s anything
wrong with it?
I m saying there are implications both good and bad (both extremes), but what I think
most of our women are underestimating is that their traditional female counterparts
around the world (while not having as many options in life), are quite content to play
their natural and biological role of nurturing, raising a family and being a mother and
oż�en times don t WANT to have the level of opportunity American women do because
they clearly see what it s done to families.
You start giving this level of power and opportunity to women elsewhere in the world
(as is happening in major cities worldwide), she will be influenced but will normally
hold true to the base cultural context of her country.
This means that in a strongly traditional culture (Japan, Thailand, etc.) women should
keep it in check without geż�ing too independent because they know that they ll turn
away men who want to marry them because they won t be as good of a housewife and
supporter of her husband.
It s just in the U.S. that we promote this and actively want women to express their free-
doms but it just ends up hurting relationships and the women would never acknowl-
edge it was them who was doing it. Remember out men are acting more biologically
accurate in the long-term, and sorry to say but are women aren t.
I have to give it to the conservatives who have been saying that tradition is what works
and is the way it s supposed to be for long term success. Our cultural defiance of that
tradition and her empowerment to create a 50/50 society is now so strong it affects al-
most people in the entire U.S.
Because of this level of permeation, men on a mass scale over the last several decades
have become weaker and weaker generally with the more power we have given to
women. I m sorry but I don t know what s going to happen if Hillary becomes
President that will HELP guys become less of a wussy.
I would predict that silently the men of American would become even more wussified,
women would become even more empowered than ever before, our media would step
things up a couple notches and there ll be an EVEN greater need for this information
(and the success with women information).
Women are free to go about their lives as men once did (objectively stating) and the
wussy men are now becoming the matches to these dominant women.
It s up to you whether you want to fall for this long term. Your awareness is your key
to power so you can change. Short term you have unlimited options for short term
relationships (without the drama) once you understand how to live in the natural para-
digm of your reality instead of seeing the forced reality ( Men s Guide ), but here I
really want you to see the big picture.
Just listen to the words of feminists and how they view men and you ll see a big clue
into why our marriages are failing. Women are strong and they re proud of it...what
does this mean in a marriage though?
Who is going to lead? You can see why there s turmoil because the power struggle en-
sues. I ve seen and experienced personally around married families and we ALL know
couples that have trouble and that have broken up; we take it for granted.
She wasn t supposed to have this power; it s not accounted for in the Bible or else-
where. Although it s great in certain ways, it s unnaturally shiż�ed the relationships
dynamics and caused men to be intimidated, oppressed and wussified by her aura ,
power and the growing cultural representation that men are weaker sex (maybe it
started with Roseanne, maybe earlier).
We used to have Archie Bunker with All in the Family on one extreme and now we
have Will & Grace towards the other extreme. I ve only seen a few minutes of each
show but I know what the relationship dynamics are.
I think it s depressing that so many sitcoms don t show alpha male behavior but in-
stead have strong women and sensitive men where oż�en times the woman will be the
smart one and save the day while men are portrayed as bumbling idiots.
Our media continues to propagate feminine beauty because sex sells and the fact that
women aren t giving it up to every wussy that comes along puts them further up the
pedestal to make sex sell even more.
The U.S. consumes glamour, beauty and porn like mad. Women become the god-
desses to the average guy who would do anything to be with her. He is influenced by
what he sees and then listens to our song lyrics that just REEK of male wussiness.
This especially apparent in the last decade. This is further making the wussification
more eminent. Lyrics like She s so high above me , I d die for her , I d do anything for
love , etc.
And these are oż�en catchy songs that women will love too because it s emotional and
is connecting with her altruistic social persona s ideal of a man professing his undying
love for her.
This makes our women run in real life. It s the crap all kinds of guys want to profess to
her before he even knows her or who she really is. He s placing his ideal onto her.
They have these wussies chasing their tails everywhere and can t get rid of them. You
have to look at the behavior of women in how they act and react with men and not at
what they say they want or feel sappy about.
Cinderella used to want her Prince Charming and he was a nice guy. Most American
men are nice guys at heart. Our women are not behaving naturally (on a deep evo-
lutional level) anymore and therefore may dream of Prince Charming because of the
stories they were told to find a nice guy who could take care of them .
Now our Cinderella s are falling for the bad boy hanging on the outside of the ball-
room steps. Why?
Because her alpha male options have run dry; her real counterparts aren t acting like
alpha male men anymore so she has to accept what s leż�. If you look deeply Prince
Charming wasn t really a wuss; he was a good looking guy who had his act together
who would make a great husband.
Most men in the world aren t wusses because their women actually RESPOND to nice
guy behavior (hard to believe isn t it? I ve experienced it countless times myself); oth-
erwise we d all go extinct.
You re not the problem. You shouldn t want to be a bad boy just to align yourself with
these women s model of reality. It s dangerous, imbalanced and unstable.
Our women have run out of options because our men have edified them too much and
have changed their own behavior; they re treating every hot women that comes along
as another Queen and they as the servant just by their own body language (in which
their unstable thoughts are transmiż�ed). Prince Charming wasn t Cinderella s ser-
vant . Our society has twisted this out of proportion.
Then we have our movies. Just tell her how you feel is in countless movies. Most of
this stuff actually works on really traditional and emotionally balanced, healthy wom-
en but you have to be careful there because there is usually more expected
commitment on your part.
There is a great incongruency on different levels in our society; no wonder men are
confused. Movies will end with the guy profession his love to her and kissing her but
we don t see what happens aż�erwards that if she s a feisty one they re going to break
up because he was a wussy.
Men can be charming as long as they are grounded in their own reality; it s a mixture
of behavior that intrigues women. It s just the way I am and most men are trying to
figure out how to act around women when it doesn t even maż�er if you re grounded in
the natural reality of not giving up your own power.
You aren t selling out to her but every now and then you ll do something that really
pleases and surprises that SHOWS how much you really do care for her. Don t ever
tell her I love you 100 times a day like some sources literally suggest and women say
they want you to (socially programmed); that is super wuss. You communicate more
strongly through your actions that you re there for her, etc.
You have to live in your reality if you want real success in life and with women. If you
get wrapped up in what society s pervasively throwing at you of all the wrong things
to do (because our women have changed) you ve most surely been wussified.
If we had a nation of women that were more traditional, say like our grandmothers
were, we wouldn t have as much excitement in our culture, true but we would have
much more stable relationships.
The book and movie Stepford Wives is another byproduct of our forced reality . It
thinks it s geż�ing a lesson through but I can see right through it and so can the rest of
the world.
They re almost making fun of the fact that traditional women are comically braindead;
I think this is an INSULT to most of the women in the world who are raising stable,
healthy families.
How about Mona Lisa Smile ? Another byproduct of our forced reality . An indepen-
dent teacher (Julia Roberts) encourages her traditional female students to be indepen-
dent when they just want to be good housewives.
It s pathetic how no one can see what s going on...we just take it for granted without
viewing it from another context of realizing that this social programming encouraging
women to grow (amongst other things) is the root of our relationship failures.
This subject of media influence is so pervasive over the past decades I could go on for
days on how it has affected the wussiness of the American male (Martha Stewart, Mr.
Mom, divas, actresses, etc.) and the newfound power of the female, leading to drastic
relationship consequences.
Even the movie, Cheaper by the Dozen the wife really is a supermom and never leż�
the kids until she writes a book and has to leave them with the busy dad Steve Mar-
tin . She starts to realize her own independence (which is great BUT...) and views the
situation in a whole different light.
Simply to say, Steve Martin becomes the semi-wussy dad trying to pull things togeth-
er comically and she has much sharper responses aż�er she comes back from her trip.
Times have changed, things are more complicated but you have to get a grasp on the
main issues if you want the most control and choice in your life. You can STILL find
women who want to raise a family and support you as #1 and head of the household
but there are very few leż� in America if any at all (who haven t been influenced by our
social programming).
There are millions of available women in the world who would be a tremendous RE-
LIEF to American men if they just knew how different and refreshing things WOULD
be, with these women who don t expect much more than for you to lead the way and
provide. You wouldn t be challenged all the time or cut down, oppressed AND..you
wouldn t have to be a confused wussy (if you ever were).
Take a look at the Russian Bride trend. This is just one of the many paradox outlets I
talk about in my Men s Guide to Women . There s solid reasoning behind this and the
way I see it, you re not less of a man to go that route but someone who has chosen to
take his power back in a different way instead of leż�ing our society tell you what to do.
Men aren t aware that beneath the forced reality is the natural paradigm of which he
can be most successful with women that women are begging for (where are all the real
men) but the long term dynamics are a sticky issue with these women.
Sure our women will be shocked I might try to sway the power back to where it be-
longs (in relationships that work) but aż�er all of the frustration, confusion and inevi-
table anger American men have put up with it s about time our women had a taste of
their own medicine to feel some of the consequences of their own behavior.
I really don t plan on marrying an American woman; the way I see it, they don t stand
a chance of catching me and I m NOT a supergeek (well..part of me is); I m a cool guy,
high social status with a lot going on.
What happens when you take your power back and let them prove themselves and still
understand she doesn t have much of a chance for the long term...? Well, short term
might work out on your own schedule because you don t really care anyways because
you re not a wuss.
When you re dewussified, you have your own power and control back. You re not de-
pendent, clingy or needy on ANY woman. You will slap yourself for not seeing these
things sooner and you will laugh at how tragically ridiculous everything going on is
but you will be cured and realigned to have the greatest success with women and
potentially long term peace. Get my Men s Guide to Women to find out how.
Let s look deeper into the long-term relationship aspects which may be quite boring
to you if you only want to get a quick fix of geż�ing laid; then at least come back when
you re ready to move on in your life because you ll find information here that may
shockingly open your mind to the reality of life with the counterpart of the American
husband.
As in the words of Bill Engvall and I paraphrase, Honey, I m cold... and I got up and
walked over to put the heat on...and she probably called her mother and said, I ve got
him... It starts slowly...
With the shiż� of power, man has become CONFUSED. It was his role to be the natural
leader and all of a sudden he is competing with women and oż�en being outperformed
by them. They hold higher positions than him in the work environment, etc.
A woman s power and who she is obviously extends into her relationships with men.
She expects things. She can take of herself. She is opinionated and goal-oriented. She
has taken on the roles that man used to have available to him.
So what does this do to a relationship? Where do I start? At best, our relationships
with these empowered women have become 50/50. Even alpha males themselves are
caught up in massive power struggles with an independent woman in a relationship.
They are both used to leading . Obviously this creates drama, turmoil, tension espe-
cially aż�er the initial sparks (she s so much like me).
Finding a woman who has it all together may seem GREAT when dating but unfor-
tunately means that your long-term relationship has AT LEAST a 50% chance of NOT
being together.
Even more if you are an alpha male who is very set in your ways and opinionated.
She s become too much like a man. There is no one to suck up all of the drama, energy
and light like there used to be...except, the WUSSBOY.
The thing is, I don t believe all men are supposed to be wussies; I know they aren t.
Nature and evolution and theocracy says they aren t. Who is the ultimate wussboy?
How about a 40 year old virgin?
Take this apply it across an entire country who is confused or intimidated by our in-
dependent and GPPS (gold-plated pussy syndrome) or pussy power women; then
what?
No one would be procreating and we would eventually become extinct. This is a de-
fiance of nature. All species naturally know how to perpetuate themselves without
anyone have to teach them. But something called the forced reality has changed this.
This social and cultural reality we have placed upon the traditional and biological real-
ity of our grandparent s generation (and the dominant paradigm in most of the world)
has thrown the power balance off and deeply affected man s behavior and how he
views women.
A wuss is blinded by a woman s beauty and the constant media exploitation of sex (I
call the blue balls syndrome where we can t get enough). It s just added value and
edification, so men think that anytime they see a hot woman they re going to want to
treat her like a Queen and put her on a pedastal.
I remember I never used to eat candy but during basic training we were put in an
environment where it s value was placed so high that people would pay $20 for a
candybar.
Aż�er we went through weeks of training and saying we couldn t have cake or candy,
the ice cream truck would roll up to the range we were at and everyone would run
over with their hands in the air and rifles still on semi (literally) and gorge out on can-
dy and ice cream.
Can you see the social proof going on here too, everyone else wants some .
I was aware of what was going on but got in on it too and never had so much candy
in my life as Army basic training (and I still ate the least in my squad). Why? It was
edified so much and taken away and then we could finally have some guys went nuts
over it.
This is essentially a forced or added value reality as well which applies in parallel to
how men view women...they re weak or have a soż� spot for any of the sweet sugar.
A wussies emotional response will be very high and uncontrollable because he is oper-
ating from the unnatural paradigm of viewing the world; that of the forced reality. He
will be nervous, insecure, hesitant, and lose all grounding in his own true self because
he is operating in the wrong reality which women don t respond to.
He is placing too much important on his perception of her beauty (founded from the
social exploitation that connects with a man s inner desire for sex) and placing it all on
her before he even knows what she is really like.
This really is selfish. His chance with a hot woman is next to none in our country.
Women still want men to be men despite their own sexed up appeal.
Women s behaviors are DRAMATICALLY different than women around the world
and I don t think our men realize this. I have good news: the way she is acting is NOT
natural so you can have some comfort there; and this is whether she is even aware of it
or not.
More good news; YOU, ME (previously), and other American men behaving like a
wuss is NOT natural. It s all founded upon this forced reality we ve built up and
is limiting your true success with women AND your longtime self-preservation and
peace. It s more than not just being a wuss anymore, you really have to understand
ALL of the implications, paradigms and behavior paż�erns.
You have to come from a reality which is stronger than the wuss producing forced re-
ality that our society has created that is 100% pervasive in our media. It s hard to be
different in taming your emotional response if you don t understand a stronger para-
digm that is more closely related to what she responds to anyways.
Let me say that you don t have to become a student of seduction or pick up or even
be a supergeek in order to experience natural success with women.
It s not just a thriving buzz-worthy subculture that deserve to have dating or relation-
ship success; it s the majority of the men in American and the women as well. In fact,
most men although a liż�le tense and desperate for sex (especially with the carrot being
waved in front of us all the time) just don t want to change their own behavior.
Liż�le do seduction experts realize that they are adapting to our own forced reality
while not even being aware of the natural paradigm that women are aching for (real
men who lead strong lives who aren t trying to pick them up but) where it happens
naturally.
Seduction experts are geż�ing laid but really are just finding effective ways to deal with
these women s high level social persona and how to counteraż�ack it by becoming rejec-
tion proof warriors (literally) of this new social dynamic.
