listening not carefully
enough
negative approach
towards the speaker
sending misleading
signals, our 'body' does not reflect what we say:
• we are late, we have no time to talk, but we are not able to say it to out interlocutor, we pretend to listen to him/her, we look at the watch nervously,
• it is loud around,
• someone or something is interrupting continuously,
• we feel bad emotionally or physically.
(ack of 'common
language'
improper place or/and time of conversation: