Real Social
Dynamics
Why Am I Here ?
The Tim Story.
What Is Your Game?
The Champ and
The Chump
100% belief
" Deserving
" Offers Value To The World
" Abundance Mentality
" Delusional Sense Of Coolness
Oksooooo ....
REM. SOCIAL DYNAMCS
The Number 1 Rule
Application
(NY GF)
The Party (woooo!)
Be the party everywhere
" What does PARTY mean ?
" Self talk
" Fashion
" Venus fly trap of desire
" Remember No 1 Rule
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The Rosetta Stone
Key 1 - how we ARE
TR
NR
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Key 2 - what we DO
i Emotions vs Logic
i Attraction
i Emotional Spike
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Key 2 cont...
PREDICTABILITY
Chump
Ok / Bearable
Intriguing / Entertaining / Fun
Sexworthy
KAISOCIM DYNAMICS
Key 3 - How we do it
Pickup theory list
i What is the REAL scenario ?
i You are my NEW ...
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The Important Things
Be the party, champ !
i Vegas Baby
i Life like a movie
*REAt SOdAl DYNAMICS
What does it all MEAN ?
" Picking up girls is merely a
CELEBRATION OF YOU
" Your CORE - Who ARE YOU ?
" The tough times make you
*REAl SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Mastery
" The virtue of mediocrity
" Man to the CORE
" Man up or Die
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Thank You
Party up !
Closing Definition
i Phone Numbers
i Kissing (on the lips)
i Make-Outs
i Extraction
i When you are a Closer (you do them all)
To know is to be (be, not just know
technique)
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Why People Don't Close
" Losing The Girl
" Self Esteem/Ego Protection
" Fear Of Rejection (Pain/Pleasure)
" Outcome orientation vs emotional involvement
with outcome (Nintendo analogy, really excited
about playing again)
" Signal syndrome (the signal that never comes)
a.k.a. IOIs (Indicators of Interest)
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
This talk is not about attraction
" Closer assumes attraction.(coolest guy)
" I am not going to deal with attraction.
" Starting at the end. (if you see a closer at work,
you will see that they almost dont "game". They
start at the end. It is on.)
" Everybody has these qualities. Closer qualities.
Social conditioning obliterates them and sinks
them into your unconscious. If you are listening,
that means "you too".
" People that dont wanna be helped.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Role of Kino in Closing
Kino Right Off The Bat (on high notes)
Keep The Kino Going Through Out
Weird Kino/Solid Kino (high fives, games,
hip bumping)
Reward Principle In Kino
REAL SOCIAl DYNAMICS
Isolation as the Only Goal in this
Game
" Isolation 5 feet away from the group
D(her back to the group)
" Isolation to the bar
" Isolation "1 want to show you something".
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Why People Don't Isolate
i Too Much Befriending
i Excessive "Gaming"
i Fear of Being One-on-One (fear of being
caught)
i Fear of Leading (rejection)
i Etc.
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Some of the Lines that I Use to
Close
" Reverse psychology (Saying exactly the opposite of you
want to happen)
" Some lines
D 'You probably can't kiss well."
D "We would probably not work out in bed anyway."
n "You are not my type."
D " I don't do that anymore."
D "I am out of the sex thing. It is hippie shT
G "Don't tell me you like sex!"
n "Sex is dirty. In the future people wont have sex. They will use
some mental energy exchange sh*t; it will be clean and
spiritual.", etc.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
State Based Closing
" Pump Her State (you need to be pumped first)
" High Energy in Closing
" Close on a High Note (like everything in the
game)
" Conveying you are hitting buying temperature
a "I am feeling different with you."
a "I don't want to do anything I might regret."
D "You are making me feel funny; you make me feel like^
kissing you right now."
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Leading Frame
Prime Mover-lead The Way
Lead With Game-stories, Teaching Her Stuff,
Etc. (take her to your turf, world by storm)
For The First 10 To 20 Minutes, You Got To
Lead The Conversation - Keep Talking
Engage Friends And Obstacles-don't Be Afraid
To Talk To The Others, Etc.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Internalizing the Leading Frame
Nothing to lose. Be in the moment. There is
nothing to be lost or gained.