Like I said, most men just aren t ready to go to that extreme in order to be successful,
they are just confused. They know that women want to meet real men like them but
are wondering why they aren t. Well, it s because they re acting wussy and giving her
the favor.
These men don t have to be jerks or bad boys to counteraż�ack not being a wuss (of
course that accelerates the biological aż�raction with these women) but there is a com-
pletely different paradigm that no one is seeing which has goż�en covered up; that we
are ALL naturals.
You can t be a wuss and to stop being a wuss and truly be yourself, you have to be-
come fully aware of your own inherent right to power and 100 other things. You have
the power and the forced reality is stripping away your success and a huge chunk of
your own balance, placement and lifelong happiness.
Once you understand fully what has been holding you back and realize there IS
another paradigm that women are desperate for men to be coming from INSTEAD of
being wussies (or even pick up artists which they will fall for now and then), and that
is that of a natural.
Dewussifying yourself can come through the mass understanding of all of these dy-
namics as taught in my Men s Guide to Women . It is THE single greatest tool for
dewussifying the American male because it covers the root psychological and social
issues that seducers and even 50/50 relationship counselors can t even see because
they re dwelling in the wrong paradigm in the first place.
If you re not going to go the route of seduction expert to try and get some from
women, but would rather have them be aż�racted to you and (like a more natural man
anyways) live in alignment with your true self and give women what they want, then
you re going to have to have a massive leverage of change to stop being a wussy. That
leverage really is all within the Men s Guide .
Surface solutions or the next pick up line just can t cut it; those are such short term fixes
that are variables anyways. Women really respond powerfully to a man who is fully
ground and congruent in his reality and there leverage to find these men is GREAT.
You have a decision.
Continue on with your behavior paż�erns (which aren t your foundational fault so
don t beat yourself up over it, but you re accountable for) or make the change; the mas-
sively leveraged changed and the only one that can bring you back into a level of pow-
er and control over your life that you ve never had yet.
When I achieved this breakthrough all of my fears of women disappeared because I
understood everything and how it all fit together . It is nothing less than seeing the
matrix because it IS our underlying foundational paradigm which has been clouded
over.
You can have this power. With seduction it could take 2 years of intensive in the field
experience to develop a persona to relate to women to get success; it s your call. Com-
bine both if you want but the REAL POWER lies in being a true natural and being your
real self without your perceptions of women upfront get in the way.
The Men s Guide is the only information like it in the world because it s context in-
cludes seduction, NLP and why they even have to do that in the first place.
Wussiness it NOT being a true natural. It s time to take your power back.
It s not about being a pure conservative traditionalist but really about understand-
ing why you deserve the power from all of the different angles. If you really want to
be around a woman who is your everything you need to step back and realize how
wussy this really is.
Does she really control your own actions and emotions that much? Are you like this
all of the time and how would your behavior be in the future when you re actually be-
ing your true self?
Taking your power back is all about understanding our forced reality , the natural
paradigm of reality as well as your options (for short term and long term success). I
am the only coach who is teaching both for real success on the male perspective, and
ultimately giving what women want in the short-term.
They just really have too many issues to solve for the long-term in relationships in or-
der to seż�le down and be like a simpler mother; she just vcomes with baggage (more
like a highly developed man like me except my role IS the provider).
I can t even give my approval stamp for independent American women for marriage
though they really are awesome people and some of the most fascinating women in
the world. Sadly enough many of them really are homewreckers without their own
knowledge or acknowledgement of it.
I would say that goes for alpha males specifically. If you re a man who wouldn t mind
some extra drama and challenge in your life and aren t as strongly goal oriented as oth-
ers, maybe it might work as 50/50 but it s all about you having the power and choice;
it s YOUR life.
Ironically a man will be more his normal self in a marriage situation when all of the
pressures are off only to find out that the pressures are actually on . Maybe it was
like me going through basic training and then thinking things would get beż�er at my
unit but it was the worst psychological time of my life. Things were supposed to be
ok , but got worse. Millions of American men have found this out.
How did this come about and are men naturally wussy? Remember the historical
truth; female empowerment (stemming from the early 20th century) has thrown off the
balance of the natural paradigm of relationships that worked. It is the root cause.
Because women have the opportunities, freedoms men do and in many cases are just
as capable or moreso than men in different areas, there is at best a balance of power
50/50 and oż�entimes completely in her favor. Women are very aware of their power.
So is female rights an issue?
Why do I bring it up? Isn t it something that we live with and take for granted? That s
the whole point. Despite it s double-edged sword (or burning the candle at both ends)
we have to live with the current state of our society.
However if we can understand WHY things are the way they are, and see something
different, you can beż�er live your life in natural harmony and alignment.
This empowerment has thrown off the balance of all types of interpersonal relation-
ships (though we are used to the work environment for several decades now). Her
now inherent power extends INTO her relationships. The relationship becomes two
people who are unknowingly struggling for power. She has demands and can take
care of herself just fine.
Men have become confused as to their natural and expected role as leader of the rela-
tionship and have understandably let this confusion oppress them. This has changed
their behavior paż�erns around women, partly because of intimidation and the high
level drama she brings with her and has led to a subtle shiż� of power.
A man has taken on more feminine qualities in the sense that he has become more
wussified . Our media and society does not help this either. What I call the forced re-
ality makes it even harder for men to understand their place in life. Men do not want
to be wussies but will oż�en act like it so as not to hurt an independent woman s social
persona.
Media propagation and the portrayal of men in sitcoms is only perpetuating this new
identity of the sensitive man, essentially being made to fit in a stronger female influ-
enced society. It is also directly or indirectly tied to the number of gay people we have
as well as the power of sex and beauty exploitation.
Men are being oppressed through cultural influence and perceptual expectations and
when they go home to a go-geż�er wife who voices more opinions than him, he sinks
further into his shell.
It is not directly our fault that we have been wussified as a national majority of men,
neither is it a woman s fault that she was brought up to be who she is...it s part of life
that we are used to.
Underneath the cultural forced reality which has been built up in the 20th century, lies
a traditional paradigm where women are forced biologically to respond to a man who
knows how to create aż�raction in the male first, female second relationship dynamic.
Underneath it all, man still has his biological right to power despite it s almost com-
plete smearing by our mass media except for a few male role models.
This means, if you can understand a different paradigm; (one in which most of the rest
of the world is aligned with) you can live a more naturally aligned life as a man. You
can rediscover your own power without shame or confusion and you can BE who you
were meant to be while laughing in the face at wussification and how it s unnaturally
been holding YOU back from clarity and living your life purposely.
Millions of lives are in relational turmoil because of the opposite effect of part of the
greatness of our culture. Families are being torn apart every single day in America.
Millions or billions of dollars won and lost yearly in ridiculous lawsuits by victimized
or gold-digger mentalities. Lives destroyed and why? I think you might be seeing it.
Maybe I wouldn t have to be so adamant if millions of mens lives really were being
massively affected.
What about lighter issues such as 40 year old virgins (which is NOT a light issue to
those who are it)? What about how women will oż�en reject men before they even ap-
proach her? Why do women treat men the way they do?
Why do men dread marriage and oż�en refer to it as a ball and chain? Why do a large
number of wives nag ? Is this natural? Keep reading..
Sadly, for our women, if men took all of their power back, women would be disadvan-
taged for long term relationships because men will find that there are generally FAR
more desirable women for marriage than an American woman.
