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In this guide you will learn why text messaging is the best way to
guarantee that you get a girl out on a date and why mastering text
messaging can transform your dating life.

You will also learn the rules of text messaging so that you never
again have to waste a girl’s phone number. Along with learning
what kind of texts are effective you will also learn the no risk way
to ask a girl out.

By mastering this method you will not only never again have to risk
painful rejection you will also be able to “playfully persist” and have
as many future opportunities to ask her out again as you want.

Why You Should Master Texting

Its Harder to Make a Mistake

One of the big advantages
with text messaging is that it
is much harder to make a
mistake.

Once

you

understand  what  you  need
to text and what kind of texts
are effective you just need to
“rinse” and “repeat”.

There  is  a  specific  template
of  texts  that  you  can  copy
and  use  that  are  almost
always  successful.  Anybody
who

understands

these

templates can use them.

You  have  all  the  time  in  the
world  to  compose  a  good
text message. You can think
carefully  about  what  you
want  to  text  and  so  there  is
no reason to make a mistake with your texting.

Contrast that  with  trying  to  make  a  phone call. When  you call  her
up you are only going to be successful if you are good at making
conversation. If you are nervous then this is going to come through
in  your  voice.  If  she  asks  a  difficult  question  or  wants  to  change
plans then you are going to need to quickly think how to respond.

Overall it is much easier to use texting to get her out on a date and
so is far more accessible to the average guy.

Requires

Less

Confidence

Texting  requires  less
confidence than making
a  phone  call.  Anyone
who has had to make a
phone  call  to  ask  a  girl
out  on  a  date  knows
how  nervous  it  can
make you feel.

Unfortunately  one  of
the

primary

determinants

whether  a  woman  will
feel  attracted  to  you  or
not  is  based  on  your
perceived

level

confidence.

It  is  hard  to  come
across  as  the  confident
alpha male type if you are stuttering and talking rapidly as you ask
her out on a date.

No matter how you might feel about asking a girl out there will be
no indication of your level of confidence in a text message. In fact
if  you  know the  correct format  for  a  good text  message  then  your
text  will  shout  confidence  (even  if  you  might  not  actually  feel  that
confident inside)

Women Prefer It

Texting is how women keep in contact with people these days.
One of the reasons why pick up artists advocated calling up girls in
the past is because texting might come off as being unnatural.

These days however the opposite is the case. Calling a girl up and
asking her out on a date seems old fashioned and strange. Texting
on the other hand seems completely natural.

When you combine this with the other advantages that texting has
you can see why it makes sense to text rather than to try and
make a successful phone call. After all why make things harder for
yourself than they need to be.

You Can Keep In Contact With Multiple Women

This  might  be  advanced  level
stuff  if  you  are  only  at  the  stage
where  you  are  looking  to  get  a
date  but  if  you  are  little  more
successful  in  your  game  then
texting is going to be really great
for you.

Using  text  messaging  it  is  easy
to  send  out  a  daily  “touch  base”
text

multiple

women.

Generally this is best delivered
why you are out enjoying
yourself.

When

something

interesting  or  funny  happens
send out a text to one of the girls
in  your  address  book  telling  her
about it.

When  you  want  to  hook,  send
out  a  text  to  one  of  the  girls  in  your  address  book  asking  if  they
want to meet up. If you have used the techniques in this book and
haven’t  used  the  old  fashioned  “ask  her  out  on  a  date”  approach
then you will be able to get a girl out with you whenever you want.
And if one is busy there is always another girl that you can get in
contact with.

The Rules

Rule #1: Don’t Text on the Same Night

Firstly  you  shouldn’t  text  the  girl  back  on  the  same  night.  One  of
the big mistakes that guys make is when they met a girl they send
out a text asking her if she got home safe.

On the surface this seems to be a great text to send out. It makes
you seem like a gentleman, right?

Maybe  but  it  also  can  be
perceived  as  a  little  lame.
She  isn’t  your  girlfriend
yet  and  so  you  shouldn’t
be treating her like one.

But  worse  that  this  you
are  stuck  with  what  to  do
if  she  doesn’t  get  back  to
you.  After  all  there  is  a
good  chance  by  the  time
that  she  gets  home  that
she will have fallen asleep
and  not  gotten  your  text
and so not replied.

But  you  don’t  know  that
for  a  fact.  She  might  also
be ignoring you.

Now you are in dangerous
territory  because  you  will
have to double text, which is a serious sign of desperation.

Another problem with the same night text is that you have robbed
the interaction of its mystery.

One of the best ways to build attraction is to keep her wondering if
you  are  going  to  text  her  not.  However  if  you  send  a  text

Rule #2: Keep Your Texts Brief

Don’t  make  your  texts
too  long.  The  reason
for  this  has  to  do  with
the  idea  of  emotional
commitment.

When  we  have  a  high
level

emotional

commitment  we  are
willing  to  devote  more
of  our  attention  to
communications

that

we receive.