Treat every woman as if she was a child or your
little sister
Women need to be led. (women say there are
no real men anymore)
Why guys don't lead.
Take responsibility for being a man. (having a
iiiiiiiim
dick, being the aggressor, women expect you to,
fulfil your role) "*
REAL SOCIAl DYNAMICS
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Dealing with Make Outs in Clubs
Don't Be The Tacky Make Out Guy
Most Make Out Guys Don't Pull
Break Make Outs First And On A High
(keep her coming for more, don't give her
everything)
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Dance Floor Game
" Why?
" Shortcut To Closing, Kino, Getting
Physical, Etc.
" Pumps Your State Up And Her State Too
" Getting Physical Quickly
REAL SOCIAl DYNAMICS
What it looks like
State for the Dance Floor
Girl Won't Grind Unless You Are Having
Fun
Get Yourself Into Mega State
Learn A Couple Of Moves (you don't need
to be perfect)
REAL SGCIAt DYNAMICS
Approaching on the Dance Floor
Look For Girls That Are Having Fun
Hit Them At The Same Or Higher Level Of
Energy
Dance With Them ALL (dance floor
befriending)
REAt SOCIAL DYNAMICS
How to Approach on the Dance
Floor
" Approach Sideways And Dance With Her
Sideways.
" High Five Them When Responsive (reward
good behaviour)
" Dance Back To Back With Them.
" Ease Yourself In, Don't Push It Too Hard Too
Soon.
" Have Fun With Them.
REAL SOCIAl DYNAMICS
Dance Floor Monkey Syndrome
Make Sure You Don't Become "Dance" Partner
For The Night.
Don't Stay There The Whole Night Unless You
Close.
Pull Her Out Of The Dance Floor, First Chance.
Establish Kino And See If She Is Compliant.
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Dance Floor Isolation
" Once The Set Is Open And Stabilized
"Let's Go Dance"
" Get Physical
" Close (go for the kiss)
" Easier To Screen Out Possible ONS, Etc.
" Go Back To The Dance Floor A Couple Of
Times
REAl SOCIAl DYNAMICS
Different Extraction Tactics
" Car Extractions
" Food Extractions
" No Reason Extractions
REAl SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Extractions and Extraction Mindset
Leading Frame (be firm but not needy)
Don't Be Afraid To Lose The Girl
Do It On A High (when you break a make-
out or after getting her horny, and she's
moaning)
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Working the Group for Extractions
Befriend The Group Prior
Befriend Group Leader (group will follow
leader)
Befriend Fatty In The Group (fatty won't go
home alone)
"RŁAI SOQAt DYNAMICS
Working a 2-set for Extractions
Work Both Girls
Slowly Give More Attention To Target
Friend Will Go To Toilet Or Disappear
Bring Chode In The Set (work the chode)
"Hey, she is horny, but she is just playing
hard to get", "It is yours, man". "Don't give
up on her".
REAL SOCIAl DYNAMICS
Food Extractions
Why Food? It Is Innocent, Logical, Illusion
Of A Date
i Work The Group: "Let's go and have
something to eat."
Set The Frame Earlier In The Set: "I am so
hungry, we should go eat later."
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Car Extractions
Why? Women Wont Object To Your Car But Will
Object Going Home With You.
Set Up Your Car In Dark Alley Or Sex-Friendly
Location
Set The Frame Early "Don't worry, I will give you
A ride home later."
"Let's Go For A Walk"- You Walk Towards Your
Car "Randomly."
Easier To Have Sex In The Car Than At Home.
REM SOCIAL DYNAMICS
"No Reason" Extractions
Strong Leading Frame (don't take "no" for
an answer)
Do It On A High
"Let's go" "Where?" "Don't worry". Keep It
Short And Simple.
