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Table of Contents
How to Let Him Know You Are Ready for
Marriage without Being Pushy .............................4
How to Help Him Break His Fear of
Commitment...........................................................8
Sweet Heart Agreement"! -
Commitment& & & & & & & ...& & & & & 14
Online Resources .........................................................15
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How to Let Him Know You Are Ready for
Marriage without Being Pushy
You must understand that, even when a man is
seriously thinking about marrying you, he can easily
lose interest if you behave in a way that suggests that
you are desperate to get married or can t wait for him
to propose to you. There is nothing wrong in being
impatient or in feeling that you are long overdue for
marriage. It becomes a problem in your relationship
when your desperation is made obvious to your
mate, especially if he has not indicated an interest in
settling down any time soon.
Having said that, here are some tips you can use
to let your man know that you are ready to settle
down, without coming across as desperate.
vð ð by asking him if he wants to settle down
Start
with you someday. If his answer is a resounding
 Yes, then ask himwhat he is waiting for. If he
says,  Weddings cost money, then you can
assure him that he does not have to wait until he
can save thousands of dollars before he can
officially announce his commitment. Help him
take the first step by suggesting that you can get
engaged now, and then take the time you both
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need to save up for your wedding. Let him know
that you are willing to help share the cost of the
wedding if money is the issue.
vð ð the powerful yet simple techniques contained
Use
in Passion Keys: A Woman s Ultimate Guide to
Unlocking the Love in a Man s Heart to quickly
get your man to fall head over heels in love with
you. Once your man is madly in love with you, it
becomes very easy for him to commit and
propose marriage to you, without your pushing
and nudging him to do so.
vð ð yourself and show him all the love and
Be
understanding your heart can muster.
vð ð
Give him yourself completely without holding
back. When you reveal yourself to him to the
point where he feels your vulnerability, he feels a
certain obligation to protect your feelings by
committing to you, if he is mentally ready to
settle down. If he is not yet mentally ready, he
will feel a need to be open about why he is not
yet ready to commit.
vð ð him know that you are ready to settle down,
Let
but you don t want him to string you along
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without a definite plan to marry you. Ask him
when he thinks he will be ready that way you
can work with a schedule he is comfortable with.
If he tells you some outrageous number of years
before he will settle down, then nicely tell him
that it will not be fair for you to wait for him that
long, because you want to raise a family while you
are still young.
vð ð
Make sure you have other things that keep you
occupied besides your guy. When you show him
that you love him and that you are interested in
settling down with him, but your actions show
that he is not all you have going on, he will want
you to spend more time with him. He will be
more likely to propose marriage in order keep
you in his life.
vð ð
From time to time, send him cards that express
the deep feeling you have for him. Don t wait for
special holidays or his birthday to share how you
feel in black and white.
vð ð may have to pull a disappearing act. (But let
You
him know where you will be. Otherwise, he may
think you are having an affair.) Absence makes
the heart grow fonder. Go out of town for some
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time a week to two at a time if you can afford
to do so. Give him the phone number to the
place you are going. Don t call him too much;
otherwise he will feel that you are checking up on
him, and men do not like that. Let him be the
one to call you. When he calls, be sure to tell him
about the fun things you and your friends or
family members have been doing. When you do
speak, be sure to not to stay on the phone too
long. The idea is to get him to appreciate having
you in his life and to make him feel that his life
cannot be complete without you in it.
Before getting your guy to commit to you, make
sure that you want to commit to him! Make sure that
you know how he feels on the most important
aspects of a romantic relationship. Don t just marry
your guy because he is cute. Cuteness can only get
you so far. When you start dealing with the nitty-
gritty aspects of marriage itself, you will soon
discover that you won t even notice how cute your
guy is. Having said that, it is important that you
make sure he is the one by asking him Michael
Webb s 1000 questions for couples. The more you
know the person you want to marry, the more peace,
love, and romance your marriage will have that is a
fact.
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How to Help Him Break His Fear of
Commitment
Passion Keys: This e-book shows you how
men think and what it takes to get them to fall head
over heels in love with you. The tools and
techniques are unbelievably easy to apply anyone
can apply them with ease and get unbelievable
results. When you learn what it takes to make your
man fall head over heels in love with you, then it
becomes very easy for him to commit to you and
begin to see you as a life-long partner. If you are
serious about discovering what makes a man commit
to one woman and not another, and if making your
man fall madly in love with you is what you want to
accomplish, then Passion Keys is a must read.
Men want to be in committed loving
relationships, just as women do. Most women think
that men have commitment phobias, but that is not
true for the majority of mature and responsible men.
If you are in a loving relationship with your mate, the
last thing he wants to do is to let you go. The
problem most men have with commitment usually
stems from the fact that they do not want to tie
themselves down with one woman for the rest of
their lives, when they can remain single and have all
the panties they can lay their dirty fingers on. Some
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single men feel that committing to one woman is like
going to jail for a long time. They question the
benefits of committing to one woman, when they
can do the opposite and have the freedom to sow
their wild oats. I liken the way single guys feel about
their singleness to a kid in a candy store they want
to taste the different flavors of candy in the store
before they settle down with one candy.
