Bad  Boy  Sex  Secrets  

 

Day  Three  

Dark  with  Heart  

 

Bad  Boy  Sex  Secrets.  Discover  how  you  can  be  that  bad  boy  lover  that  every  woman  wants  in  bed.  
 
Hello  my  friend.  I  am  Allana  Pratt;  an  intimacy  expert.    In  fact,  I  should  say,  amazing  man,  yes  you  are  my  friend  
but  I  want  you  to  know  what  an  amazing  man  you  are  because  I've  coached  men  for  over  15  years;  and  women  
as  well;  and  I  really  want  to  honor  you  for  stepping  up.    Because  when  you  face  a  female  complaint,  they  tell  me  
their  men  are  good,  they're  good  men  but  they're  bad  lovers  and  they  miss  those  bad  guys;  those  bad  boys  who  
were  such  good  lovers.  
 
That  kind  of  information  stops  most  men  right  in  their  tracks.    It's  so  much  easier  just  to  blame  her.  It  takes  a  
special  kind  of  noble;  almost  like  a  noble  knight;  in  order  to  actually  dig  deep,  do  your  work,  show  up  for  you  
and  also  for  her  and  for  the  relationship  and  the  sexuality  you  know  is  your  birthright.  
 
So  I  honor  you.  
 
We're  about  to  change  your  sexual  situation.    I  have  created  a  five  part  audio  series  especially  for  you;  exclusive  
content  you  won't  see  anywhere  else  designed  to  awaken  your  bad  boy  and  satisfy  your  woman  in  a  way  that  all  
women  crave;  including  me.  
 
Today  we  will  be  covering  Dark  with  Heart,  Sensual  Domination,  Erection  Injection,  Anal  Pleasure  and  Rules;  for  
texting,  home  video,  porn  and  erotica.  
 
So  let  us  begin.    Dark  with  Heart.  
 
I  know  you  know  the  number  one  complaint  my  female  coaching  clients  tell  me.    Their  good  men  are  bad  lovers  
and  they  want  a  bad  man  who's  a  good  lover.    Let's  be  clear,  they  don't  really  want  a  bad  man  like  an  asshole.    
But  they're  really  missing  that  darkness  in  bed.      
 
The  first  bad  boy  sex  technique  to  solve  this  problem  I  call  Dark  with  Heart.    It  still  is  you  being  that  good  man  
that  she  loves  yet  also  becoming  that  mysterious  bad  boy  she  aches  for;  to  be  claimed  by.    That  book  A  Billion  
Wicked  Thoughts  by  those  MIT  guys  who  studied  a  billion  porn  searches  of  men  and  women;  remember  where  
it  said  that  the  man  needs  only  one  cue  to  want  to  fuck  her  yet  she  needs  17  to  let  you  in  to  her  secret  garden.  
Yes,  she's  very  complicated.    So  it's  not  just  what  you're  doing  men.    It's  also  who  you're  being  that  triggers  her  
brain,  literally,  to  surrender  to  you  all  the  way.  
 
This  is  what's  necessary  for  you  to  please  her,  turn  her  on,  have  her  begging  for  more.      You  have  to  do  certain  
things  but  also  be  different.    Yes,  here  we  go  to  show  you  how.  
 
Yes,  I  don't  want  you  to  become  a  jerk  because  she'll  hate  you  and  you'll  hurt  her  and  that  will  just  destroy  the  
relationship.    The  key  is  to  be  Dark  with  Heart  which  will  drive  her  wild.      
 
Darkness  has  a  flavor  of  unpredictability  to  it;  spontaneity.    It's  very  direct.    It's  like  fuck  the  pleasantries.  Take  
her  in  the  laundry  room.  Press  her  up  against  the  counters  of  the  kitchen  and  do  her  right  there.    Make  her  
uncertain,  unstable,  unaware  of  what  will  happen  next  while  being  so  impeccably  present,  trustworthy  and  
grounded  that  she  surrenders  and  gushes  all  over  you  before  you  even  touch  her.  
 

