About Wayne Ross
First of all I want to thank you for buying my manual. I think that the best way to start is to tell
you a little about myself and inform you why you should listen to me. After all you should have
faith and confidence in my methods. I want to make you a true ladies man, an envy of all
other guys who will beg you for your secrets of attracting women. This will happen to you if
you follow my advice.
Nearly a dozen years ago I was divorced, thrown into the singles world, and totally
unprepared for living the singles life. I was 30 years old at the time and had no idea on how to
meet and date beautiful girls. For nearly five years I visited singles bars nearly every week,
sometimes three and four times a week. I never met a girl in a bar. I tried, I really tried. I went
up to hundreds of girls during that time and was rejected by nearly all of them. A few would
dance with me but that’s about all. None would give me their phone number or want to date
me. I was completely unhappy and miserable and quite willing to admit defeat.
Someone told me about personal ads and how they helped him to meet women. I decided to
try too. I gave up the bar scene and devoted 100% to the personal ads. I met many girls
through the personals and even wrote two manuals about them. You may have one or both of
them. For five years I never went to a bar and stayed with personal ads.
But after a period of a time I missed the dancing and music of the bar scene. I knew that
many very good-looking girls went to the singles bars. I decided to try again, after all I met
many girls through personals and I should have more confidence that would help me in the
singles bars. I would try the following Friday night.
That Friday night I went to the Holiday Inn, a place I knew would be filled with sexy looking
girls. I was right! There were all kinds of pretty women all over the place. But a strange thing
took place. My feet froze to the floor. I could not gather enough courage to even approach
one girl. I was a complete washout in a bar. I stayed nearly all night, holding up the wall and
staring at all the beautiful women that were there. I went home completely miserable that
night.
I decided to try again the next night. This time I would ask some of the girls to dance, one or
two had to say yes. After a couple drinks I got a little braver and asked ten girls to dance that
night. Every one of them said no. I was shocked. I went into the rest room and looked into the
mirror. I saw a 42 year-old balding man with a pot belly. The women must have laughed at me
when I asked them to dance. I felt worse than I had ever felt in my entire life and went home
dejected and unhappy.
After a few days I stopped feeling sorry for myself and knew there had to be a way for
average looking guys to meet good looking girls in bars. I was determined to find out. I owed it
to myself and also to the many guys who wrote to me pleading to tell them how to meet the
beauties they saw weekly in the bars.
So, without making you wait any longer here’s it is. Also please note that I tend to write run-on
sentences…but it’s the information that counts!
Below you'll find all 3 books, my own confidential letters, the bonus reports, and my home
phone number.
Warmly,
Wayne Ross
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The Complete Guide To Attracting Women
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The "Secret" To Meeting Beautiful Women
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The "Secret" To Meeting Beautiful Women
I spent the next nine months interviewing both men and women and how they met each other
in bars. I spent the first six months talking to guys and the most unusual methods they used to
meet girls in bars. I picked the guys who I saw week after week with the most beautiful girls.
They were very helpful, I merely told them I was writing a book and needed their help. I ended
up with about thirty different methods of meeting women.
I spent the following three months talking to girls and finding out which of the thirty methods
would work best in meeting them. You would be surprised at how many good looking girls will
talk to a guy when they think he is writing a book on how to meet them. The girls picked the
best five methods out of the thirty that would work with them. This is what I will tell you in this
manual, the very best five methods of meeting girls in the singles bars.
There are two secrets to meeting beautiful women and without them the best methods in the
world will not work. These are the right attitude and being unique in your approach. Being
unique may draw all kinds of girls to you but you must have the proper attitude to hold on to
them. These are so important I will cover them in detail right now.
ATTITUDE - This is the most important quality you can possess to be successful with women.
Nothing, and I mean nothing, can compare with a superior attitude. You can be the best
looking guy in the world, but without a good attitude very few women will end up in your arms.
Let me tell you how it helped me.
When I first got divorced twelve years ago, I was a complete washout with women for years.
As I told you I met many girls through personal ads but only learned how to keep them after
one of the girls I met told me the following:
"Wayne, you're a very nice guy but if you want to meet and hold a lot of women you have to
change your attitude. Women do not want a guy who is weak and unsure of himself. They
want someone who is strong and self-confident. Be a little hard to get, a little casual and sly
but also be tender and caring. Know you can do it and you will have hundreds of women."
Well, from that day on I decided to become an expert on meeting and dating women. I did and
you will benefit from my know how and experience because every method or system I learn
about meeting women I will pass on to my readers. I wrote two manuals on personal ads and
am an expert on meeting women through personals.
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When it came to singles bars I forgot my own advice and lost my good attitude and became a
washout with women again. But the combination of being unique and the right attitude helped
me to meet all kinds of girls in bars and it will help you. There is nothing that will stop you from
meeting girls if you are unique and have the right attitude.
UNIQUE - There is not one female in this world that wants a guy who is average. She is
always looking for a guy who is different, her knight in shining armor, her dream man, the man
who is unique. That is why these methods will work because they are different and very
unique. Any guy can walk up to 100 women and maybe 1 to 10 will show some interest. But I
want you to be successful with nearly 100% of women and you will nearly approach that when
you nave the right attitude and are unique in meeting women. From this day forward you will
eliminate the word average from your life and substitute the word unique. You will become a
real ladies man, a man who has dozens of women at his fingertips. You will never be lonely
again. You must attain the correct attitude and you will never be without women. No woman
seeks the common man. They seek the man who is different, the man who is unique. Every
one of these methods are unique and different. That is why they will work. Have faith in me
and these methods and you will succeed.
"The Singles Bars"
The singles bar seems to be the number one place that guys try to meet women. It is also the
hardest. With these methods I will make it so easy to meet girls in bars that you will wonder
why you ever had trouble before. You will be way ahead of the other guys because over 90%
of guys that frequent a bar are afraid to approach women for fear of getting rejected. There
are literally dozens of girls just waiting to meet guys in a bar, but as I said, he should be a guy
who is different and very unique and that will be you.
More women go to the singles bars than any other place to meet guys. They know no other
place to go. The pity of it is that so many men use or try to use the common old-fashioned
way of meeting women. Here are some of the methods that most men use to meet women in
bars and they definitely are the absolute worse ways to try to meet women.
An average guy walks into a bar, has a few drinks and will decide whether or not to approach
a girl he finds attractive. He will look around for someone he would like to meet. Here is where
most guys make their mistake. He will see a good looking girl, take a deep breath, cross his
fingers, walk up to her and spit out the most average comment that his mind can dream up.
This is the fault of most guys because of their attitude. Your attitude will change when I'm
through with you. A poor attitude and a "common" approach will turn off more girls than an
acute case of bad breath.
Here is a good example of a poor approach most guys use:
Upon spotting a good-looking girl alone in a bar, Mr. Average will stumble up to her and after
sitting nearby will blurt out, "Can I buy you a drink?" Sometimes he will ask if he can sit down
and rap with her. Other times he will act like James Bond, real suave, and send a drink by
way of the bartender with the message, "The gentleman at the end of the bar would like to
know if the lady would care to join him?" What bunch of hogwash.
All the examples above are all a bunch of bull. Why? Because all of them are very common
and are used by nearly every guy trying to meet girls. When a guy offers to buy a girl a drink
she is probably already drinking one. She probably thinks to herself "Here is some smart alec
guy who wants to buy me a drink for a couple of dollars because he doesn't have two cents
worth of guts." What he means is, "I'm looking for company and I'm willing to spend a couple
of bucks to see if you 're available; so why doesn't he say it?" Next, to ask if you can sit down
is an assumption that she is alone and will be for the rest of the night. This also puts her in a
very awkward position. She is almost forced to say yes.
She may not think these exact thoughts but she will feel like a pick up because you made her
feel that way. She will feel cheap because most women do not want to be made to feel like
they're waiting to be picked up by some guy. Your main mistake was not making her feel
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To send a message with a drink by way of the bartender is another poor method. If she
agrees, she is openly admitting she is looking for a partner. When one of you goes through
the motions of swapping tables you are making the entire place aware that you have just
picked her up. This has a tendency to make her feel somewhat cheap. She is also placing
herself in a very delicate situation. How is she going to escape from you if she does not like
you? You are making her feel obligated.