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Thoughts for Turning Her On In
Bed: LMR Prevention
" "I am tired" frame
" "You won't get it up tonight anyways"
" Make Her Horny And Give Her Your Back
On A High.
REAL SOCIAt DYNAMICS
Being Cool with Her About the
ONS (One Night Stand)
" Make Sure She Doesn't Feel Judged
" "Oh, my god, this is crazy, I normally don't
do this."
" Phrase Her Thoughts For Her: "I cant
believe I am so turned on; I just met you.
This is so unusual for me.", etc.
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Be Fair With Her
i Don't Give Her False Expectations
Be Cool About The ONS. Frame It As: "It
happened."
i Don't Ever Talk About What Happened
Judgmentally, Etc.
REAL SOOAt DYNAMICS
Give Little or No Importance to Sex
" Why? Women Wont Give It Either. A Woman
Can Have Sex Anytime She Wants.
" In The End, Nothing Is Gained Or Lost.
" Be Fun. Sex Is Fun, Not Some Dirty Thing That
We Have To Hide. Frame It.
" The Less Important Sex Is To You, The More
You Will Be Offered It. The Less You Need It,
The More You Are Gonna Get.
" Erase Sex From Your Mind When Interacting
With Women.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
On Becoming a Closer
When You Are Afraid To Close, That's Usually
The Best Time To Do It.
Attach No Importance To The Fact That You Are
Closing Her. Be Cool.
Don't Think Of Sex When Closing. Remove Sex
From Your Head. Focus On Fun, Etc.
The Most Important Step In Closing Is: Closing!
The More You Try To Close, The More Pussy
You Will Get.
REAL SOOAl DYNAMICS
The Care and Feeding of
Your Game
The Sagaof JIaix
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Why I Left: The Fallout
Dark times
Game made my problems WORSE
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Redemption
Leverage
Spain
Perspective
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
The Validation Issue
Significance
Celibacy
My Game Now
*!�
REAlSOCIAt DYNAMICS
Balance
Your Life
Goals
Improvement
REAl SOCIAL OYNAMICS
Focus
" The Attraction Principle
" Positivity
" Frame Control
" State Control
" Self-Defeating Tendencies
REAL SOCIAl DYNAMICS
The Fundamentals
Coach John Wooden
You're never "too good."
Discipline
Intent
Process over outcome
Flexibility
REAISOCW. DYNAMICS
"The Zone"
" What is it?
" Having fun vs. "picking up:
" Play to win
REM SOCfAl DYNAMICS
Play to Your Strengths
Niches
The Ungayer
REAL SOOAl DYNAMICS
The Naturally Attractive Character
Not a shadow dweller
Be unique
Emotionally affecting others
1^1
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Rhythm
What it is
Why it is so important
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Being a Man
i The male/female dynamic
i Female emotional response
i Think about how you make your points
i Be concise
i Facing your fear
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Don't Drink the Haterade
It's okay to get hated on.
The "Generalized Other"
Don't worry about your reputation, that's just
what people think about you. Worry about your
character, because that's who you really ARE.
Karma
Buddha's thoughts
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Your Championship Team
Maintaining a healthy social circle
The value of female friends
REAlSOOAl DYNAMICS
Contribution: Giving Value
The relationship equation
i Contribution IS significance, not
"supplication"
Consistency, not perfection
This is a gift.
ffiAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
The Adventures
of Hoobie
What I expect from you today.
" This will be another day of dense material.
" Like drinking water from a fire hose.
" Be an active listener and if you are called
up, be an enthusiastic participant in the
seminar.
REAL 50CJAI DYNAMICS
Affirmations
" I am proud of my desires as a man.
" I move through the world without apology.
" I was made to satisfy women.
" I don't need any particular woman.
" Women are abundant.
REAtSOOAt DYNAMICS
Affirmations (cont...)
I do not dwell on the past. The past can not be
re-lived. Good or bad.
Rejection is a great thing. The more I get
rejected, the more I will get laid.
There are no mistakes, and no failures - only
experience and growth.
Every rejection becomes a brick in my palace.