Here  is  the  key.    You  need  to  stay  present  to  your  caring  for  her  while  simultaneously  letting  your  dark,  primal,  
sensual,  animal,  wild  side  free.    A  true  bad  boy  makes  women  swoon  and  ache  to  be  taken.    He's  not  a  rapist,  an  
asshole  or  a  jerk.    It's  one  of  those  kind  of  like  a  James  Bond/  Indiana  Jones  fuck  the  rules.    It's  like  those  
vampire  movie  characters  or  that  Christian  Gray  character  from  50  Shades  of  Gray  that  millions  of  women  are  
fantasizing  about.  
 
It's  a  man  whose  heart  is  present.  He  loves  women.    Yet  he's  also  dark  and  will  dominate  her  in  to  blissful  
surrender.    Think  about  it.  Even  that  movie  fight  club,  there  was  this  sacred  reverence  for  the  fight.  There  still  
was  dark  and  light  combined.    If  you  lose  the  heart,  you're  a  cocky  asshole.  But  a  true  bad  boy  does  this:  Before  
he  sees  her,  connect  to  that  part  of  you  that  would  die  for  her;  that  makes  you  want  to  be  a  better  man.    It's  
more  of  an  emotional  heart  connection.    Then  also  before  you  see  her,  I  want  you  to  connect  to  that  part  of  you  
that's  a  man;  that  wants  to  penetrate  the  world,  fuck  her  and  fuck  every  hot  woman  that  walks  by.    You're  just  
this  primal  being.  
 
Both  of  those  parts  need  to  be  present.  So  first  connect  with  them  inside  and  then  when  you  see  her,  don't  touch  
her  at  first.    Just  drink  her  in  with  your  eyes  that  are  alive  with  desire  for  her;  like  a  work  of  art;  like  the  most  
exquisite  creature  you've  ever  seen;  the  one  you  get  to  taste,  savor,  devour,  open.  
 
Really,  do  you  ever  look  at  her  like  that  anymore?  Do  you  really  ever  see  this  gorgeous  woman  with  juicy  
breasts  and  beautiful  hair  and  curves?    Look  at  her!    This  will  make  her  aroused;  to  be  seen  by  you  aching  for  
her  like  this.    Be  willing  to  undress  her  with  your  eyes  and  don't  worry  about  what  she  thinks  or  is  that  cool  or  
right.    Get  out  of  your  head  and  just  get  really  present  to  this  delicious,  hot  being  before  you.  
 
Then  imagine  you  haven't  touched  this  woman  in  months  and  that  touching  her  will  literally  fuel  your  being.    
Touching  her  skin  will  be  breath  for  your  lungs,  blood  for  you  veins.  Touch  her  in  a  way  that's  firm  and  caring;  
Dark  with  Heart;  hand  in  the  small  of  the  back,  strong  hand  massaging  her  arm  or  thigh;  never  leaving  eye  
contact.    A  man's  darting  eyes  makes  us  bonkers  and  freak  out  and  get  scared  and  turn  in  to  men  but  a  man  who  
keeps  his  eye  contact  allows  us  to  surrender  and  open.  
 
Really  feel  her  skin.    Feel  the  pulse  of  her  heart  beneath  her  skin.    Pay  attention.    Penetrate  her  with  your  heart  
as  if  this  cord  of  light  is  pouring  in  to  her  and  connecting  you  both.    Really  get  present  to  why  you  love  her  and  
why  you  want  to  fill  her  with  your  cum;  why  you  want  to  claim  her,  mark  her  as  yours,  make  her  yearn  for  no  
one  else  but  you.    Allow  yourself  to  go  there.  Go  all  the  way  to  that  core  that  you  might  not  have  given  yourself  
permission  to  sense  or  feel  or  be  present  to.  
 