By now I think you are starting to see my point. In most cases of using the above common
methods the odds are that most girls would say, "No, thank You," This is her polite way of
saying, "Get lost." In these approaches you have done nothing different to set yourself apart
from all the other men in the bar. You have done nothing out of the ordinary and nothing
which a dozen other men would try to meet a girl. Remember what I said about being unique.
With the common methods, such as the above, her decision will be based on entirely what
you look like. Unless you look like a Greek God or a movie star you will have very little chance
of meeting girls in bars using the normal and common methods.
Ask yourself on what other point could she possibly make her decision. Now take a look in the
mirror. Can you make it on your looks alone? I can't. Therefore it's mandatory to rely on
something other than your looks in order to meet sexy women in the singles bars. You must
become appealing to her. You must reverse the normal procedure. By doing this you will be
able to select and attract the really beautiful girls and become truly appealing to them. This is
what these methods will do for you.
I want to pound this idea into your mind. To attract women you must reverse the original
situation. In the beginning you are attracted to her. You want to meet her. Your opening
maneuver should be to turn the tables so that now she is attracted to you, and wants to meet
you. This might seem difficult to you but it is very easy, You can accomplish this by arranging
her first thoughts of you to be, "He is UNIQUE, DIFFERENT, AND VERY INTERESTING."
Once you have arranged this, she will be very pleased to meet you and get to know you. That
is what these methods will do for you.
Looks - Do They Matter To Women?
This is the most frequent question that guys really wonder about. Do you need to be tall, dark
and handsome to attract a beautiful girl? The answer may surprise you. But it's a definite no.
With a man a woman's looks are very important. A woman is more interested in what you're
like on the inside than on the outside. But if a woman has no idea about your character or
personality she will be apt to judge you on your looks. In a singles bar looks are extremely
important unless you can attract a woman on something else, That is what these methods are
designed to accomplish, attract women by being different and unique.
Let's not fool ourselves. If you happen to be good looking it will be to your advantage. Good
looks do attract a woman's attention. But women are more interested in what a man is like
and not really hung up on beautiful faces the way a man is. If you could gain a woman's
interest it matters very little what you look like and I'll tell you why in the next section.
The Methods - Why They Work
With these methods it will matter very little what you look like because when you use any of
the methods you will come across to a woman as being unique, interesting, curious and
confident. You will be the kind of man any woman would want to meet and date. You will not
be common. You will be different. Almost every woman I talked to was only willing to settle for
the man she was presently dating because no other unique guy was around. It is so easy to
meet a lot of beautiful girls when you are able to be "different" than most guys. That is my job,
to make you completely different than most guys. Every time I write a new manual on meeting
women you will be the first to know. My goal is to make you and me the ladies men we were
meant to be. It is about time someone stood up for the average guy. Enough waiting. Let's get
on to the actual methods.
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Method # One
This method is a favorite of mine. I use it every chance I get. I love the five words because
they immediately get a girl to wondering. The first thing to do is to pick out the girls you want
to meet. Here is what you do. You go into the bar and you sit down and survey the women in
the bar. After a little time you pick the girl or girls you would like to meet. When you are
certain about the girl you want to meet you are ready to make your move. Don't wait too long.
If you're like me, the longer you wait the more reasons you will convince yourself it's not a
good idea.
The Five Words
You walk up to the girl you want to meet and you say, "May I Borrow a Pencil?" Usually every
girl has a pencil or a pen. If she does not or if she ignores you then ask the bartender for a
pencil. If the bartender does not have a pen or pencil, always have one on you and walk up to
some one and pretend you borrowed it. Your only intention is to get a pen or pencil with her
attention on it. Now go back to your table and don't pay the slightest attention to her. For the
moment she will be aware that you're in the room. You write a short note to her. (I assume
you can use a small piece of notebook paper or even a napkin. Carry one of those small
spiral notebooks around. This should become a habit, how are you going to write down all the
phone numbers of women you meet if you don't have some paper?) Write something like the
following:
"Did you know that I have been sitting here wondering how I could meet you?" If you have
any suggestions as to how I could meet you without appearing bold, or, if I should even try to
meet you, please check one of the below. Yes... No... Go to hell ... try this... Signed.............
You give her the note and the pen or pencil and let her decide what to do. Why will this work?
Because as I told you before, to meet a lot of women you must be unique and different and
not common.
You must admit that this is not a common method. She will be flattered that you went to so
much trouble just to try to meet her. You were humorous in your note and women love a guy
with a sense of humor. You gave her the chance of either to invite you to join her or to tell you
to go to hell. This is a choice every woman must have. You have not pushed yourself on her
and you have not put her in an awkward situation.
I predict that she will want to meet you because you are not common. If this is different than
anything you ever tried before change your attitude and from this day forward try all different
approaches to meeting women. You will be different from most men and this is what women
are looking for.
Case Histories
Jim - "I was willing to try anything when Wayne told me about his new discovery on meeting
women in bars. I had terrible luck in bars. I decided on the borrowing the pen method first. I
figured this was pretty easy, or so I thought. I went to the Ramada Inn one Friday looked
around and saw dozens of beautiful girls. I just sat there sipping a drink for nearly an hour
before I decided to try anything. I was scared. I finally said oh what the hell. I saw a sexy
looking girl sitting with her girl friend. I walked up to her and asked to borrow a pen. She
looked at me and said, "Why, what do I do now I wondered? I just muttered something about
writing a note. She gave me the pencil and I started back to my seat, looked back at her, and
bumped into some guy at the bar. Boy, everything was going wrong. I went back to my seat
and wrote the note.
It took me a few minutes to get the courage to bring it back to her table. After I brought it back
and gave it to her I didn't know whether to wait for her answer or go back to my table. I waited
and she gave me back the note. I went back to my table and looked at it. She marked yes.
She wanted to meet me. I went over and she invited me to sit down. We talked for a while and
she told me that was the most unusual way a guy ever tried to meet her. She couldn't pass up
a chance to meet someone with that much ingenuity. We had a good time and I got her phone
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number before the night was over. We made a date for the following night. I met five more
girls in the next three times trying the same method. Thanks, Wayne."
Method # Two
This method is a verbal approach of the first method, This is a great method. Stan, the guy
who told me about this method, met 70 girls out of 75 he tried it on. His case history follows.
In fact I'm going to let him describe how this works.
STAN - "I've been using this approach for a long time. I met 70 girls out of the First a 99%
success rate. Here is how it works:
If I see a girl I would like to meet I will be extremely careful not to put her in an embarrassing
situation. I will do my best to contact her without anyone in the bar being aware of it. I do not
ask any direct questions such as asking if I can sit down or if I can buy her a drink. This may
make her very uncomfortable by calling for an answer that she is not prepared to give.
I will walk to her table and I will look directly into her eyes. Looking around will only make her
think I'm nervous or uncertain. As soon as I reach the chair next to her I begin speaking. This
is what I say to her:
"I want to say three things:
1. I doubt that you will be alone very long; you're too pretty.
2. If you are alone my theory is correct; most men are duds.
3. I'd like to know you ... if only for ten minutes.
Now I'm going back to my table to stare at my watch and cross my fingers for one minute. If
during that time you do nothing I'll come back and sit down. Or, during that time you can
shake your head, very gently, NO." Without giving her a chance to say a word I go back to my
seat. On the first seventy-five girls I tried this on, seventy allowed me to return. They said
nothing during the one minute. That's the same as inviting me back to their table. The other
five shook their head no. This is a great method, try it."
David - "Bars scared the hell out of me. I thought it was the worst place in the world to meet
women. I decided to give Wayne’s methods a chance. I decided on method number two. I
promised that I would try this method for two wrecks, once each Friday night. If it didn't work, I
would try a couple of the other methods and if they didn't work I would tell Wayne that he was
crazy.
The first Friday night I went to the Holiday Inn and sat at a table at the rear of the bar. I was
literally shocked at the number of good-looking girls that were there. It took me nearly two
hours to approach the first girl. I wanted to back out hundreds of times. But I promised Wayne
that I would try. I saw a beautiful girl, about 25 or so, with long black hair and a sexy body,
across the room from me. She was sitting with a couple girlfriends. I figured that I could try
her and when I failed I could tell Wayne I tried it on a dozen girls and failed with all of them.
He would never know. But then I thought to myself, I was alone and had no women. I could at
least give this system a fair try.