I can controi how I interact with other people.
The choice is mine.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Introduction
My Story. The journey of one PUA.
My personal understanding on commonly
held beliefs, and my interpretation and
integration of them.
The path to becoming a fully fledged
PUA. The different stages you will go
through.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
My Story: Where was I four years
ago?
" Where I came from.
" Before (2002):
My former destiny
REAL SOOAt DYNAMICS
2003: The Year of My Rebirth.
Overhauling my personal self doubts and the
gradual breaking down of these as I gained more
experience and overhauled my belief system.
Books - Personally for me books that affected me
the most were ones relating to evolutionary biology.
Mainly because they exposed how contrived our
social constructs are.
"The Selfish Gene" by Richard Dawkins.
The people that I met.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Where Am I Now?
In love.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
My Options and Choices
Girls, girls and girls...
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
If I Can Do It, So Can You
"If I can do it, YOU can do it".
"I look around and I see a room of guys who
are taking control of their lives."
Men who will not be satisfied with
mediocrity.
Guys who will be leaders. Each and every
one of you has the potential to be the best.
REAlSOOAt DYNAMICS
What Counts
" I have met the most successful in terms
of guys who are good.
" The only difference between you and
them is not in the looks or their wealth,
but their attitudes and their psychology.
" Becoming a man of action.
REM SOCf Al DYNAMICS
Becoming Successful with Women
" 80% of your success will come from 20% of
your efforts.
" When you make your big gains, they'll happen
very fast and very suddenly.
" The biggest trick in becoming successful at
this game is to not allow the frustration to
cause you to give up.
" You will become what you think about.
REAlSOCIAl DYNAMICS
Limitations
" "The world places enough limitations on
you without you having to go placing
them on yourself."
" Set goals, and visualise the outcomes
you want from this game. Practice
picturing yourself as the man you want to
become until you have fully come to
accept it.
' REAL SOClAt DYNAMICS
Common stages in the game.
(i) Initial exposure to the theory of game.
(ii) Practising the mechanics of approaching, and social interactions
(iii) Consistently gaining attraction and number closes
(iv) Occasional dates and a lot offtakes.
(v) The plateau - frustration and disillusionment.
(vi) Dropping "game" and developing your lifestyle.
(vii) Gaining mastery and insight
(viii) Intelligently applying tactics, routines and techniques to get
consistent results.
(ix) Doing what makes you happy: LTR, cultivating a harem of
mLTRs and FBs, threesomes, pimping etc.
REAtSOCtAlOYNAMICS
Leading Frame
" Be the prime mover - lead the way
" Pull her into your frame, be the one that others are
reacting to.
" Lead with game:
conversation, body language, calibration and
charisma.
" You are a high value alpha male.
" For the first 10 to 20 minutes, you've got to lead the
conversation - Keep talking
" Engage friends and obstacles-don't be afraid to talk to,
others, etc.
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REAlSOCtAt DYNAMICS
Interacting with Women
" Male/Female polarities.
" Personal revelations as to how important this is
to your interactions and pick ups.
" Reward good behaviour and punish bad
behaviour. By giving her more or less attention
accordingly.
" Men: gain validation through sex ^^
" Women: gain validation through attention ^ ^ f l B
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REALSOOAtDYNAMICS +" " Ł ^H
Initiative
i Don't be afraid to take charge and sweep
her off her feet.
i Lead with passion and conviction - be the
ravisher!
i Keeping the initiative to the very end.
i The Car Analogy.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Attitude
" The attitude of someone who has power and true self
confidence.
" Walking through the world with the
attitude of not giving a f ck about what people think of
you.
" Develop this zone in your mind.
" Be an optimistic person that others enjoy being
around.
" You are a positive force in the world
" You are the guy having the most fun in the whole
room.
*'
SEAL SOCIAl DYNAMICS
Appearances and First Impressions
" The importance of your first impression.
" Malcolm Gladwell - "Blink"
" People make a snap judgment of you and everything
you do beyond that will be seen through the filter of
this first impression.