Then  I  want  you  to  energetically  penetrate  her  with  your  cock.    Energetically.    Keep  eye  contact.  Stay  physically  
connected  and  now  begin  to  let  your  primal  animal  attraction  swell.    Perhaps  even  smile  a  little  in  a  dark  way.    
You  might  say  she's  in  trouble  or  you're  going  to  fuck  her  to  realms  she's  only  dreamed  of  or  you're  going  to  
bend  her  over  and  just  fuck  her  until  she  gushes  all  over  your  cock.    I  don't  know  how  she  wants  you  to  talk  to  
her  and  if  you  don't  know,  you  need  to  really  start  learning  because  your  woman  will  yearn  for  you  to  take  her  
to  the  edge  and  expand  the  edge  but  not  go  so  far  that  she  shuts  down.    Cues  are  like  blushing  or  turning  away  
but  her  breath  is  getting  deeper.    If  she  fully  get's  really  pissed  and  angry,  you  might  have  triggered  some  sort  of  
wound  in  the  past;  a  sexual  wound  that  really  needs  to  be  dealt  with.  It  has  nothing  to  do  with  you  but  will  be  in  
the  way  of  you  truly  showing  up  as  the  bad  boy  in  this  relationship  and  taking  her  to  bliss.    But  if  she's  just  coy  
and  just  gently  testing  you,  really  what  she's  doing  is  aching  for  you  to  mean  it;  to  hold  true;  to  not  back  down;  
to  take  her  all  the  way.  
 
Good  men,  they're  polite.  Women  ache  for  bad  boys  with  heart  that  know  what  they  want  and  are  willing  to  
ravish  their  woman  in  to  oblivion.      
 
Next,  assuming  you  know  the  deal  and  you  have  consensual  permission  for  a  sexual  relationship,  do  her  right  
there.  Who  cares  about  the  neighbors?    If  you've  got  kids,  fine,  pick  her  up  and  throw  her  over  your  shoulder,  
take  her  to  the  bedroom,  lock  the  door.    Just  let  this  wave  of  energy  and  intensity  and  desire  have  its  way  with  
you.    Good  men  tend  to  hesitate;  do  the  right  thing;  make  sure  everything  is  okay  before  they  act.    They're  afraid  

to  offend.      That  kills  that  bad  boy  darkness  which  also  crushes  her  respect  for  you.  It  dissolves  that  sexual  
charge  between  the  two  of  you.    Bad  boys  with  heart,  Dark  with  Heart,  they  trust  themselves.    They  let  their  
instinct  guide  them.    They  really  honor  and  claim  and  penetrate  not  just  her  but  the  moment  and  the  world.    
Give  yourself  permission  to  be  you.      If  you  keep  your  heart  there  while  you  go  dark  as  a  bad  boy,  you  will  be  
authentically  you.    If  you  go  up  in  to  your  head  and  spin  and  just  do  the  bad  boy,  then  you  won't  be  present  and  
you  could  do  something  mean  or  cruel.    But  if  you  stay  connected  to  that  magnificent  heart  of  yours,  you  have  
nothing  to  worry  about.    Stay  present  and  be  the  real  you.      
 
What  are  you  committed  to?  Hiding  for  the  rest  of  your  life  or  really  letting  the  real  you  be  unleashed  and  letting  
that  be  welcomed  by  a  woman?  Ultimately,  if  you're  being  authentic  you,  if  you're  being  the  real,  unique,  
different,  awesome,  only  one  of  a  kind  you  and  she  doesn't  care  for  that,  it's  not  personal.    Bless  her  and  release  
her  and  be  open  to  take  one  more  step  forward  again  and  never  give  up  until  you  find  that  woman  who  thinks  
exactly  who  you  are  is  hot.    I  promise  you,  she's  out  there.    But  you  first  have  to  honor  you  fully  and  then  you'll  
find  a  woman  who  will  honor  you  fully  as  well.