The power right now is currently in women s favor and massively so for starting
relationships (despite what they may say, they don t want it to be). Unfortunately
millions of American men are limiting their thinking and geż�ing themselves into yet
another troubled relationship without understanding why or what is really going on.
The U.S. has a 50% divorce rate; second to none in the world. We have relationship
and marriage counselors who themselves have been divorced. Everyone is looking at
the surface level dynamics.
In fact, how we live today is so pervasive or saturated that we can t even remember
what it used to be like or see the real root of the problem. I guarantee you there are
grandparents leż� today that are shaking their heads at what has happened in our soci-
ety and marriage.
How is it that aż�er 57 years of marriage together, my remaining grandmother will still
talk to my grandfather aż�er his death (and they had rocky times), when today some
women will curse, nag, throw appliances at her husband and take him for everything
he s worth in a biż�er divorce?
What has changed here? What did MEN do to deserve this? Maybe act a liż�le friend-
ly or wussy to her when he met her and then seż�led into his comfortable own self
when they got married? Is this reason alone for the behavior paż�erns of millions of
American wives to nag?
Is money really the cause of divorce? What do you think? Money is an inanimate
object..too much of anything can be hazardous (ie. water). That s just an answer our
relationship counselors and others have come up with to try and explain because they
can t see what the real root of the problem is.
And yes it is a problem. Ask the millions of divorced men who were just being them-
selves in a marriage. Should marriage have to be like this?
I m here to bring some hope to men but also to explain a liż�le bit about where the wus-
sification came from and the dynamics in our long term relationships with our new
women. It will be up to you how you deal with it and make decisions in your life.
It s not your fault no one taught you this before or made you aware. It took me a de-
cade to finally see it aż�er much observation, objectification and insight. I ve had to
step outside our society many times and view things from a different perspective.
Is it a woman s fault for acting the way she does towards men or expecting so much?
She has even more power than men in many cases. It s how she was brought up.
These are great women that are really more like us (and in some cases smarter and
more capable), but just have a lot of drama for the long haul that I can t deal with.
Could you?
What is sad is that most American men can t explain why they are so confused when
it s comes to dealing with and especially living with American women. In their rela-
tionship they do not feel that everything is right.
I will be heavily focusing on marriage relationships here because I want to take you to
the end in mind so you are really aware of what is going on in our society. I will say
though that my DEwussification manual ( Men s Guide to Women eBook) will allow
you to have massive success with beautiful, independent women in shorter term rela-
tionships (consenting adults).
There is a great leverage of powerful knowledge in the Men s Guide which will allow
you to have natural success with women without having to become a super-devoted
PUA (pick up artist) or student of seduction. You will be able to give women what
they want as well as more fully understand the global dynamics I am introducing here.
Geż�ing that ebook is a simple solution for the American man to have much more suc-
cess in dating (loosely defined term) women. But the long-term implications of these
dynamic women leads to turmoil in at least half of all relationships in the U.S. because
the man thought he was supposed to have the power. She can t help being who she
is .
You can have the power if you so choose to stop any wussy behavior you have had,
clear away all confusion if you open your mind and be more successful in all of your
relationships with women while being more naturally aligned as a man.
Men do not want to be repressed; it s NOT in our nature. Our general wussification is
the pure result of the empowerment of women and the changing dynamics it presents.
I have personally felt oppression and wussification while in some relationships with
American women...I just stopped being myself around her..the glimmer in the tiger s
eye faded.
This is what our nation of men is going through and they KNOW that something isn t
right but they are having to deal with the challenge and trying hard to make relation-
ships work .
We ve all found ourselves going along with what our society is and preaches (on
feminine power) because it s now the part of the fabric of our nation and is probably
irreversible.
Despite it s advantages, not until I realized what dire problems this really reveals did I
understand why it s so important. Millions of men are confused when it comes to deal-
ing with women and relationships and especially marriage with our 50% divorce rate.
Millions of families are broken and not because of money . What is the reasoning be-
hind this? There IS reasoning and up until now it s just been invisible.
Some pussy-tranced men can t really see down the road when choosing to be around
an exciting fascinating desirable and drama-ful woman; she s everything . They also
don t realize that they re NOT acting like their real self when meeting her; they re put-
ting on a nice front to try to appease her when she knows what they want anyways.
But further down the road if he chooses a real go-geż�er, liż�le does he realize his price
to pay will be a lot of his own character in the power tradeoff. If she s the world to you,
she ll probably OWN YOU and there is trouble down the road unless you WANT to be
an oppressed and wussified man with nothing beż�er to do than to get your drama and
energy from your beauty queen .
If you re thinking she s the one and you d do anything for her, think about the long
term implications; is it really going to be like this a year into marriage or are you going
to be more who you really are as a man?
Many men are wussified because of our culture so much so that it is part of their char-
acter and personality permanently. This is sad but if they want to get their inspira-
tion from a woman who can unintentionally play the lead in the family, then maybe it
would work out.
But if the man is strong and the woman is strong, watch out (just look at our celebri-
ties). The signals are really quite obvious and can even begin if she orders something
from a restaurant and is extremely picky. There are signs that you can look for by us-
ing my fast forward technique to prevent future stress.
Why are men oż�en so afraid to stand up to women ? Especially in a long term rela-
tionship? Oż�en it may seem like a losing baż�le and they just let her have control due
to their confusion.
Hey, those men got themselves into that situation in the first place, but maybe they
didn t see it coming or didn t realize there were other options. Maybe they just didn t
see the signs.
American women generally today are so demanding, picky and finicky more than
EVER in the history of the world. Their qualities have become more like a man s yet
oż�en exacerbated due to their more emotional nature and actions are oż�en quite unex-
plainable.
Once again, am I the hardcore traditionalist who thinks a woman should be barefoot
and pregnant over the kitchen sink? No.
You see...the problem with the hardcore traditionalists is that they won t admit that
there have been women of power or influence who have added value to all of our lives.
They don t think that ANY women should have power.
Could you imagine how boring our world would be without that? If women wouldn t
be allowed to do anything like sing, dance, work, compete or build a business?
I just can t agree with the hardcore traditionalists on the angle that no woman should
have power. If it s up to me, hey, give more women power because I ll be dating them
short term and being friends with the rest of them BUT I just won t marry one unless I
expect drama and daily baż�les. There are other options for that, plus I understand the
macro dynamics, how to create aż�raction, etc..
I want peace in my life long term because I have too much drama in what I do for
work. Men have drama at work and are coming home to even greater drama. They
didn t ask for this level of stress (or did they unknowingly by marrying her?).
Marrying an independent go-geż�er woman could possibly be a losing proposition
for the average guy. Despite her positive aż�ributes, if you re married now to a strong
woman, please try to make it work and be very careful with the powerful information
you have now.
What you do is in your hands and I don t recommend that you start treating her much
differently just because you realize a few foundational things now. This information is
more geared towards single men to get them informed on our REAL social dynamics
and the implications it brings.
Of course in relationships there is love and I m not denying that. But there is also a lot
of additional baggage of drama and love/hate that men are finding out when they re
married.
Her behavior paż�erns will change. Sometimes within a week aż�er the honeymoon es-
pecially if she thinks you re a hot catch with a lot of money and even if you have it all
together yourself; she ll dupe you whether intentionally or not in many cases.
Look at Scarleż� O Hara and Rheż� Butler in Gone with the Wind . Same story. He had
it together and she was a feisty one that withheld sex from him.