" The importance of your appearance: grooming and
dress.
" Conveying style and sexuality in your look.
" Your attractiveness as a man will depend a great deal
on how much you like and respect yourself.
" What are you projecting out into the world?
sp
REAtSOCIAt DYNAMICS
My Personal Tactics/Techniques
You need to move her emotionally and placate her
logically.
Cold reading.
Simple formula
D "and" / "but"
Giving rapport "making statements rather than asking
questions".
Your surface observation -> what that means
The style of communication rather then the
particular content of what's coming out of your r
REM SOClAl DYNAMICS
My Personal Tactics / Techniques
(cont....)
" The conversation tree. Many different branches
and paths you can take it.
" The Hoobie Camera Sexual Escalation - use
your digital camera to draw her attention away
from the sexual consequences.
" Push/Pull - maintaining the tension. Your sense
of calibration will develop with experience.
REAL SOCSAt DYNAMICS
Closing...
The mindset of a Closer
a Someone who gets the results.
Taking action and doing everything that is within your
power to get the outcome, because that's what the
world respects.
People are tired of listening to your excuses.
If you can't show that you can get the lays
then you aren't a PUA.
Don't be satisfied by your excuses and things will
happen.
REAlSOdAl DYNAMICS
Final Points
Cultivate concurrent interests. Women are very
suspicious of men who only have game as their
sole purpose in life.
This will take time, but time will pass anyway.
Have faith in yourself.
Make are a decision to commit.
REM SCOAl DYNAMICS
My Experiences
In The Game
REM SOCIAL DY(N
Where I'm coming from
" Many of you are naturals at this, looking to
make further improvements.
" You've come to the right place.
" At the same time, I want to share where I
was coming from, which was a lower place
- Both for inspiration, and also to be open
about who I am.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Personal stories and my goals
" What I'm going to share is personal. I have
no problem doing this, and never have.
" Everyone has their own issues. Whatever.
" My goal has always been to leave an open
and honest ledger of my journey.
" There is a lot to be learned from it, but that
can only be if I'm 100% forthcoming.
REAL SOOAL DYNAMICS
Growing up, I was (and probably
still am) a total dork
" I often felt frustrated towards my
experience with women overall.
" I had a weak sense of reality.
" I dealt with depression, negativity,
pessimism, victimization/persecution-
mania, and probably any other typically
North American pseudo-problem you
could give a fancy name to.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Symptoms
" I qualified myself constantly.
" I lived in a state of constant rationalization.
" I was anti-establishment and had disdain
for all forms of authority (including the
ones that helped me).
" I had a sense of who I was that was
dictated to me by others.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
The few good things I had going
" Since I was a kid, I knew I had a real
problem with fear.
" To get over this, I made a commitment to
myself to do everything that I was afraid
of.
" This had partial bad consequences
(getting in trouble a lot), but was good for
me overall.
REAlSOOAl DYNAMICS
The few good things I had going
(cont...)
" At age 15, a major shift in my life was
deciding to take responsibility for every
outcome in my life, even if it technically
wasn't my fault.
" This helped me with the victim-complex I
had, and amazingly I found that my life
went a lot better if I just took responsibilil
REAL SOCIAl DYNAMICS
One Thing I Always Knew
I've always known that nothing would
come easy to me in life.
I guess it would have been cool if I was
one of those tall, naturally intelligent, built
guys. But I'm not.
That's fine.
REAL SOCIAl DYNAMICS
My Natural Abilities (or lack
thereof)
" My natural weight was about 120 pounds.
" In sports I pretty much got pounded.
" If I studied in school as much as most
people, I would barely pass.
REM SOCIAL DYNAMICS
My Natural Abilities (or lack
thereof)-(cont...)
" I was TERRIFIED of public speaking. In the
fourth grade I avoided doing my class speech for
six months.
" Picking up on concepts tended to take a bit
longer for me, and usually still does.
" If I decide to continue to live an openly public life
(or expand upon it), you will surely see a series
of more screw ups at various points.