I kept staring at that girl with the long black hair. She was really sexy. I saw her turn down at
least ten guys asking her to dance. This really made me more of a chicken. Ah, what the hell,
I said. I walked up to her and blurted out something about her being too pretty to be alone and
could I talk to her for five minutes and get to know her. I walked back to my table and forgot to
tell her to nod her head if she wanted me to come back. I walked back to her table and told
her that I forgot to tell her to nod her head if she wanted me to come back. She laughed and
thought that it was so cute that she asked me to sit down right than and there. I had a real
good time with her that night, in fact I dated her about six months and nearly got married. She
told everyone about the way we met and how crazy my approach was. I met many other girls
the same way and every one of them thought it was the best approach they ever ran into. In
the last six months I met over twenty girls through this approach alone. I'm having the time of
my life."
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Method # Three
You know a bar can be a very lonely and miserable place. I used to watch guys in bars and
here is what I saw: I saw so many guys with sad faces just drinking and drinking, staring into
space looking like they lost their best friend. Most guys looked like hell and they would sit
there doing nothing but getting drunk. This is the image of a "loser" and this is not what I
wanted. This method will impress girls so much that they will think of you as a "winner" and
one who wants to get ahead in the world.
You know what you will be doing? You will be reading in bars. That's right. Girls will come up
to you like crazy and ask what you're doing.
Here is how it worked for me. I do a lot of work in Mail order, so I have dozens of books on
the mail order business. I figured I had a lot of books I never read, so why not catch up on
them and see if this method works. Every Friday or Saturday when I went to one of the nicer
bars like the Holiday Inn or Ramada Inn. I would bring a book to read. Don't worry about the
noise and music. After a little while it gets real easy to concentrate and tune out all the noise.
So after a little bit of practice I learned to completely tune out all the noise. I'm sure that
anyone can do the same.
Remember what I said about being unique and different? For a man to be reading in a bar
was considered very unusual. Girls started coming over to my table and would ask me what I
was reading, and why I was doing it in a bar. I met sixty girls in three months using this one
method alone. Some girls would even leave their dates and come over and say something
like: "My curiosity is killing me. What are you reading and how can you concentrate with all
that noise?" Only girls would come over. I would close my book, introduce myself to the girl,
get her name and explain what I was doing. I would explain that I loved to read and hated to
waste time and so I was catching up on some of my reading. We would get into a
conversation and I would find out whether she had a boy friend or what kind of relationship
she was looking for. You would be surprised. Most women are very honest and love guys who
will spend the time to talk to them like human beings and not some sort of sexual conquest. I
would usually get her phone number and make a date for the following night or week.
Reading books in bars will make it extremely easy for you to meet a lot of women. Try it.
Read some good fiction books or self-improvement books and you will meet all kinds of
women.
Case Histories
Tom -"I really thought Wayne was crazy. Reading in bars. He had to be loosing his marbles.
But I decided to give it a try. I would try the local Holiday Inn the following Friday night. I would
bring a Stephen King book "Pet Cemetery" and I would finish it that night.
I went into the bar that night, ordered a drink and sat at a table near the band. I figured if I
could concentrate with all that noise I would have this down to a fine art.
I started reading and within a few minutes was totally involved in reading about a father
burying his son in a cemetery where the dead return.
Someone tapped me on the shoulder and I literally threw the book in the air. "I'm sorry I
scared you," I heard a female voice say.
I looked up and saw one of the prettiest girls I had ever seen. She had long black hair and the
nicest smile you could ever imagine, I was speechless and could not make a sound. She
picked up my book and looked at me and said. "I love Stephen King. Is this book any good?"
"It's really scary," I managed to say.
Can I borrow it when you're done?" she asked.
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Of course she could. We became involved in a discussion on Stephen King and his books
and movies. We talked into the small hours of the morning and got to know each other very
well. I had hit it lucky. Her name was Debbie and we became a twosome and went steady for
nine months. It was the happiest nine months of my life. We broke up and I thank Wayne
because even if I never fall in love again, I would not give up that nine months for anything in
the world.
I have met dozens of girls using the very same method and I had a lot of fun and maybe
some day I will meet another Debbie."
Ed -" I gave up on meeting girls years ago. I was fat and very shy and figured girls would
have nothing to do with me. I already read a lot. In fact my apartment could qualify as a
library. When I heard about this method, I figured it would never work but I rather read in a bar
than at home alone. I had always dreamed of being a ladies man someday, surrounded by
beautiful sexy girls. This would always be my dream.
I went to a place called the Ramada Inn one Friday night. I brought two books with me. Both
were on self-improvement. One was "Think and Grow Rich" and the other was "Sexual
Chemistry" I sat down and started reading. It was very hard to concentrate because I was
nervous and thought everyone was watching and making fun of me. Eventually I was able to
keep my mind on what I was doing. A strange thing happened after about an hour. Girls
started coming over and asking me how could I read in a bar with all the noise and
distractions. I told them I was trying to improve myself and enjoyed reading anywhere and
everywhere. I was amazed because the girls were so interested and easy to talk to. A dozen
girls approached me that first night and five of them gave me their phone number. I could
never meet that many girls in a year before, now I met them in one night. I am now dating
about a dozen pretty girls, have lost 40 lbs. and am one of the most popular guys around. I
have so much to discuss with these women that approach me when they see me reading. It
opens up a whole new topic of conversation. I'm the happiest guy around and now a real
ladies man."
Method # Four
This is my favorite method because it works so well. As you know I have written two manuals
on personal ads and you may have one or both of them. They will help you with this method.
If you don't have either one of them you can still use this method with great success. I will tell
you how. Here is what I did.
Whenever I had a lot of letters to answer from girls who answered my ads I would take them
to the bar along with any pictures I had that went with the letters. I would carry the
letters…and pictures (along with writing paper) in a briefcase and take it to the table I was
sitting at in the local Holiday Inn or other nice nightclub.
I would stack all of the letters on the table, and lay out as many pictures as I had room for. I
would use a notebook for answering the letters, a spiral notebook that I could close if anyone
came up to me I would then start answering the letters.
You would not believe the excitement this created. I had a hell of a lot of fun to say nothing of
all the beautiful sexy girls I met. I wouldn't trade my experience and the end result for all the
money in the world and you won't either once you try this method.
The girls who came into the bar would watch me intently and they could stand it only so long
before they would come over to my table and ask me what was going on.
Pretty girls would come over to my table (always one at a time) and say something like,
"Excuse me but I can't stand this any longer. My curiosity is killing me. What are you doing."
I would look up and smile, then close my notebook and invite her to sit down so I could
explain to her what I was doing. I would introduce myself and also get her name etc.
If the girl was real good looking and most of them were, I would downplay all the letters and
pictures and show more of an interest in her. I would tell her the truth about what I was doing
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and where I got all the letters and pictures, but I would talk about it as little as possible. I
would start asking her about herself and her interests.
After talking to her for a while the girl would usually say something like the following:
"Wayne, with all of these girls you know why would you be interested in me?"
I would say:
"Jan, I'm looking for the real thing. I'm looking for a special kind of girl. A good girl is hard to
find."
The girls would keep looking at the letters and pictures. It seemed it was hard for them to take
their minds off them. They were right in front of their face.
"What about all these girls?" they would usually ask.
I would usually say: "Jan, these girls are for the most part very insincere and very far away. I'll
never get to see them."
You must make the girl think that she may be the special one you're looking for. This method
does something that makes it very easy to get women. It throws them a challenge. They will
think that you are something very special if you can get so many girls. A girl who thinks a guy
can get a lot of different girls will always show interest in him.
You should see why this method will work. It was the fact I was doing something very unusual
and different. You must draw attention to yourself to meet a lot of girls. You will never draw
attention to yourself if you are doing the same dull thing a hundred other guys are doing. You
must be different.
Put an ad in the paper or a singles magazine to get girls to write to you so you could get some
letters to bring to the bar. If you need help in composing an ad consult my other manuals on
personal ads or call me at home at (330) 456-5936.
Best time to call is after 8:00 in the evening. I will be glad to help you with an ad. It will
definitely be worth it. If a girl thinks you have a lot of other women she will bend over
backward to try to get you interested in her.