I m a strong-minded man and no woman is going to hold me back or down in life. It
just cannot and will not happen. I know what my destiny is and you could offer me
Adriana Lima herself on the condition of I d have to give up my destiny and I would
without thought turn her down.
I wouldn t do it. Why would I get myself into a situation where anything prohibits me
from completing my life goals? What kind of magnet do you think I am for women if I
stand this strong? I also teach you in my work to develop your own strong lifestyle so
you can t be swayed by emotional response of the wrong paradigm.
If you choose a woman who is strong, beautiful, opinionated and independent there
are GOING to be consequences; it s a double-edged sword and aż�er a while you may
be asking what positive benefit there is at all especially once your perception of her
glory fades and the other side of her comes out.
Short term, as soon as you let a woman like this know how you feel is the time that
she will stop returning your phone calls. It s a predictable paż�ern.
Men today though are oż�en questioning their role as leader of the house because of the
constant demands on her part; hey, it s just part of who she is and now you have to live
with it.
It was like puż�ing my class reunion together where I was in control but my go-geż�er
vice president being outspoken as she is made it seem like she was doing all the work
(which was great, less for me).
I m a producer though...at one point she went weak and of course I pulled us through
in the end. But I couldn t imagine being married to a woman like this but wussy men
really are and maybe they don t mind; it s up to you to decide where you are.
A man will be himself and wondering what he is doing wrong (if anything)? Repres-
sion (which he didn t know about) on the woman s part will turn to nagging her hus-
band. Is this natural? It is for HER. She is socially conditioned to expect a lot and she
knows how to take care of herself, why should she have to listen to everything he says?
This is just pushing American husbands into a state of confusion and more wussifica-
tion. They re (understandably) questioning their own ability to lead the family when
they AREN T the problem in the first place; they re just living with an independent
woman.
And if that s just how they are ...well, I m not going to live with that, I m just going to
go a different route and find a woman who just doesn t come with all of the drama and
baggage in the first place anywhere near that level.
Men naturally know HOW to lead a family but women today are challenging that
with their actions. The power of women has thrown the traditional paradigm of bal-
ance off in a marriage.
Is it supposed to be 50/50? Two equal partners coming together? Hah. We only
THINK it is because that s all we ve been taught and shown. It s more like this 50/50
formula = 50% divorce rate.
Her behavioral characteristics are unknowingly threatening the very existence of the
relationship because the man IS being himself (and trying to) in the long term relation-
ship.
It s her power that defies all of tradition and has thrown the balance off and people
can t figure it out. There have been a few Joan of Arc s and Cleopatra s throughout
time but rarely like there are today in our culture.
There is no question in the Bible and I believe in all major religions that the man is the
obvious predestined head of household and it s not even to be questioned. But oh...
it s questioned by the feminists. How dare women be repressed through all of time?
which translates to our modern day How dare men know their place as head of the
house to keep the family together and try to tell her what to do?
Well..that s what s happening.
Traditional women KNOW their role and don t question it. They aren t on power trips
like many women in our society today (as we know why).
Our men are wussified and oppressed because of having to deal with their own wive s
more independent and mature/opinionated aż�ributes. They were the natural leader of
the house but her behaviors make them question everything.
Men should ultimately be their true self in a long term relationship and wussification
isn t leż�ing that happen because even though a husband may be comfortable on the
couch with a beer and her resentment grows into nagging, he is still being held back
partly in fear of the response she will have to more of his actions, like he s actually do-
ing something wrong or something.
There are different traditional roles that can be taken on so things are balanced. For
example the husband can earn 90% of the income and spend 10% of his time with the
kids while the wife spends 90% of the kids. 50/50 is just what we re accustomed to in
our culture. Balance in the marriage is traditionally more role focused, whereas now
that ground is fragile to walk on.
Will I start and raise a family? Yes, I want to. But for it to work, I m going to have to
get a wife who knows her biological and traditional role of taking care of the kids 90%
of the time, cleaning, cooking and supporting me while I provide for, protect them and
keep working on achieving my lifetime goals.
Imagine the train wreck or wrench just thrown into the system like so many American
men are experiencing DAILY when a wife won t do the basics of what he thought was
expected of her and when does do it, she nags.
I have SEEN this. My dad s been married several times and his latest wives would just
bitch, gripe, nag and complain about anything and nothing. HE had to do the cooking
because they wouldn t.
I ve been telling him for years that there are no options in Wisconsin. Sorry to say but
around there if there are ANY good looking women they re taken right away.
His small thinking leż� him limited to what was only surrounding him in a couple
counties but he is now opening his mind to other options aż�er the great drama and
trauma he has suffered through while he was just being himself during marriage.
One of my friends was married to a woman that would be a witch when I was there...
screaming, yelling and telling him to do things and what she s not going to do while
he and I were working on our business.
Finally they got divorced. I just can t imagine this level of drama in my life (100% un-
acceptable) or why ANY guy would want to put up with it. Divorce ISN T supposed
to happen but in our new reality it s EASY to see why. It s a power struggle.
If a guy can come home to a clean house and a good meal aż�er work without hearing
any drama or bickering, in today s day and age for millions of men that would just be a
sign from heaven and they would be so grateful.
What is WRONG with this picture? Nothing. That s how it used to be. That s how our
grandparents made it work. Hmm...Oh, but watch what you say around the feminists..
whatever.
I m not going to let a group of women who have histories of failed relationships or re-
sentment towards strong men tell me how to live what I know is universally and bio-
logically accurate. Are you? It s your life.
Remember who is going to give you less drama; the nagging resentful and repressed
wife at home or a wife who naturally does those things because it s how she was
brought (and more biologically accurate)?
I m talking about the liż�le things. Cooking and household chores geż�ing done WITH-
OUT any nagging. Is that even possible some guys ask? Of course. You probably
married a strong woman though if you re geż�ing the nagging issue and you re prob-
ably not doing anything wrong, just in her mind you are. It does NOT have to be like
this.
You shouldn t have to wonder Who s going to catch it next ? As my dad said about
one of my stepmothers who would throw kitchen utensils around and pound ham-
mers into doors.
Whether it s right for a more traditional woman to demand that her husband cook
or clean instead of her or that she should DEMAND more because she heard a bossy
American woman say she should be more independent who herself is successful in
work and other areas but has her life all screwed up in when it comes to relationships;
who do you want to hear it from? Why do you think the Russian bride trend is
growing?
I speak again for women around the world in most cultures; it s ok to want to care for
their kids and stay at home and hold the fort together as her main purpose in life. I
didn t realize how admirable this is until recently.
Raising kids is no small thing...I don t think I could deal with the time, demands, dra-
ma and stress of it (because it s not in my nature, nor most men s). A mother is sup-
posed to be the primary nurturer role, and the father secondary.
What is wrong with having a woman who actually supports you, does her natural
roles without complaining most of the time and gives you a massage once in a while (I
can hear the feminists cringe on this one)?
Nothing. You just have to find a woman who is naturally like that. My suggestion? Go
East. Far East. Because you will not find her in the U.S. unless you find an enclave of
naturally traditional women that haven t had the mainstream social influence and con-
ditioning.
Fathers can actually enjoy raising a family, living domestically with that perfect bal-
ance that has been right through all of the ages WITHOUT geż�ing a divorce or having
additional drama, keeping the family together if they get a wife who REALLY IS more
traditional and natural in her behavior paż�erns and beliefs.