Men in general are able to love one woman and
still wonder what it would be like to take another
attractive woman to bed. Now, I have used to word,
 general to make sure I do not lump all men into
this category. There are still good men in committed
relationships, who are able to resist the urge.
If you want that kind of commitment from your
guy, the first thing you need to find out is what stage
of life he is in. Is he still in that phase, usually
between eighteen and thirty, where most men feel
they want to sow their wild oats? Has your guy
talked about settling down with one woman and
starting a family, or do conversations of this sort
irritate him? If he finds it uncomfortable to discuss
marriage, it may be a good hint that he just is not
ready yet. When a man is not ready to settle down, it
is very difficult to force him to do otherwise unless
you want to set your relationship up for an early
breakup.
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So, find out where your guy s head is. Once you
know where his head is, you will know whether to
hang around until he is mentally and financially
ready, or whether you need to move on and find the
guy who is ready to settle down. Once you
determine that your guy has sowed his wild oats and
is mentally ready to settle down with one woman,
then you can start working on how to get him to
commit to you, and not another woman, by reading
Passion Keys.
Quick Tips: How to make him commit to you and not the
other woman.
vð ð not give him the impression that you will be
Do
available indefinitely. Give him a timetable for
when you would like to settle down. Eighteen
months is generally a long enough time for him
to get to know you and make up his mind on
whether or not you are the one for him. Giving
him a definite time early on in your relationship
puts the burden on him to commit or leave you
to move on and find someone else to settle down
with.
vð ð
Have fun with your guy, but make sure your life
does not revolve entirely around him. Show him
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that you have a life outside of the relationship
you have with him. I am not suggesting that you
should date other people. I am making sure you
have other activities you are engaged in with your
friends and family members. Get into
volunteerism you never know, you just may
meet someone with a big heart who is ready to
settle down.
vð ð
Show him you truly care. If you want your guy to
commit to you, you must make sure you show
him, in all the ways you can, that you truly love
and cherish him and all that he does for you.
Give him your heart, body and soul.
vð ð helps to be good in bed. It may sound shallow
It
to some women, but for men, a woman who is
beautiful inside and outside, and who also knows
how to please her man, is absolutely priceless.
Men will go to the ends of the earth to find such
a gem. If you are a log in bed (you just lay there
and he does all the work), you will definitely have
a more difficult time convincing any fun-loving
man to marry you, regardless of how nice you
may be.
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vð ð
Don t be a nag. He figures that if you start
nagging him now, when you are just dating, your
nagging will probably get worse when you have
him in your clutches. So whatever you do, make
sure you learn the fine art of communicating
using the language of love that Passion Keys
teaches.
vð ð not run his life. He is an adult and has been
Do
making his own decisions for some time now.
Don t come into his life and try to control it. If
he finds out that you are the controlling type, he
will most likely not want to be in a long-term
relationship with you.
vð ð
Respect his pet peeves and support his
aspirations. Learn quickly what his likes and
dislikes are, and learn not to purposefully do
things to get him angry. Also, find out what his
dreams and aspirations are, and do all that is
within your power to give him the moral support
he needs.
vð ð
Never act desperate. Whatever you do never let
your guy feel that you are desperate to settle
down or get married. Maintain your pride and do
not let your self-esteem be trampled on. The
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kind of woman men find attractive is the kind
that is confident about herself and knows what
she wants in life. The more self-confidence a
woman exudes, the more attractive she is to a
man, and the easier it is for a man to commit to a
long-term relationship.
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SWEETHEART AGREEMENT"!
Agreements that inject lightheartedness and a sense of commitment into loving
relationships
ENGAGEMENT
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I ____________________hereby agree on this ______day of ______20___ to demonstrate
my love and complete commitment to my sweetheart, ____________________by
acknowledging today that she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. As a
way of demonstrating my commitment, I wholeheartedly agree to:
1. Be romantically involved only with ____________________ my sweetheart.
2. Respect and cherish the happiness she brings into my life.
3. Completely accept her for who she is and not who I want her to be.
4. Always do all that I can to make our relationship the best that it can be.
5. See to it that we work together toward a happy marriage in the near future.
6. Wash the dishes or help my sweetie dry them without being asked or reminded.
7. Do all I can to make sure that I do not bring about the demise of this relationship.
8. Show my love at all times, even when things are not going my way.
9. Help my sweetheart to be the best person she can by supporting her in every way
that I can..
10. Be ready always to forgive and look on the bright side of our relationship.
In the event of any disagreements or disputes arising out of the breach of any portion of
this agreement, I agree that said dispute will be settled by the toss of a coin. When that
coin is tossed, if it comes up heads, I win, and if it comes up tails my sweetheart wins.
This is the entire agreement. All changes to this agreement will need to be verbally
agreed to by both parties before it becomes binding.
The term of this agreement is: Forever.
Name____________________
Signature_______ Sealed with
a kiss
Name______________________
Signature__________________
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