Case Histories
Ken - "I have to tell you about the good time I had with this method. I put an ad in my local
paper about every month or so. I would usually get about ten replies. One week I got about
twenty. I had a hell of a good time both meeting girls from the ads and also using the letters in
the bars to meet women. I met so many women because they thought I was a real ladies man
and they figured I was a real challenge. I would usually spread all the letters and pictures out
at my table and so many women would approach me that I felt like a celebrity surrounded by
sexy women. This is the best method I ever heard about on meeting women. Try it. You'll like
it."
Frank - "I loved girls but never could meet any anywhere. I would go to singles bars nearly
every Friday and Saturday night. I would have a terrible time because all I would do would be
to stare at all the sexy girls not approaching any because I was afraid of rejection. I would go
home when the bar closed, very unhappy and lonely.
I would always say to myself maybe tomorrow, but tomorrow never came. I had to do
something because before I knew it time would take over and my entire life would be over
before I had a chance to meet any girls.
I heard about this method from Wayne and decided to give it a try. Wayne helped me put an
ad in the paper. I put an ad in four Sundays in a row. I received 7 replies the first week and
about 17 the next three weeks. I never believed I could hear from so many. I just wanted to
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forget about the bar and concentrate on answering the ads at home but Wayne told me the
purpose of this was to test this method. I decided to take the letters to the bar and answer
them.
I couldn't believe what happened. I was at a table with my letters spread out and all kinds of
girls come over to me to find out what was up. This was great. I tried this at different bars for
about three months and met at least 30 different girls. I still can't believe it."
Method # Five
This method is also one of my favorites. It was mentioned to me by one of the guys I talked to
but I discovered how well it worked quite by accident. This involves making women think you
are writing a book or article on women. When I was doing research on this manual I met
dozens of good-looking women. I never had to say a word. I would let the bartender or
barmaid know I was writing a manual on meeting women and to let me know if I could
interview any that would like to give their opinions. I was literally deluged with girls coming
over to my table, wanting to tell me about their thoughts and experiences.
I would go to a table, spread out my notes and look like I was intently involved in research.
Women love to give their thoughts and experiences and I was never without women at my
table asking if I could include them in my book. It was great. Just let it be known that you are
doing research for a book or report on women and you will be surrounded by all kinds of
pretty girls.
Case Histories
Jim - "I thought this sounded like a great idea and I really wanted to try it. I was attending
college and figured I could say I was doing research for the college paper for an article on
meeting girls. The idea caught on like crazy. I would go to a bar and before I knew it all kinds
of girls would come up to me and want to be part of the research. After I met so many I would
get to know them pretty well and get dates with at least half of the girls I talked to.
I was surprised because after a lot of the girls got talking to me they would say what a nice
guy I was and they would want to get to know me. I had a ball and eventually had so many
girls I forgot about the article and just dated all the girls I met. I could safely say I met over
100 girls in six months doing research for a article I was pretending to write."
Other Places To Meet Women
Some of the more unusual places to meet women with some unusual approaches are the
following:
Riding in a car- Yes, riding in a car. Almost every guy in the world will run into a pretty girl
driving a car. Here is what you do. When you come side to side with a good looking girl in a
car, wait until you come to a light, look at her and say something like, "If I were to tell you that
you're very pretty would you get scared and drive away or would you smile at me and thank
me?" I bet she would respond very positive if you gave her a nice smile and acted very
humorous and nice. Just don't stare like a dirty old man and I bet you could meet many girls if
you approached them right. Remember you are being different and unique and this will win
many girls over.
On the beach - You can meet many girls on the beach by being funny and very humorous
and nice. Once I met a nice looking girl by doing this: I went right next to a pretty girl at a
beach and laid my towel down about two feet from hers. In a few minutes I looked over at her
and said, "Would you please move down? I need some room." She looked at me kind of
funny and didn't move a muscle I told her I was glad she didn't move because I wanted to
meet her and had to say something. She thought this was very unusual and we talked for
hours and went out that very night on a date. The point I'm trying to make is that you can
meet girls anywhere if you show a sense of humor. Women love a sense of humor and if you
have one or can develop one, it will be your greatest asset.
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How To Talk To Women
Talking to women is so easy that I can sum it up in a few words. Talk to every woman you
meet as a friend. Guys seem to find it so hard to talk to women because they feel they have
to conquer them and seduce them. Forget everything you heard about trying to seduce
women so fast. Meet them and talk to them about anything and everything. Become their
friend and you will own the world. Never and I mean never brag to a woman about yourself.
Don't try to hand her a lot of BS to try to make an impression. Women hate a guy who brags.
Let her talk about herself. Become a good listener and you will win her over. I will cover
talking to women in great detail in my next manual "The Complete Guide to Handling
Women."
Summary
You are now aware of some of the best methods of meeting women in bars. Remember they
all work. I will constantly keep you updated on different methods and systems on meeting
women. For the last ten years I have studied all kinds of methods and systems on meeting
women and will always advise you on the very best. You must develop a superior attitude.
This is very important. You will succeed if you have the right attitude. You will never use the
common approach again in meeting women. You will be different and unique. A beautiful
woman would rather meet an average looking man who is unique than a handsome guy who
is very common. Ask all the women you meet if they would rather have a handsome dull
boring guy or an average looking unique different type of guy. You should already know the
answer.
Good luck and never give up.
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The Complete Guide To Handling Women
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How These Men Changed Their Lives
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Why Men Lose A Woman After A Few Dates
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Biggest Mistake Men Make On The First Date
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The Most Important Thing A Guy Can Give A Girl
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Using Psychology On Good-Looking Women
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Why It's Easier To Pick Up Good-Looking Women Than Plain Ones
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The Importance Of This Manual
To illustrate how important the subject of handling women is just look at the
divorce rate. A study of the divorce rate states that 50% of marriages fail and
within 20 years or so it will probably be 75%, I will state here and now (a lot of
women will love me for this and a lot of men will hate me but it's true) but I really
feel that when a marriage or relationship fails it's the mans fault in over 90% of
the cases. He does not know how to handle his wife or girlfriend; he does not
know how to make her happy. He takes her for granted and ignores her.
The other day a guy who bought one of my manuals on meeting women through
personals called me and asked me the following. He wanted to know why no
women would stay interested in him. Every woman he met would lose interest in
him after the first or second date. I explained to him a few simple rules of holding
women, the same rules you will learn, and he now has no trouble. Another guy
wanted to know why all women would refuse to dance with him when he asked.
After I questioned him I realized that he was making a basic mistake nearly all
men make when they ask a girl to dance.
I had calls from hundreds of guys who have had problems with women. It is so
easy to have dozens of women in love with you and interested in you that you will
be surprised why you ever had trouble. Men make so many mistakes with women
that it's sad to see them unhappy and miserable when there is no reason for it.
Women are a joy to know and a joy to spend time with and if only guys would
apply a little know how they could have all the women they want. You will have
all the women you want when you get through with this manual.
Why You Should Listen To Me
It's so easy for someone to tell you that they can teach you all there is to know
about women and how to handle them. But why should you listen to me? Who the
hell do I think I am that I should consider myself an expert? Well let roe tell you
what I am not. I am not the kind of guy I am not good looking; in fact I am very
homely. Before I knew how to handle women I was a complete failure with all
kinds of women. I was the kind of guy who couldn't make out with a woman even
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if I paid them a hundred dollars. That was true until a few years ago, but today
things are quite different.
In high school I was very shy. I rarely dated girls and could never muster up the
courage to ask a girl for a date. The few dates that I did have were blind dates
arranged by my friends. I had a miserable life in high school as far as girls were
concerned. I met my ex wife quite by accident through a wrong number I dialed
one day on the phone. By some miracle I got to know her on the phone and made
a date. We dated nearly four years and finally got married. That was the biggest
mistake I ever made in my life. I was 22 years old and she was the only girl I
ever dated. If by chance you meet a woman and want to get married please take
my advice and don't do it unless you dated at least a hundred women. Too many
guys get married today and all they dated were a few women. How could they
know if this girl is for them unless they see what other women are like?
We were married for ten years and had three kids. Many times during those ten
years I used to daydream what a great lover I could be if only I wasn't tied down
to a wife and kids. I felt that I had missed a lot by getting married so young and
never having a chance to enjoy being a bachelor. I believed I could really have a
ball if only I was single. Finally my chance came.