Yes, they re not as exciting or drama-ful but will allow you to be your true self. And
they will be their true self because they haven t been brought up to demand things
from men. Marriage doesn t even seem half bad when you have an option like this.
Guys, many of you are going to HAVE to look outside the boundaries which our cul-
ture has set upon you. Our media itself is so pervasive that it s near impossible to es-
cape it s influence.
You can go anywhere in the world within 48 hours -ANYWHERE. You get on a plane.
Step off a plane and all of a sudden you re in a different country still holding the same
carry-on bag you had when you leż� (it still fascinates me). It s a refreshing break to
experience women who ARE more natural and who just don t bring the same level of
expectations and drama to the table.
With traditional women, it s not that the man is repressing them; they KNOW what
to do as wife or mother and will respect the word of the head of the household, the
man. Of course he should not abuse his role though.
Guys, there s nothing wrong wanting to come home when you re married aż�er a hard
day s work and expecting food to be cooked and your wife to give you a kiss on the
cheek without nagging. Actually, there is something wrong with that if you re married
to a woman who is too combatant.
It s only been recently and because of the power our society has given women that
have things changed. Yes, our men have been confused as to this power shiż�. The
women just expect things will work out and that they ll make it work .
But modern day man is being repressed and wussified due to these changes. What
happened to tradition? Women today in American just ARE different. It s up to YOU
whether you want to live with that and feel the effects of some wussification (whether
you admit it or not).
Divorce rates of American men marrying foreign women are of course much lower
than American man and woman geż�ing divorced. Why do you think this is? Some-
thing just really IS DIFFERENT about most of the other women in the world. What s
different? They re normal. They re traditional. They haven t been brainwashed by
social programming in a way.
Here s the thing...I ve never been aż�racted to the traditional American woman whose
only goal was to get married and have a family. Now I really respect that like never be-
fore. HOWEVER, I m still not interested in American women even like that for geż�ing
married too.
Ultimately yes I may have to seż�le for quite a bit more boring wife (by some terms)
yet one that will not bring all the B.S. drama that a guy just doesn t need in his life.
Wouldn t it be nice when you re ready to have a wife who will support you and know
her traditional role because you re playing yours?
I m interested in international women especially from Asia now who are more tradi-
tional naturally yet to me they aren t as boring as American traditional women. They
have something different, an intriguing twist and a lot of it has to do with the black
hair.
I think generally blonde women are overrated anyways. Why is there just bruneż�e s
and it stops there? Black haired women represent the majority of women in the world
and aren t even represented with a name in the U.S. until now; I call them ravens .
If men today could open their eyes to other options they might figure out that what
would work best for them in the long run is to consider a more traditional wife who
can fully allow the man to be himself and lead the family without any drama or chal-
lenge .
In today s society in America though, our wussification has become so strong it affects
man s behavior around women so that maybe he thinks he would want a woman like
this for the long run.
Think about the future and be aware of your options. Look at what s really going on.
Do you WANT to get divorced and have drama in your life? 50% is a very high num-
ber and a high probability. I want to give YOU the power of awareness so you can
choose.
I understand and accept the responsibility if it comes down to it that I am speaking for
millions and millions of American men. I have that courage to stand up to the media
and represent us.
So if you got a major news media connection, hey let me know. Now...do you think I m
going to be afraid of ANY woman who thinks her sh*t don t stink? No. You have to
be strong in who you are as a man and not let your perception of her beauty stop you
from being your true self at all points in time.
Women today want men to be like men and act like men. They don t want men treat-
ing them like they are the world; they want you to have your own life going on. It de-
fies biology and tradition itself for HER to be in control (today s women won t say this
but they know and feel it).
You have to look at her actions instead of her words. Women are just as confused as
men but in different ways. They expect men to stand up and be men despite their own
feminine empowerment which is basically on his level.
She can t tell a man how to act; he just has to know. Wussified men are NOT acting
normally or naturally and stand liż�le chance with the hoż�est women.
So I guess my challenge to you is; are you going to be a man and reclaim your inherent
right to power? Are you going to stop puż�ing up with American women s manipula-
tive behavior because you finally see what s going on and the reasoning behind all of
it?
That s up to you. Put your foot down (I m talking to single guys). You don t have to
put up with any drama that violates your independent paradigm of reality; you don t
have time for it and don t accept.
In short term relationships this creates aż�raction; long term it will lead to nagging just
because of the type of woman we re dealing with. You can t tame the shrew long
term.
American women feel a gut level aż�raction to the bad boy . Why? Because he s really
the opposite balance of her in many ways even though it s not someone she would
seż�le down with.
These women are more likely to get involved with a bad boy because they are them-
selves strong and need that level of emotional and sensual kick that is missing from
their lives.
Now...healthy women from around the world will just plain STAY CLEAR AND AWAY
from these bad boys because they know that they will probably abuse them. Now they
may still have sexual fantasies about that and I m with the women on that.
Just because a women may daydream of rape and the scintillating thrill that may come
with it doesn t mean that a guy should EVER rape a woman. Always, ALWAYS have
consensual relations.
Would you sacrifice being yourself just so you could have the pleasure of being
around a beautiful woman? For the long term? Where s your own dignity and self-
respect? The women that you really want are aż�racted to men who know what they
want and where they re going.
So what is the type of man a woman would seż�le down with? Hopefully one that acts
like a man in the sense that he is the obvious leader of the relationship. Unfortunately
our women are so socially conditioned to have high expectations along with their own
empowerment and independence that they WILL resent a man that tries to hold them
down .
I don t want to marry a woman who is as independent and developed as men because I
have strong lifetime goals. Many women today will wipe a man clean and try and get
all of his money. It s in their nature and is unfortunately a very American thing.
I think there s a balance...we offer the most value to the world in many ways but there
are just as many screwed up things about our country as there are good things it
seems. Litigations uncomparable to other countries, victim mentality , poverty, di-
vorce rate, gold-diggers, etc.
You know what is really geż�ing irritating? The way that American men are now
portrayed in television on sitcoms. I don t even fall into the trap of watching that crap.
I watch movies and if I do watch t.v. it s for an event or 1 or 2 shows I ll follow each
year.
But I ve heard that it s geż�ing worse and worse. American men are being portrayed
as bumbling stupid imbeciles who are weak, can t make decisions and the women are
strong and will save the day?
This is preposterous. What does this say about our nation? Where are the real men to
stand up to this crap?! I will. How about you? It s pathetic and I suppose it s mostly
women watching it (so they get even more independent) but come on..
Clear wussification.
Oh, a lot of guys have fallen into that trap though...met a beautiful woman who was
everything they thought they wanted and there were sparks and romance because she
was a strong desirable woman.
Then the honeymoon is over and they realize what they ve got themselves into and
she s happy. It was her goal to snag a man . That s not a bad goal because it s tradi-
tional except there s a whole underlying subtext in which you may find yourself strug-
gling for power, handing over more money to her than you thought you would, etc.
Independent women can provide short term passion, drama and romance at the level
that more traditional women just can t. And of course men like you and me can give
them this much desired emotion and drama or fulfillment that they crave on a short
term (even drama-free) basis.
The more traditional women though...they re more stable...they have to be stable to
raise a family properly. The downside is they re not going to be as exciting and this is
something I ll probably have to concede in order to have a stable, happy family where
I can be myself.
