How to Get a Man to Obey
By JosieKnows
Step 1: THE RIGHT MAN
Unfortunately, there are some men who will never walk the line. Many women confuse this with some
romantic image of masculinity. WRONG. If he won't alter his behavior for anyone, you will never get
the man to obey. He's simply incapable of appreciating a good situation.
To get a man to obey, you must start with the right man. If your man has the following qualities, he's an
excellent candidate for training. If not, you should probably look for a man with the following:
1. Intelligent enough to know a good situation. Too many men have been poisoned by the media's
constant feed of half naked teenagers and porn stars. This non-stop diet of fantasy has warped their
expectations of reality. Make sure the man you're working with is smart enough to realize he isn't a rock
star (unless he is) and that he shouldn't expect you to be perfect either.
2. Work ethic. If a man has no work ethic, even if he appreciates you, he'll struggle to follow through on
promises and obligations. If you want a man to obey, make sure he is capable of following through with
commitments and that he works hard to achieve goals.
3. Settle. If you want a man to obey, really commit himself to your needs and desires, make sure you
choose one who sees you as 'out of his league'. If a man thinks he's dating a woman beneath him, he
won't try hard to keep her. If he thinks you're the best thing that ever happened to him, he'll do whatever
it takes to keep you.
Step 2: WHAT DO YOU WANT?
Just as all men are not suited for obedience training, not all suitable candidates possess the talents you
desire. Figure out what you want from a man and look for one with the skill or talent to give it to you.
Step 3: WHAT WILL YOU DO FOR HIM?
His needs are also a part of the equation. In order to keep him interested in making you happy, you must
be able to fulfill one of his biggest needs. Sex? Money? Emotional? Status? What does the man need? If
you can give it to him like no other, it's a perfect match.
Step 4: FILL THE NEED
Before you teach a man to obey you, you must convince him that you have the power to fill his needs.
Show him that you are the lovely trophy woman he needs to impress his friends. Show him you're the
domestic type who will keep his house in order, if that's what he needs most. Be his therapist if what he
needs is guidance. If he needs his mommy, you can be that too.
Put all your efforts into filling that need like no one else ever has.
Step 5: DEMAND OBEDIENCE
With a wet appetite, men are often much easier to handle. Once you have him convinced that you, and
only you, are capable of handling that burning desire within him, be prepared to stop. The moment he
steps out of line, acts like a jerk, or acts like your needs don't really matter, give him a taste of his own
medicine. If he won't fill your needs, you won't fill his.
Step 6: LET HIM KNOW IT'S A DEAL
When conflicts occur, as they likely will in the beginning, simply remind him that you have a deal. You
don't have to say it directly, but make sure he knows that if your needs aren't met, you won't be meeting
his either. To get a man to obey, you must be willing to cut him off and stick with it. He must be
convinced of the consequences of his disobedience.