After ten years of marriage, I was divorced and I suddenly found myself a 32 year
old unmarried man. Now I was ready to live the great single life that I had heard
so much about, I was ready to meet dozens of girls and sleep with as many as I
could. I was a virgin when I got married and wanted to make up for all that I had
missed. I was raring to go. A single friend of mine told me about what great
success he had in meeting girls in a certain singles bar. I decided to go with him
the following Friday.
After we got to the bar I had a few drinks and was ready to try to pick up some
girls. That night I struck out with every girl I tried to pick up. I approached ten
girls that night and struck out with every one of them. That was the story of my
life for the next seven years. I wanted to give up on girls completely. I met a guy
who told me about meeting girls through personal ads and decided to try that
method. I had tried meeting girls in bars and failed. This would be different.
After a few weeks of answering and inserting personal ads I came upon a formula
for meeting women and it worked. I even wrote two manuals on meeting women
through personals. You may have one or both of them. I had arranged to meet a
dozen women for coffee whom I met through the First few ads I placed. I really
felt they would like me and keep dating me if I wanted because I had sold myself
through my letters and phone calls. But a certain pattern emerged. Out of all the
women I met and dated not one of them wanted to dale me a second time. I was
doing something wrong and had no idea what it was. I placed more ads and met
more women but the problem of holding their interest was still there. What could
I be doing wrong? I was more depressed than ever. Here I could meet girls but
what was the use if they would not date me more than once.
I decided to try something different the next time I dated a girl to see if it would
change anything. Boy was I shocked. One little detail and all the girls were
interested in dating me again. This little known detail is what I call the "D"
technique and it is dynamite. I will explain it in detail a little later.
I decided to learn everything there was to know about women and I started by
questioning all the women I could. I talked to nearly a hundred women about
what works with them in holding their interest with guys. They were very helpful;
especially when they found out I would publish a manual for men on how to
handle women. They felt men could use all the help they could get, they all
agreed the "D" technique was great and gave me loads of other advice that you
will learn about in this manual.
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Today when I'm at home it's by choice since I have some of the most beautiful
women in my life now. There is no more loneliness for me. It took me several
months to learn how to handle women. But I did learn and what I learned works.
Once I found out what to do I changed from a lonely and unhappy guy to a guy
who makes out with the kind of gorgeous women most guys can only dream
about.
You will learn the secrets I discovered in handling beautiful women. And if you
follow my advice within days you can start meeting and dating some of the best
looking girls in the world.
How These Men Changed Their Lives
Jim - "I had terrible luck with women. It was terribly hard for me to meet
women. When I did meet women, I couldn't hold their interest at all. I would date
them once and they would never want to go out with me again. I was ready to
give up on girls when Wayne told me about the "D" technique.
I met this sexy looking girl at the supermarket. She was one of the cashiers. I
just started talking to her one day. I became pretty friendly with her. After talking
to her about two weeks I asked her out. To my surprise she agreed. I didn't want
to screw it up so I derided to we the "D" technique that very night. I picked her
up and she looked absolutely gorgeous. It was going to be hard to follow my plan
because I felt like attacking her on the spot. Have you ever seen a girl that
looked and smelled so sexy you felt you desired he" so much you'd do anything to
make love to her. This is how I felt with Jan that night. I wanted to head right for
my apartment. But I restrained myself.
We went out to eat and dancing at a local nightspot. When I danced close to Jan
my heart was beating as fast as hell. I felt like I was in another world. Could I
really go ahead with the "D" technique? As Wayne will explain in detail a little
later the "D" technique is the Dangling technique. Let her dangle he says. Easy
for him to say. When you have a beautiful sexy girl willing and eager it’s hard to
make her dangle, but I did it. I did exactly as he said and surprised not only Jan
but myself as well. Jan could nut leave me alone after that. She kept calling me
for dates. I guess I was the only guy who ever used that on her and it made me a
challenge. I dated Jan a lot and she fell in love with me. So did dozens of other
girls I used the "D" technique on. The word got around and beautiful girls were
asking my buddies to introduce them to me. My fame is spreading and my
buddies are amazed because I am a homely guy. I owe my success to the "D"
technique. Thanks Wayne."
Jim used the "D" technique with much success. I will explain it in great detail in a
little bit and how and why it works. Let's meet a few more guys whose lives have
changed since they learned how to handle women.
Louis - "My biggest problem was what to say to girls after I met them. I could
gather up the courage to talk to a girl but I could never carry on a conversation. I
would usually stand there in frozen terror not knowing what to say next. The girl
would usually lose interest and leave me. I felt that I would never have any
women because I just didn't know what to say to them.
Wayne told me how important the first 60 seconds were and what to do in those
first five minutes. He also explained to me how to warm her up and make her
receptive to my talking. It was a big help. Now I have no trouble talking to
women and I always know what to say."
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Later on in this manual you will learn everything there is on talking to women,
how to hold their interest etc. It is extremely valuable advice because why the
hell meet women if you can't talk to them?
Sam - "Until I followed Wayne's advice on handling women I was a complete
washout as far as any type of dating or relationships. I looked like a fat Woody
Allen and was what you would call a nerd. Beautiful women were only a dream to
me. Depression and loneliness were like old friends. I was in my late 20's and
never had a girlfriend. I felt that nothing would help me meet any kind of women
more less the good looking ones that Wayne claimed I could meet.
Wayne told me that he could have beautiful sexy girls begging me for dates
within two weeks. I told him that he was nuts. But since I had nothing to lose I
decided to follow his advice and see what happened.
His advice proved to be a real eye opener. I couldn't believe that it could be so
easy meeting and dating women. I met three good-looking women the very first
week I followed his advice. I not only met them, but I dated them and eventually
had to tell them to stop calling me because I wanted to go out and meet more
women. I met and dated between 30 to 40 girls in three months following the
advice in Wayne's "Complete Guide To Handling Women". Not one of them
dumped me. I had to stop dating 25 of them because I just didn't have time. It's
so easy to hold on to beautiful women once you know how.
Beautiful girls are no longer a problem for me. I have dated some of the most
beautiful girls in the world. I owe it all to "The Complete Guide to Handling
Women".
Now you are going to learn what Sam, Louis and Jim have learned, how to handle
women. Read the rest of the manual over very carefully and I guarantee you
when you finish and absorb all the principles you will be ready for some of the
most beautiful girls in the world to come into your life.
Relationships With Women
I've had hundreds of calls from guys in the last Few years asking me what is the
matter with women. They were having terrible luck. They could not keep
relationships going at all. Most of them were even having trouble getting a second
date with most women. They wanted to know why women act the way they do.
Some of them had such bad luck that they wanted to give up completely. This
would have been the biggest mistake they could ever make. So many of them
begged me to write a manual on handling women. So here it is guys. Read it and
be prepared for a radical change in your social life.
Why Men Lose A Woman After A Few
Dates
I can state here and now that one of the reasons women lose interest in men
after a few dates is that they are bored. Most guys take a girl to a movie, then
dinner and maybe a few drinks. They follow the same pattern date after date
after date. No wonder women get bored. You must take a woman on a date that
is different and unique if you really want to impress her Women like men who are
special. They remember them better and have fantasies and daydreams about
them. If you're not that good looking and want to win over women from almost
any other man then take her out on a magical memorable date. If you get a first
date with a woman the way to keep her coming back for more and more is to
take her out on a spectacular date. And the worst place to go on a First date is
the movies. How can you get to know a girl in a dark movie theatre? Some of the
very best places to take a woman on the first date are the following:
Take her dancing - One of the biggest complaints that I hear from women is
that men don't like to dance. If you can dance you are way ahead of most guys.
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Most women love to dance. If you ask a woman out and tell her you want to lake
her dancing she will be more eager to go out with you. Why? Because most men
ask a girl out to the movies and she rarely gets asked dancing so she will
consider it a real treat. Women say that men who like to dance are more
sensuous and exciting. A sexy girl once told me that men who like to dance arc
better in bed and more fun to go places with and do things with.
Besides when you are dancing with a girl you have a good reason to touch her
and hold her close. I cannot describe the wonderful feeling you can have while
holding a girl on the dance floor that excites you and appeals to you. But don't
just slow dance, fast dance also. Have you ever gone to a singles bar where they
have a band? How many times do you see two women fast dancing together?