Hey if you re a guy who doesn t have a life plan and doesn t want one...you might en-
joy the drama that a beautiful American woman can bring to your life. She can be the
light in your life but you re going to have to suck up that energy of hers and be strug-
gling with power or mutual decisions (and mutual arguments) all of the time.
As a man you have to have standards.
Fortunately (for many men) American women are now bending those standards
because they can now be aż�racted to guys that aren t at their level of physical appear-
ance or beauty.
This gives average or augly guys a chance for once in history to get a hot woman.
Otherwise, traditionally it would rarely ever happen I believe in your same country
unless there was a forced marriage or he was really rich.
Actually now, I ve seen fat balding old guys get hot young women from asian coun-
tries. Now part of this aż�raction does have to do with money and opportunity but
really the foundation is that he ll take care of her ; and that s her way of surviving and
perpetuating.
Just don t look at the guys to judge the girls because they really are of the highest qual-
ity and those guys are keeping it a secret.
Well up until now maybe it has been a secret but if you haven t been to Thailand you
just have NO idea. No idea. I m not just talking about bar girls either. You ll find that
the entire Thai culture is about the happiest people on earth. They have a level of
respect that I haven t seen in most of America.
There are hidden droves of real Thai women that aren t bar girls who would really
make perfect wives. I m keeping a few options on the burner for when I might be
ready.
Now feminists would cringe at the word perfect wife but why? Only because they re
not going to be the perfect wife. They ll easily complain that they don t have the per-
fect husband .
That leaves something amiss with them and they can t figure out why they can t hold
a relationship unless it s with a wussy guy who isn t being his natural self either.
All of this information may shock you. It may bring to you tears. It may cause you to
beat your chest and scream like Tarzan and it may change your life - really. Marriage
CAN actually be a pleasant, blissful experience of harmony instead of a daily struggle
of being tied down with a prison ball and chain.
Traditional marriage dynamics are what works and has through all of time. This is
where a man is NOT wussified, nor is he challenged in his role as head of the house.
Is it a long term plan? If you want to be a lifetime bachelor and stay in the US. go for it.
But eventually you might want to seż�le down with a more emotionally stable woman
who won t continue to give you the drama.
I have an Uncle whose wife basically controls everything and he just resents it but
they re still married because they re old time Christians who aren t supposed to di-
vorce.
Is THAT what marriage is supposed to be like? Millions of couples stay together
because of the kids . Come on though; the marriage is that fragile? Hey feminists,
women didn t used to be locked in they actually enjoyed their housewife role and
didn t give the drama and nagging you women do now.
If you re geż�ing divorced because of some of these issues. Please try to just foresee the
future of what she s going to be like and ask yourself if you can deal with it. I ve given
my dad this advice years ago and he s still hasn t figured it out and it s cost him a lot of
money and hardship.
Women today in America naturally ARE more assertive it s WHO they are. You can t
try and tame the shrew effectively long term. Shakespeare didn t tell the rest of the
story. Just understand that you re ACCEPTING to deal with her drama by choosing an
independent woman for however long with the relationship in THE FIRST PLACE.
If you go for the more traditional woman who would yes make a beż�er wife, just try to
not break her heart if she isn t the one for you as these women are actually more frag-
ile than the fully independent ones.
Now, more traditional women may actually expect a lot more of you in terms of com-
mitment. So just be careful and know when you re ready. They re expectations may be
quite high for marriage, but I want you to have the power and choice. They may want
you to marry them on even a short notice. It s their natural instinct.
Long-Term Relational Recap
Let me revisit Stepford Wives . There is a lot going on here and I highly recommend
you read the book or see the movie. Maż�hew Broderick plays the nice guy husband
to a strong independent wife Nicole Kidman .
Without saying, she s wearing the pants in the family and the power is swayed her
way. They move to Stepford Connecticut and without giving away all of the details,
the main thing going on is this; everything seems perfect. Too perfect.
All of the wives are happy, good looking, respectful of their husbands, supportive, stay
home to cook and clean, etc. All of the husbands ( wussies ) meet at the country club.
Eventually we find out that all of the husbands were nice guys and they re women
were really strong minded.
I understand that you shouldn t in reality change a woman who is really strong back
down to the more basics . You just might have to start off with a woman who never
gets all of these ideas of dominative tendencies as part of her character and psyche in
the first.
Who is going to hold a beż�er house? A nagging, complaining woman (who complains
about anything and nothing) or a more traditional wifey who WANTS to play her tra-
ditional role because that s who SHE is.
America is outspoken. And I ll speak for the probably 1.5 billion housewives around
the world to say that you should be proud of what you are doing. It takes a lot to dedi-
cate yourself to raising a family and keeping house. It is a NOBLE thing and don t let
any American outspoken feminazi tell you otherwise.
Am I also proposing like The Rock says (I almost met him and Seann William Scoż�
once in the same VIP lounge), Know your role! Well...actually, yeah but it s trickier
than that.
Unfortunately you re not going to be able to take a developed woman and take her
back down to the basics as happened in Stepford Wives by taming the shrew .
So really the answer for me and perhaps millions of other American men (and men
around the world) may be to not get in that losing proposition in the long term in the
first place. Look beyond what a catch SHE is and take your own power back.
We can start a movement here. We really could. We can bring back power to the
American man. Then what will American women do? You can take your own power
back because you were MEANT to have it.
This is why our country s so screwed up in relationships; the balance of power has
tilted the other way. Women have more power than men realize and women know it
too, just ultimately resent it.
It would be kind of biż�ersweet for these desirable American women to run out of long
term actions BECAUSE OF her own dramaful behavior if all of the men in America
took their own power back and looked at more reasonable options for wives...maybe
THEN the women would tame down, I don t know. But this is issue will continue.
I didn t realize how much power women have (in America)...it s more than you think.
Of course it didn t make sense to me because it didn t seem natural but it really is true
and most women know this.
They know that they can get things from men when they want by using their feminine
power and beauty. I go into this in great detail in my Men s Guide to Women 352
page eBook.
Popular culture has continued to pervade this reality. From Madonna s Material Girl
to Destiny s Child Independent Women to even the prospect of a woman running for
President (Hillary Rodham Clinton).
The feminist and feminazi s can be all hardcore but it s really just the American family,
marriages and the kids that are suffering because of it. American men are confused
and know that something doesn t seem right even though they re doing their part
naturally but their wife actually is geż�ing in the way .
If you re an American man that hasn t gone out of the country to try your hand with
women elsewhere, try it! BELIEVE ME...you DON T know what you re missing. You ll
be surprised at how easy it is just to be normal and women will actually respond.
Especially in 2nd or 3rd world countries; you ll find that mutually beneficial relation-
ships are natural and pleasing compared to the level of drama with American women
with headtrips.
The dynamics have shiż�ed and vastly changed in America. Women do have a lot of
power. I know of a lot of families where the woman in the house DOES have the pow-
er. Really..she s become the head and controls the money and decisions. Is it right or
wrong? You can decide where you stand for yourself. Each family for themselves.
And as long as there is a balance between the two to make decisions and work things
out a marriage between two independent people could work out but with a lot of de-
bate, compromise and consolation.
Now if you re an American man and married to an independent strong minded wom-
an am I suggesting that you all of a sudden start telling her what to do and expecting
more out of her? No.
There is a balance of responsibility. I really DO think that if you can t hire a maid, that
the woman should do the cleaning and cooking and be a housewife in a marriage. If
you re single, decide where you stand on this.