If  for  example  your
mother  or  father  sent
you  a  lengthy  email
chances  are  that  you
are going to read it all.
However

telemarketing

firm

calls  you  up  at  night
you  are  probably  not
going to listen to a word that they have to say.

The  reason  is  emotional  commitment.  We  will  read  more  and
answer more questions from someone that we have an emotional
bond with.

In  the  case  of  a  girl  that  you  have  just  met  the  emotional
commitment  level  is  very  low.  So  if  you  ask  a  lot  of  questions  or
write  long  texts  then  it  is  going  to  be  easier  for  her  to  ignore  you
than to respond.

Secondly when you write like this you are increasing the chances
that what you write is not going to be very interesting.

So  keep  your  texts  brief  and  to  the  point.  Before  sending  it  read
through  it  and  see  if  there  is  any  information  that  you  could  take

Rule #3: Make It Personal

When writing your texts you want to make it personal. Even if she
doesn’t  have  your  name  in  her  address book  and can’t recognize
the  number  it  should  still  be  instantly  recognizable  as  being  from
you.

You  can  do  this  in  a  number  of  ways.  First  give  her  a  nickname.
Ideally you want to give her a nickname based on something that
happened when you met. Then when she reads the nickname she
will be brought back emotionally to that time and place.

It  also  helps  to  show  that  you  have  bond  and  that  you  aren’t
actually strangers (tenuous as that bond might be)

Another  reason  why  nicknames  are  so  effective  is  because  they
immediately help to create rapport.

Think of the people that you use nicknames with. They are friends,
family  and  lovers.  They  are  people  that  you  know  well  and  are
emotionally connected with.

It  is  much  easier  to  turn  a  date  with  someone  who  you  have  no
emotional  connection  to  versus  someone  who  is  a  perceived
“friend”.

Nicknames are not the only way you should personalize your texts
however.  You  might  like  to  have  a  catch  phrase  that  you  always
open the texts with or a certain distinctive way of writing.

Ideally  she  will  be  smiling  just  at  the  site  of  your  texts  when  she
reads them.

Remember we are always thinking about how we can entertain her
and  make  her  day  better.  If  you  can  do  that  you  will  have  no
problem getting her out on a date.

Rule #4: Write in Statements

When  writing  texts  to  girls  you  should  avoid  using  questions  and
always try and use statements whenever possible. For example:

“Let’s do something this weekend”

Vs.

“Do you want to do something this weekend?”

Read  those  two  statements
aloud and ask yourself which
of  the  two  sounds  more
assertive and which is easier
to turn down.

Statements

straight

out

sound  more  confident  than
questions.  And  the  more
questions  that  you  ask  the
less  confidence  you  are
going to seem to have.

Girls  like  a  guy  who  can
make  decisions.  You  can
consult  but  you  should  be
driving  the  initial  stages  of
your relationship.

Also the more questions you ask the less interesting your texts are
likely  to  be.  Tell  her  about  what  you  are  doing.  It  gives  her
something to comment on. Think of Facebook posts for a second.
When  someone  makes  a  post  on  Facebook  they  generally  aren’t
asking a question but make a thought provoking statement and yet
they  still get  replies.  This  is  the same  sort  of effect  you are  going
after with your texts.

If you ask her too many questions chances are she is going to end
the conversation so don’t fall into this trap.

Rule #5: Don’t Ask For a Formal Date

This is a big one and can make a serious difference in the success
you enjoy with text messaging.

In the old days when you wanted a girl to go out with you, you
would have to call her up at the start of the week and request her
company

for

some

formal  event  such  as
dinner  or  a  movie.  Go
back  far  enough  and
maybe you had to ask
her

father

for

permission as well.

This however is the
21

century and things

have changed. Asking
a girl out on a formal
date looks lame and is
just

asking

rejected.

Instead text her when
you

are

already

planning

doing

something  and  ask
her if she wants to join
you.  If  she  says  she’s
busy,  no  big  deal  text
a  different  girl  and
make  the  same  offer
or go on and enjoy whatever you were planning on doing anyway.

And  this  point  is  very  important.  You  haven’t  asked  her  out  on  a
formal  date,  and  she  hasn’t  rejected  your  formal  proposition.  You
just  asked  her  to  do  something  fun  that  you  were  doing  anyway.
What  this  means  is  that  you  can  continue  to  ask  her  out  again  in
the future.

You  see,  chances  are  when  you  text  a  girl  you  are  not  always
going  to  get  her  at  the  right  movement.  Maybe  she  has  a  test  to
study for or maybe this weekend is her best friends wedding. She
had  a  life  before  you  came  into  and  you  can’t  expect  her  to
suddenly drop her plans.

But if you are playfully persistent eventually you are going to catch
her at the right time. The time when she is looking to have a little
fun. And you will be right there with fun a plenty for her to have.