That is because most guys do not fast dance. When women know you can fast
dance they will be extremely eager to get to know you and date you. Let's hear
what Roger has to say about dancing.
Roger - "I was really a lousy dancer. When I went to a singles bar I would
usually just stand there against the wall with a drink. Whenever I wanted to meet
a girl I would usually walk over and mumble to her about buying her a drink.
90% of the time I would be turned down. One Friday night I was at my favorite
bar watching the sexy girls dancing. I kept watching this one girl. Man was she
beautiful. I could not take my eyes off her. She had long blonde hair and a build
that wouldn't quit. I watched her for hours. Not one guy ever asked her to dance.
She sat out every slow dance and danced most of the fast dances with her
girlfriend. When the band announced it was the last song I decided to take a
chance and ask her to dance. I walked over and said, "Would you like to dance?"
She said yes which shocked the hell out of me. When we were on the dance floor
I held her tight (it was a slow dance) and was as nervous as hell. I was shaking
because she felt so good in my arms and I could smell her perfume. It was like an
aphrodisiac to me. I don't know what gave me the courage but I asked her if she
would go out with me. I told her we would go dancing and have a good time. She
told me that no guy had ever asked her out dancing before and that she would be
thrilled.
I took her out the following Friday night and we had the most fun I ever had on
any date. She told me that she would remember our first date forever because
most guys just took her to a movie and then home. We dated nearly three
months and finally she moved out of town because she got a job transfer. But she
did tell me that the main reason she went out with me was because I asked her
to go dancing. She was so beautiful that my confidence soared in meeting other
women and I now know most women love to dance and dancing would break the
ice on the First date. Asking a girl to go dancing increased my chance of getting a
date with her 100%.
Take her to an amusement park - This is a real fun date. Offer to take a girl to
an amusement park and you will almost be guaranteed a yes answer when you
ask her out. I would like to have Richard tell you about an amusement park date.
Before he does I would like to add here that many of my manuals include a lot of
case histories. That is because when many of these guys talk to me I feel it would
be so much more personal to include their actual words in my manual. I feel that
they could get the point across better than I. Do you like this practice? Write and
let me know. If you have any good experiences in meeting and dating women
write and let me know. I might include it in my next manual. On to Richard.
Richard - "I was at a singles bar one night feeling sorry for myself as usual. I
just could not meet any women. My buddy was there with me and he made
contact with a good looking girl. I thought how lucky he was. He came over to me
and told me that the girl he met had a girlfriend and asked if I would like to meet
her. I was really interested but I didn't know what to say to her so I asked him
what she looked like. He told me that she was a fox and wanted someone to
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dance with. I reluctantly agreed to meet her but I was positive that she wouldn't
like me.
When my buddy brought her over to introduce her to me, I was shocked
speechless. She was a real beauty. Her name was Laurie and she looked like an
angel that dropped from heaven. She had long dark hair and beautiful sparkling
eyes. My buddy left her alone with me and went off dancing with the girl he was
with.
Laurie was real sweet but I didn't know what to say to her. I was an avid talker
with guys but here with this beautiful girl I was speechless. It's a good thing the
bar was closing. I wanted to see Laurie again so I asked her out. At first she
hesitated, but I blurted out "Maybe we can go to Disney World."
Her face lit up just like a kid who had been told that Santa Claus was coming. Her
entire tone changed. She was so excited. Though she had lived in Florida a couple
of years she had never been to Disney World. She said that she would be thrilled
to go.
That Saturday was one of the best days in my life. We went on most of the rides,
even the ones mostly for kids. We were like two kids that day having the best
time of our lives. Laurie said that it was the best date she ever had.
Laurie and I have been dating about six months now. Recently she told me that
she would never have got to know me if I didn't take her to Disney World that
day. She wasn't going to go out with me because I seemed dull and boring.
Asking her to go to Disney World broke the ice. She told me very few guys would
take a girl to an amusement park and when they did they had a very good chance
of winning a girl's heart.
All women like the little boy in a man. Show her this little boy and you'll be
surprised at the results. Don't be like every other guy and take her to dinner and
a movie. Be different and you'll have more women than you can handle.
Other places you can take a date to make it unforgettable are some of the
following — take her on a Sunday picnic, a picnic is very romantic and she'll
remember it for a long time. How about a helicopter ride? - That’s different and
unique.
Bring her a present on the first date. She'll view your generosity as a sign of love,
of caring, of giving. Try it. Next time you arrive to pick her up see how excited
she is because you've brought her a box of candy, a card you thought was funny
or some flowers.
Do the above and I guarantee you won't be sorry. You will be amply rewarded.
Biggest Mistake Men Make On Their First
Date
You may be shocked at the material in this section but I've talked to hundreds of
women and they are in agreement that men are too aggressive, too pushy,
especially on the first date. According to most women, men act like sex-crazed
idiots, like a dog in heat. This goes hand in hand with the "D" technique, which I
will describe in the next section. A lot of good-looking women expressed the same
attitude as Tina did.
Tina — "I just don't understand men. They all think that they have to act like
some kind of macho he-man to win over a woman. I met this real nice guy at a
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singles dance one night. His name was Jim and he came across as a sincere nice
person. He asked me for a dale and I agreed. He wasn't that good looking but he
seemed to have a real nice personality.
He picked me up for our date and right away I noticed a difference. Women
know. In the car he seemed to be leering at me, as if he was undressing me with
his eyes. He looked as if his tongue was hanging out and he kept panting like a
dog in heat. I couldn't believe that this was the same guy who I had met a few
days earlier.
He took me to a movie and put his arm around me. That was nice and romantic
but he started kissing me on my ear, which was a real turnoff for two reasons. It
was too soon after I met him and it was in a crowded movie theater. He was also
breathing hard like he was extremely worked up and raring to go.
We went to a singles bar afterwards and that was even worse. I love to dance but
not with him. We danced a few slow dances and that was enough. On the dance
floor he was humping me as we danced. It was crude and vulgar. I was
embarrassed and humiliated. I felt as if I was being raped on the dance floor.
I finally told him that I didn't feel well and had to go home. At the door he asked
if he could come in for a drink or a cup of coffee. What nerve! I told him to go to
hell and slammed the door in his face, He called me many times after that but I
would never go out with him again. Where are all the nice, courteous, romantic
men? Practically every guy I meet expects sex on the first date. I want to be
courted in the old fashioned romantic way. Maybe it's just a dream. There are no
nice guys around."
It's a shame that Tina feels I hat way. There are a lot of nice guys around but
most of them are misguided as to how to treat a woman on the first date. A
woman is not a piece of meat. She's a wonderful person with feelings.
A lot of books I read on meeting women say to move fast, that women like it
when a guy moves fast. This is total B.S. Do not feel that every lime you take a
woman out it must end up in a heavy love making session, especially on the first
date. Ignore some of the advice you may have heard about speeding up when
you're with a woman. A woman today wants a man who is different and unique.
Show her some consideration and respect especially on the First date. You will
rarely seduce a girl by being too horny. The more desperate you seem for sex,
the less a woman will want to have sex with you.
For a woman nothing is more important than having a man take his time. Usually
this is not what a woman runs into. Most men bombard women with sexual
demands. If they don't come right out and ask the woman to go to bed with
them, they usually act sullen and withdrawn until the girl agrees to give them
what they want. This is a real turnoff because most women read this as sexual
anxiety and insecurity. It's a real turnoff.
A slow pace is what the skilled lover takes. When he finally decides to have sex
the woman is a very willing target. The advantages of taking your time are
numerous. You are different from the hundreds of men stampeding after sex.
Taking your time implies to a woman that you're a skilled lover, whether you are
or not. It allows you to get to know a woman in a relaxed way so when you do
make love to her it will be very exciting and wonderful. In the world of winning
with women, it is one of the best techniques there is.
This is very important. Don't push and push a girl to have sex. This goes hand in
hand with the "D" technique, which I consider dynamite in winning women. Use
the "D" technique and be prepared for hoards of women to fall in love with you.
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The "D" Technique
The "D" technique, when employed correctly, is so powerful it should be shared
with only those men who can use it correctly and wisely. The "D" technique, put
simply, is to keep her dangling. Do not even attempt any sexual advances to a
woman until at least the 7th or 8th time you date her, even longer if you can hold
out. Don't laugh or scoff at the simplicity of this. It works, it works like crazy. Let
me tell you of my own experiences and how the "D" technique literally got dozens
of women to chase me and fall in love with me. You can prove the power of the
"D" technique to yourself the same way that I did.