ISAtSOClAt DYNAMICS
I accept my weaknesses, and strive
to improve them
" All of this is fine.
" I believe it makes me a more complex,
interesting human being.
" To be totally honest, I don't believe any of
this "lowers my value" in the slightest.
" I embrace my flaws. I work on them. It's a
major hobby of mine.
REAl SOOAl DYNAMICS
My Thesis: Why Most People Fail
Most guys simply don't have the emotional
leverage that I have.
They just don't want this badly enough.
If they did, they'd get it. I did, and I strongly
doubt that I was coming from any better place
than anyone is.
As funny as it sounds, I consider this to be a
proof that is pretty much self-evident - most
guys just don't want it badly enough.
REAl SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Why Most People Fail (cont...)
" Most guys have never gone to the gym,
and pushed through plateaus.
" Most guys can't take on a new diet and
stick to it.
" Most guys will not start reading a great
book and finish it.
" Frankly, most guys can't stick to anythj
REAl SOCIAl DYNAMICS
Welcome to the magic-pill era
" In "The Conquest Of Happiness," Bertrand
Russell (a brilliant philosopher on many
levels) brought up an issue: Children
should not be given too much instant-
stimulation at a young age.
" Slow, steady, incremental long-term
progress is simply outside of most
people's reality. It's a shame.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
The 80/20 Rule of Self-Help
" 100% of guys who take this program will have
STELLAR skills by the end.
" However, around 80% of guys who do will
eventually drop out, easily satisfied with the
notion that: "It's not my fault, it's just my skill set
that needs work. Now that I've heard about this
stuff, I'll get it sorted out at some point."
" Then they go back to playing dungeons and
dragons and spanking it to net porn.
REM SOCIAL OYNAMICS
Incompetence
The poor guys lose focus, and move on to some
other stimulation/instant-gratification.
I can offer world-class help: live demonstration,
wing them, take them through the process on
every level (even help them get the girls home).
But ultimately, many will forget about it, and
don't follow up with what they were taught.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
The fool's wish
" The incompetents wants more than a skill
set out of a weekend like this.
" What they want to be HANDED the
motivation and life-skills to stick at
something.
" It can be taught (we'll go over the basics
right now), but habit and perseverance can
only be INTERNALIZED on your own.
"REM SOCIAI DYNAMICS
Thank You From the 20% Club!
" The reality is this: the guys who take a
program like this and don't follow up
afterwards exist to help the 20% who know
how to stick at something they really want.
" They help to fund this program. Without
them it couldn't exist.
" If you are a part of the 80% they thank you
for helping to fund THEIR transformatic
"REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
All kidding aside, don't be in the
80% Club. They suck.
" Does this piss you off? Good.
" I say this to antagonize and motivate you.
" Please, please, please - do NOT allow
yourself to be in the 80% club.
" Find your motivation and leverage.
REAi. SOCIAI DYNAMICS
READ
" Because your parents probably didn't
teach you these skills, I recommend that
you do what I've done and still do: READ.
" Constant reading loads your mind with the
right software.
" Reading enriches your mind on many
levels, and does crazy things for your
confidence.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Some perspective-altering readings
" Ayn Rand, "Atlas Shrugged"
" Anthony Robbins, "Awaken The Giant
Within"
" James Allen, "As A Man Thinketh"
" Napolean Hill, "Think And Grow Rich"
" Chuck Palahniuk, "Fight Club" & "Lullaby"
" Matt Ridley, "The Red Queen"
"REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Finish what you start
i There are so many amazing books.
i When you go to a bookstore, you will see
so many books.
You want to read them all. You want the
wisdom inside them. NOW.
i Start with ONE and actually finish it.
Then continue.
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
The wisdom you will find
i Particularly with guys like Anthony
Robbins, you will learn the types of life-
skills that it takes to be successful at
EVERYTHING (including picking up girls,
if you apply it to that).
i The point is this: to get good at this you
will require the exact same skills that you
would to get good at ANYTHING
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^ ^
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REAtSOCIAt DYNAMICS
The wisdom you will find (cont...)
" We (RSD) will tell you what to do.
" But ultimately, you must take responsibility
for your own success.
" Particularly after the program ends, and
you're on your own.
" I've given you the names of some life
changing resources here. Use them.
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RŁM SOCIAL DYNAMICS
Going out is USUALLY fun
" Going out is usually fun.
" BUT, there are plateaus and challenges.
" You will experience everything from failed
relationships to cheating to identity
snapbacks where you want to fall back
into your old habits.
" That's where perseverance comes in.
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Most guys just can't hack it
i Most guys have a belief that if they go to
their job and act like good little spokes in
the wheel of society, that their money can
take care of all their problems.
i The fact that they did what they were
supposed to should be enough.
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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)
" To good at this takes perseverance to
push through setbacks or plateaus.
" It takes total determination to push through
emotion - REGULARLY.
" Most of all, it requires you to do a lot of
independent assessment of what you
need.
" IP
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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)
" You need to get creative to bring yourself
to the next level and round yourself out.
" Do you need to become more masculine?
Maybe you take up a rough sport.
" Do you need to become better at breaking
rapport? Maybe you spend a month
teasing people.
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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)
" Do you need to become better at
connecting? Maybe you spend a month
being really, really friendly.
" Do you need to convey more energy? Do
you need to tone it down? Maybe you
spend a month working on that.
" Ultimately, it's up to YOU to make these
choices.
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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)
" Unfortunately, most guys need to be told
what to do.
" They can't make these decisions without a
product to tell them what to do.
" Just keep looking bro! You'll find that
magic-pill! You can avoid facing the larger
issue! For only $19.95! Right...
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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)
" Most guys have never invested in
themselves.
" I spend time and money on myself all the
time. I invest in myself constantly.
" If I go to a seminar that I paid 5000$ for,
and I get one or two ideas that I genuinely
never would have thought of, I consider
that to be a good investment.
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Most guys just can't hack it (cont...)
" I bet most guys would probably freak out
at only one or two nice pieces.
" Not me. I'm constantly investing in myself,
so I trust myself 100% to get back 100
times whatever I put my time or money
into. A single idea can be a breakthrough
for me, and has been many times.
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My most valued asset
" My most valued asset is MY BRAIN.
" At a young age I'd LOST more money in
business than most guys will ever make.
" Making bad decisions. Dealing with
incompetence. Being extorted or blatantly
ripped off. These are all lessons I've
learned to deal with before the age of 2J
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My most valued asset (cont...)
11 have no regrets.
i As far as I'm concerned, everything bad
that ever happened to me I WAS IN
CONTROL OF.
11 don't beat myself up over it. That's as
dumb as being a victim.
11 just take the lesson for what it is.
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My most valued asset (cont...)
" The more nonsense you go through, the
more your emotions mess with you.
" As you become accustomed to dealing
with pain and uncertainty, you grow
comfortable with it and you become
emotionally stronger than the next man.
" This is a good thing. Embrace it.
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More on my path and perseverance
" Plain and simply: I want success badder
than you.
" I'm willing to push myself.
" I will find a way to get done what I want
done.
" I accept nothing but the best from myself,
and nor should you.
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While you're watching television...
i While you're sitting at home watching
television, I'm in the lab tinkering and
brainstorming.
i I'll try a hundred things that don't work.
i Just like I burned stupid amounts of funds
on failed business experiments at a young
age, I have burnt countless hours trying
things that the magic-pill junkies won t
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My Journey
i With every step, I learned a new lesson.
11 always had a rough idea of what I was
looking for, so as failures happened I
LEARNED.
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Personal Anecdotes
" Here is some of what I've seen to get to
the level I'm at.
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THE PAYOFF IS WORTH IT
" I wouldn't trade being at the level I'm at
now for anything in the world.
" Seriously - this skill is worth it not only for
the major options in giris, but also for
everything psychological and practical that
goes along with it.
" The payoff is worth it. Make it happen.^
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