3 Major Divorce Parenting Mistakes And Learn How To Avoid Them
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3 Major Divorce Parenting Mistakes And Learn How To Avoid Them
By Ruben Francia
3 Major Divorce Parenting Mistakes And Learn How To Avoid Them
by: Ruben Francia
What 3 major divorce parenting mistakes that surely lead to unhappy, unhealthy and unsuccessful
children? Parents know these for your children seek.
1. Failure To Act According To Child's Best Interest
This divorce parenting mistake stem from not knowing what exactly these interest are. Experts do
agree on two factors that can be said to be the foundation for a child's true best interest: Maintain
familial ties that were meaningful and important to your children prior to the divorce. Provide a
generally supportive and cooperative in-between parent relationships.
Act according to child's best interest.
2. Failure To Let Go The Hurt's Of One's Divorce
Let go of grudges you may hold against your former spouse. Holding onto feelings of anger will not
change your situation and will probably consume a great deal of your energy - energy you need to
devote to creating a positive environment for your child. If you dwell on your disappointment and dislike
with your former spouse - chances are your child will sense your feelings and suffer in some way from
your negative attitude. Overcome this divorce parenting mistake. Let go and forgive.
3. Failure To Win Divorce Parenting Cooperation
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If divorced parents can put aside their personal feelings before the welfare of their children and choose
to interact with one another in a respectful and dignified way, their children will benefit. Beat this kind of
divorce parenting mistake. Learn to win your ex parenting cooperation.
Sure, you can have healthy, happy and successful children even if you're divorced. Do act according to
child's best interest, let go and forgive, and win the parenting cooperation of your ex. Remember, how
bad and well children go through the divorce depends on how you handle the situation. Never let your
divorce ruin your children's life.
Copyright by Ruben Francia. All Rights Reserved.
Publishing Rights: You have permission to publish this article electronically, in print, in your ebook or
on your website, free of charge, as long as the author bylines are included.
Ruben Francia is an author of an indispensable divorce parenting guide ebook, entitled "101 Ways To
Raise Your 'Divorced' Children To Success". Discover the ways to raising healthy, happy and
successful children even if you're on divorced. Visit his web site at
http://www.101divorceparenting.com
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What 3 Greatest Gift You Can Give To Your Children by Co-Parenting?
By Ruben Francia
What 3 Greatest Gift You Can Give To Your Children by Co-Parenting? by Ruben Francia
A successful divorce is one in which the parents divorce each other but do not require the child to
divorce one of the parents, either as a result of parental conflict or by one parent not being available to
the child.
It is a well-established fact that a child experiencing the dissolution of the family structure will do better
if the parents are able to get along and reduce trauma in an already traumatic experience.
Co-parenting can be a viable option when it is implemented by parents who want it to work because
they understand that the child's needs supersede their own self interest, and it can be successful and
rewarding for both the child and the parents.
So, what exactly the 3 greatest gift you can give to your children by co-parenting? Read on and I will
reveal it to you the 3 greatest gift you can give by co-parenting.
1. Co-parenting will let your children focus on what really matters to them.
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Supportive co-parenting is important for a child's well being. Children need to experience a strong and
cooperative relationship between their parents. Mothers and fathers who agree on most parenting
issues and who support each other's efforts create an environment that allows children to grow and
thrive. This type of atmosphere gives children the opportunity to focus on what matters to them, such
as school, their friends and activities and not their parents' disagreements.
Children experience supportive co-parenting when they receive the same message from both parents
and when they observe their parents supporting each other's parenting efforts.
When mothers and fathers can agree on parenting decisions, the positive benefits of co-parenting are
seen. These decisions range from the routine, such as agreeing that bedtime is 8 p.m., to the
philosophical, such as beliefs about what is best for the child.
2. Co-parenting will minimize the level of stress your divorce brings to your children.
Cooperative co-parenting becomes the single most important element in creating a stress-free and
conflict-free family plan.
Divorce brings about many changes in the life of the children. One stressful change may be in their
immediate support network. This might mean a loss of friendships and school ties if the divorce
requires moving. It might also include changing relationships with extended family members after the
divorce.
Cooperative parents strive to keep changes at the minimum. They know that children best benefit from
keeping the relationship ties in their lives that were meaningful and important to them prior to the
divorce. When changes are necessary, informing the children ahead of time will help them adjust
better.
3. Co-parenting will help not put your children in the middle of your divorce conflict.
The hallmark of effective co-parenting is effective communication and negotiation skills. Learning these
skills will help children develop better, grow better and rarely be put in the middle of divorce conflict.
Remember children don't deserve to be caught in the middle of divorce conflict. It hurt them. Divorce is
never the children's business.
You now have the 3 greatest gift you can give to your children by co-parenting. Co-parenting will let
your children focus on what really matters to them. Co-parenting will minimize the level of stress your
divorce brings to your children. And lastly, co-parenting will help not put your children in the middle of
your divorce conflict.
If you are having difficulty parenting with your children's other parent then make your move now.
Remedy your situation by getting a free copy of my ebook "8 Essential Steps to Cooperative Parenting
and Divorce." Likewise, you can learn effective divorce parenting from my other ebook "101 Ways To
Raise 'Divorced' Children to Successfully." For more information, please visit my website.
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With the above information, I hope you will become an empowered divorced parent and believe that
you can raise healthy, happy and successful children even if you're divorce.
Copyright by Ruben Francia. All Rights Reserved.
Publishing Rights: You have permission to publish this article electronically, in print, in your ebook or
on your website, free of charge, as long as the author's information and web link are included at the
bottom of the article. The web link should be active when the article is reprinted on a web site or in an
email. Minor edits and alterations are acceptable so long as they do not distort or change the content
of the article.
Ruben Francia is an author of an indispensable divorce parenting guide ebook, entitled "101 Ways To
Raise Your 'Divorced' Children To Success". Get his other ebook for FREE, "8 Essential Steps to
Cooperative Parenting and Divorce." Visit his web site at
http://www.101divorceparenting.com
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