I discovered the "D" technique quite by accident. I had been meeting various
women through personal ads. I would arrange to meet them for coffee dates and
a little conversation. 90% of them would agree to go out with me on a First date
but I could never get a second date with them. I was doing something wrong and
had to find out what. I thought over what I did and figured that maybe I was
coming on too strong on the first date. I decided to develop an uncaring altitude
about sex. On my next date I would act like she didn't turn me on at all.
A girl named Shirley answered one of my ads. She sent me a letter with her
phone number so I called her and made a date for a cup of coffee. I met her and
we both agreed to go out that same evening for a few drinks and do some
dancing. I was completely free of worry that night. I had a good lime and made
no sexual passes at all. I acted just as if I was out with a female friend.
When I took Shirley home, I walked to her door, gave her a light kiss and left.
She looked surprised and bewildered. I dated Shirley six or seven times before
she practically attacked me one night in her apartment. By that time she was
madly in love with me because I was different thin any other guy she dated. I
presented a complete challenge. If a woman thinks that she doesn't appeal to you
she will try anything to prove to you that she is appealing.
I always use the "D" technique. In the six months after I dated Shirley I met
thirty other women and tried the "D" technique on every one of them. On each
date I acted very nonchalant and indifferent as far as sexual contact was
concerned. Every one of these women fell for me. They called me night and day
trying to get me interested in them. They were trying to seduce me instead of the
other way around. This is dynamite and really works. Why does it work?
Because you're a challenge.
Do you always wonder why women fall for guys they cannot seem to hold on to?
Because the "D" technique is used over and over again. It can be used for other
areas besides sex.
You can dangle a woman as far as interest is concerned also. Do not call her
every night — keep her guessing about how you feel. Let her be aware that you
date other women. This will hold her interest. You will always be a challenge and
women love a challenge.
I've got to tell you about Doug. Doug is in his early 30's, divorced and a little
overweight. But he has dozens of beautiful women chasing him night and day. It
wasn't always that way. I'm going to let Doug tell you exactly what he told me.
Doug - "I was a hopeless failure with women for years. I met Wayne in a singles
club, "Parents Without Partners". We talked quite a while and I told him about my
trouble with women. He advised me to start being more relaxed around women
and to stop being so eager for sex when I took than out. I read all the books
about how liberated women were and I figured that they were all eager for sex. It
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was easy to meet women in PWP (Parents Without Partners) because there was
about two women for every guy. I could usually get the First date with a girl but
none of then) would go out with me a second time. I knew I was doing something
wrong. I told Wayne all this and he told me about the "D" technique.
What did I have to lose? I decided to try it. I asked a girl named Barbara out.
Even though it was easy to meet women in PWP the really good looking ones
would not go out with me. I would settle for the less attractive women. Barbara
was nice but average (I know I should have judged women by their personalities
and not looks but at that time I had never dated a beautiful woman and I
dreamed about it all the time).
When I went out with Barbara I acted like a completely different person. Wayne
said the dangling technique was to keep the girl dangling as long as possible and
not to make any sexual advances. Just have a good time.
Barbara and I did have a good time. It was nice because there was no tension in
the air for me to make a move sexually. We went bowling and I treated her just
like a friend, not a sexual conquest. I dated Barbara seven times before I even
tried anything sexual at all (other than an occasional kiss). By that time Barbara
was ready to attack me. She even asked me why I didn't find her attractive.
I dated three or four other women while I was dating Barbara and I treated them
all the same. I tried no sexual advances on any of them.
Soon very good-looking women were approaching roe at the PWP meetings and
dances. They were coming up to me and introducing themselves. Some of my
buddies told me that I was getting a reputation as a lady-killer. Evidently some of
the women were talking.
I must have dated over 100 women in PWP in that year. Some of the girls I dated
were so sexy and appealing it was hard for me to hold back but the wait was
worth it. The sex I did have was exciting and wonderful. After dangling these
women for so long they went out of their way to please me.
Now that I've dated some of the most beautiful women around, all women appeal
to me. I date beautiful women as well as average looking women. I can date
practically any woman I want.
In the last year my reputation has become legion. Women approach me all the
time wanting to dance and go out with me. I am the first guy women want to
meet when they join PWP. Other guys are jealous and envious of me. I owe it all
to the "D" technique. Thanks Wayne."
Doug is one of the many guys using the "D" technique successfully. You can do
the same. You've got to adopt the attitude of dating women in a non-sexual way
early in the dating game. You will be a challenge to them. They will wonder if
they are appealing and why you don't find them attractive. This will make you
very attractive to them and they will go to any lengths to seduce you. By the 6th
or 7th date you will drive these women crazy wondering why you are not making
a sexual advance. They will be wild for your body by this time.
Besides sex you should also let a woman dangle for many other reasons. No
woman likes a doormat for a boyfriend, be more of a challenge. Always leave
some doubt about how you feel about her. Treat her nice and tender but don't
call her every night and day. Tell her you love her but don't let her think the sun
rises and shines on her. Women will respect and love you if you're more of a
challenge and a mystery. I would like to hear more from you on the results you
obtain using the "D" technique.
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The First 60 Seconds
What you say or do in the First sixty seconds will determine many times whether
or not a woman will respond to you. All you have to do is keep the woman's
unconscious attention focused directly on you (and off everyone else) in a positive
manner for a total of one minute from the time you meet her. This really works,
you must project something positive and appealing. Come across very humorous
and very honest and you will do very well. Some of the best approaches in the
first 60 seconds are the following:
1) Ask for help. This is one of the best. You can go up to a woman and ask her
just about anything. Woman love to be helpful. You can ask her questions about
directions, cooking, grocery shopping, and even asking her to help you pick out a
gift for your mother.
2) An honest approach. Just go up to her and tell her she's pretty and that you
would like to meet her. Honesty is the best policy. A woman appreciates a man
who is honest.
3) One of the best approaches is the humorous approach. Just go up to a girl and
smile and start laughing and joking about anything, a funny movie or book etc.
This worked for me with a good-looking girl named Linda. Let me tell you about
Linda. You can use the same technique. I went to a singles dance one Friday
night by myself and was hoping to meet some girls. I got there about eight thirty
and the First thing I did was order a drink and stand against the wall watching the
girls. It's amazing how many of us guys make a career of standing up against the
wall. I noticed Linda about two hours later. She was sitting at a table with a girl I
knew, just a friend of mine. I kept staring at Linda but she kept turning her head
away. I thought she must be a snob because she didn't even smile when she
looked up at me.
Finally the other girl waved me over and asked me to sit down a second, I, being
my friendly self, sat down but didn't know what to say. I sat there for nearly 10
minutes not saying a word. I was aware of Linda the whole time because she
smelled so good and was so pretty. She was a brunette and had the most
beautiful eyes that I had ever seen. She also had long beautiful hair and I just
love long hair.
Jan, the other girl I knew, was asked to dance and I was left sitting alone with
Linda. I was sitting in stunned silence when I decided to say something. I blurted
out, "I wonder if the wall fell down yet, I was holding it up so long." I looked over
at the wall and ran over and pretended to hold it up again. Linda laughed a little
and she seemed to become friendlier. We even danced a few times.
Before they left that night I became bold and asked for Linda's phone number.
She told me that she just moved and didn't have a phone but could she have
mine. I gave her my phone number but I never expected her to call because I felt
she was politely turning me down by not giving me her phone number.
To my shock she called me a few days later. We made a date and went out the
following week. We had a hell of a good time. Linda and I went together about six
months and it was one of the best periods of my life.
I asked Linda one time why she even talked to me that night and why she called
me. She told me something that I’ll remember for a long time and it helped me
meet dozens of pretty girls after that. She looked at me and said, "You opened
your mouth." Just because I said something humorous I appealed to her. I know I
could never appeal to her on my looks alone. Linda was about 10 years younger
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than me and extremely soy. Guys everywhere used to stare at her when I took
her out.