In a 50/50 American relationship your wife may not expect to do all of these traditional
roles and when she does, may grow up a building resentment towards you for just
being yourself which leads to nagging. She s not used to being treated down (in her
perception).
So many women now are like, Don t cross my line buddy. Am I saying that women
are supposed to be weaker? No. Just naturally as in most cultures around the world,
they know what their role is to nurture the kids and stay home to take care of the
house; this requires a lot of strength, perseverance and stamina.
You re not going to find it in relationship counselors. What a field to be in eh? Many
of them have divorced as well. They grew up in this society and they can t see beyond
these walls or the big picture of what s going on.
Bluntly put: The power our society has given to women by empowering them has led
to the degradation of Biblical and traditional foundations built around the natural role
of family. Families are broken. And is it because the man isn t providing?
No, he is almost always doing his role. It s usually because the woman is more inde-
pendent than her counterpart in other countries or her great grandmother was. THAT
IS WHY.
There s nothing wrong with what has led to female empowerment except that it is the
main reason why families fall apart and no one can see this. People say it s money why
people divorce. No. Money s neutral. Money s a tool, a thought. Most people make
enough money to cover their family and surviving, hello.
It s arguing over money. Let s see here...independent woman who loves to shop and
isn t as content as her counterpart great grandmother versus the husband who in
most cases is trying to keep it together.
THE REASON FOR DIVORCE ISN T MONEY. Like I said there s something invisible
going on that no one can see until now. It s crept into our entire society and way of
living. The invisible-ness is her empowerment, for beż�er or worse (is THAT right?)
Not only that, we ve glorified and empowered. Of course it s expected an Ameri-
can woman will have her way because she knows how to take care of herself . Then
comes the power struggle in a relationship because the man knows how to do that
naturally so they bicker. And the drama ensues.
Let me say again; I love independent women because they are strong like a real man
(mentally) except still feminine in their ways. I can talk with them. They have inter-
esting things to say. We re on the same level in many ways.
Would I marry one? Not unless I want to bring SUPER drama into my daily life. I m
talking unnecessary drama. I am an alpha male provider and I don t do certain things
period. Someone like me should really marry someone who is my opposite and I don t
mean opposite as equal. I mean polar opposite.
So if you re a strong male personality for the LONG TERM try and get a wifey that will
not give you additional drama about the roles YOU expect her to have and do.
Do we as guys NAG and COMPLAIN to women about work and our jobs or whatev-
er? For the most part NO. Then why in America if men are being men and providing
without complaining are our women just nagging and complaining about every liż�le
thing?
It IS a cultural thing. It s so permeated into our way of living that we don t even see it
anymore. But it just hurts marriages.
A woman in America today..it s just naturally going to be harder for Her to go back to
a traditional role because she wasn t brought up in it. So much of American marriages
are a power struggle.
I strongly BELIEVE in pertaining to a father s role that it s more important to spend
quality time than quantity time with your kids.
It s ok to be out there providing for your family but do make sure that you do spend
quality time with them and love them and create unforgeż�able memories. On that
note, I also think it s the wife s role to spend most of the quantity time. Really.
So what is the answer for a strong independent woman? My advice for Nicole Kidman
is just to find a lowkey wussboy of a man; seriously. Because then the relationship will
be balanced because she can be her independent self and the man would be willing to
just be there for her.
SUMMARY
Ok, I know that the relationship part was kind of long but I just kept writing when I
wrote it and wanted to include it. It s important things to think about, not from a frus-
trated American man s viewpoint but from one who doesn t accept such drama or give
in to anything that would violate his own reality.
I recommend that you develop your own strong life goals and reality and instead of
focusing so much energy on women, step back and let them come to you. Be selective
and don t act like you have to have sex with (and show it) every single hot girl that
walks by.
So, yes the relationship material was important to look at here because there are two
sides to this story here:
The Wussification of the American Male AND dealing with her power for the long run.
I ve included that information to help you get a picture that you aren t the only one at
fault (though you are accountable for who you are) if you have been acting wussy
(remember I used to be one too from pure confusion).
Women are NOT acting naturally and that is the primary cause for the behavior pat-
tern of wussiness in male American society. Also men are partly to blame by leż�ing
our forced reality of added value and sexuality get to them so much that it really
DOES affect their behavior so that they get skerred and incongruent with who they
really are any time they see a hot woman.
Ultimately, I think all of us as men have had wussy behaviors in relating to women
purely because of how we were brought up in our society and culture which perpetu-
ates a forced reality on top of the natural paradigm of aż�raction and mating where
your true success lies. Being a wussy is unnatural; center your life on principles.
It s your call now...you know too much. Your aware of information most men will go
their whole lives without and that which is will oż�en destroy them and massively
affect their true character and strength of being a man. At least be aware and
empowered yourself. You have more self-control and power than you know of.
For complete DEwussification, you ll have to get my Men s Guide to Women where I
The Men s Guide to Women:
Chapter Titles
The Great (Dating) Paradox
Your Greatest Breakthrough: Profound Universal Paradigm
Why Mom Was Right & What Went Wrong
Prehistory of Her Empowerment: Tradition
Feminism: Double-Edged Sword
What the Traditionalists are Missing
Sexual Revolution: A Flock of Seagulls?
Pedestal: The Pervasive Illusion of Forced Reality
Global Reality Check & Cultural Differentiation
What Dating Experts & Marriage Counselors are Missing
The Oppression of Modern Manhood
Sex Sells: Pussytrance & the Stripclub Project
The 40 Year Old Virgins
Paradox Outlets & The Russian Bride Trend
Denying Invisible Forced Reality & Your Oppression
Compound Regression & Reclaiming Back Years of Your Life
Opportunities of our Modern Social Dynamics
Redefining Dating for Your Lifestyle
Sex & the Modern Metro Woman
Similarities Between Average Girls & Models: Take Your Pick
Uber Player: AMP
NLP, Pick-up Lines & Techniques vs. Your New Reality
Your Secret Weapon: Indifference
Return to Blue Lagoon
Where have all the Cowboys Gone?
Drama Queen: How a Beautiful Woman or Model Thinks
Traditional vs. Independent Female Psychology
What Women Want
Being a Man & Her Take on Nice Guys
Down Boy!: Your Emotional Control & Anti-Drama Solvency
The Baż�le of Realities
Breaking Her Illusory Weapons Grade Social Persona
The Importance of Action & Without Fear
Evasive Maneuver & Tactics
Stealing Her Frame
Fast Forward Power Technique
A Shark Tale: Your Greatest Leverage for Wisdom & Action
Money & Other Dynamics: A virtual non-issue
Shy guy? No Problems
Diamond Clarity: Leading the Direction
Natural Progression to Sex & Why You re Already OK
Techniques for Further Internalization & Grounding
Interdependent Relations with Women Everywhere
International Player & Interracial Dating
Passion or Coincidence?
An Objective View of Bitches & Ho s In Our Society
Pussy Control
With or Without Her: Love Song Lyrics & You
Sex, Lies and Videotape:
When Stars Collide
Long Term Relationship & Marriage Dynamics
Baż�le of the Sexes for a Reason
Taming of the Shrew?
50% Divorce Rate
Divorce Prevention
Center of your Universe
The Rules for Men
Becoming Congruent with your Own Reality
Empowering Incantations & Beliefs
Manifestations: Proof of your New Reality
Be Cool
Be Her Hero
A Whole New World
Social Buż�erfly
The World Is Yours: Recap
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