Just open your mouth, very good advice. Say something and hold her interest for
at least 60 seconds. You will have 50% of the battle won. My cousin David
discovered a very unique method of meeting women and he shared it with me. He
met over 100 girls with this method. Use it and you will be surprised. Let David
tell you about it.
David - "I discovered this quite by accident. I worked for a toy manufacturer. We
were trying to sell a new line of stuffed animals that talked. I had an appointment
out of town one-day. To demonstrate the bear, I had a room at the Holiday Inn
and was testing the bear in my room and had trouble getting it to work, I decided
I would be more relaxed if I had a drink, So I went down to the bar with the
teddy bear.
I sat at a corner table trying to figure out why the teddy bear wouldn't talk. I was
nearly frantic when I heard a soft voice asking me what I had in my hands and
how cute it was. I looked up and saw one of the prettiest girls I had ever seen.
She sat down and asked to see the bear. I gave her the bear and she had it
talking in a minute. I had the batteries in wrong. Many girls came over that night
and asked to see the bear. I made friends with a lot of them and they said that
they would go out with me the next time I was in town.
I bring unusual stuffed animals anytime I go to a bar or restaurant now. Wayne
and I met twelve girls one night in a restaurant we brought some stuffed dogs in
and set them on the table. I met over 100 girls just by bringing some kind of
unusual toy with me in a restaurant or bar."
Remember girls like a guy who is different or unique. Try bringing a cute stuffed
animal in a bar or restaurant some night and see how many girls come over and
start a conversation with you. You can certainly hold their interest for 60 seconds.
You can even tell them it's a gift for your little niece or nephew. This is one of the
best methods for meeting a woman and holding her interest that I know of.
The Most Important Gift A Guy Can Give
A Girl
I talked to hundreds of women about this and they all agreed that the very best
gift a guy could give them is to become their friend. You would be surprised that
so many women are dying for a man to be their friend. Friendship, in many ways,
is even more special than romance or sex and a relationship that develops from
friendship is extremely enduring and satisfying.
The sad part is that so many men today are so eager to seduce a woman that
they forget all about being her friend. Most of the time they don't even like her. A
man that allows himself to become close to a woman and become her friend can
only make the vibes between them more exciting and intimate.
The most successful pickup artists are men who truly enjoy the company of
women. A woman is a lot freer with a man who opens up to her, lets her know
how terrific she is, and allows friendship to develop between them. Love is a little
more than sex plus friendship. But for love to appear, friendship has to be there
first. I missed out on one of the sexiest and nicest girls in the world because I
didn't know the value of friendship.
I first met Bonnie in my second year in college. She sat next to me in Psychology
class. She was breathtaking in her beauty. She had long black hair and a shape
that wouldn't quit. We were picked to write a project together. We became very
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close friends because we had to study together. I remember many times sitting
next to Bonnie that I became misty eyed because she was so pretty and smelled
so good. I thought to myself, 'Why couldn't she be more than just a friend? Many
of my buddies saw us studying together and told me that they would like to have
a friend like her. Bonnie and I became a twosome around college. I figured she
regarded me just like a brother and would never consider me more than a friend.
Bonnie and I went our separate ways and I ran into her about ten years later. I
saw her at a shopping mall one evening. I was married at the time, about to get
divorced, and Bonnie was as beautiful as ever. She was married to a doctor. She
shocked me by what she told me. She admitted to me that I was the best friend
she ever had in college and that because I was so close to her that she fell in love
with me. She never told me that because she figured that I wasn't interested. I
couldn't believe it. Here I thought she considered me just a friend, but because I
became her friend she fell in love with me. I missed out because I didn't know
how high women value friendship from men.
I no longer make that mistake. Because I become friends with nearly all women I
have dated, I have had dozens of women fall in love with me. Do not throw away
this chance. The next woman you meet, become her friend and you won't be
sorry.
Romance
Do not skip over this section lightly. Women all over the world are dying for men
with a little romance in their souls. You have to get away from being the common
guy. Become romantic. One of the most important traits that women are trying to
find in their search for good men is a man who is romantic. They are praying for
this. Women want romance. They crave it. They dream about it. They get very
tittle from their men. Some of the ways you can get romantic are the following:
1) Take her for a walk. Walk some place that's nice and pretty, hold her hand,
talk of dreams, and be together and alone. A woman would love a walk in the
park. She would love to sit with you on a couple of swings, swinging back and
forth without a care. Believe me if you can lure her into taking a walk, the
romance will flow and the closeness will be greater than it could ever be on a
date.
2) Kiss her very romantically the first time. When you kiss her for the first time
don't let it be at the door when you drive her home. How about when you're
walking her to the car - do this - stop and hold her in your arms, kiss her gently
and say, "I know this is a weird place to kiss you but I just want to say I'm glad
to meet you and to thank you for coming into my life! She will probably
remember it always.
3) Compliment her on her looks. Never tell her she is beautiful. Always substitute
the word pretty. Girls love that word and when you say, "You're so pretty", or "Hi
pretty face", it will melt her heart. Always tell her she looks nice and very pretty.
You will never lose out.
4) Buy her all kinds of small gifts during the year, not just on her birthday but
anytime. Send her all kinds of romantic cards anytime of the year. You will never
be without women if you use a little romance on them.
How To Get Any Woman You Want
Is there a certain woman you want that you think that you cannot have? If there
is or if you ever run into a beautiful woman that you want with all your heart and
soul, there is a certain program you can follow to win her. Perhaps she is going
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with some handsome dude or she is so pretty that you feel she is unattainable.
Neither one is reason not to try to win her. Let me tell you a little secret. No
woman can resist a programmed, persistent, sincere pursuit. By nature a woman
loves to be chased, wooed and wanted. Joe wanted this gift so bad that he could
taste it. He finally won her over by pursuing the hell out of her. Do the same
thing he did and I guarantee you no girl can resist it.
Joe - "I first saw Tiffany at the bank where I do my business. She was one of the
tellers. She was so beautiful and nice that I dreamed of her at night. I was
determined that I would take her out. I asked her out but she told me that she
was engaged. I was still determined to have her.
I found out where she lived and started sitting outside her house in the evenings.
I knew he went over to her house at night, so one night I hid in the bushes and
waited for him. When he came up the walk I came up behind him and acted like I
was lost. In my hand was a bunch of rows and a small toy angel. I kept looking at
a piece of paper in my hand pretending I was looking for an address. I said to
him, 'excuse me, I'm delivering for Andersen's florist, could you tell me where a
Miss Tiffany Wilson lives?"
He was very helpful and even took up the gift with him. There was a note with
the gift that said, 'To the angel from your devil, tell him I said thanks for
delivering these for me. Joe.'
This cracked her up so much she called me later and was still laughing about it.
From then on I put notes and cards on his car window when he picked her up for
a date. I always said it was from the one who really loved her, her little devil, just
waiting for his angel to reform him. He was getting madder and madder about
me. He was showing a really jealous side of his nature. I send flowers and cards
of love to the bank where she worked.
One time I put flowers in his car while he was inside her apartment picking her up
for a date. On his side of the car I put a stuffed jackass. I put a note saying, 'Hi,
thinking of you but I felt it wouldn't be fair to slight him so I bought a little token.
Joe.'
Boy was he pissed off. She was laughing and he was pissed and the more she
laughed the madder he got.
Another time I put a note on her door when they were out on a date so they
would see it when he walked her to the door. It said, 'Joe was here to touch your
door because he loves you. Sleep tight.'
Eventually they broke up because he was always giving her hell about me. They
were always fighting. She finally started dating me and I eventually married her.
She never forgot the wild things I did to win her over."
If you decide you want a woman, stick by your convictions and never give up/in
the beginning she may avoid you, embarrass you or even totally ignore you. So
what! You want her and you don't intend to give up until you get her. Romance
her every one of her days. Send her tokens of affections at all hours of the day
and night. Send her notes, flowers, toys, perfumes, and anything else that would
be beneficial. Try everything in the book. Just don't stop trying. If you persist,
she will eventually break down. It may take a year but the wait will definitely be
worth it.
How To Talk To Women
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Has this ever happened to you? You walk up to a girl, manage to introduce
yourself and you dry up. You stand there in front of this total stranger and can't
think of a thing to say. There is a way to prepare yourself so you won't be
tongue- tied when you are with a girl.
The way to do this is to prepare a format, a sequence of conversational
techniques. You can do this by doing the following:
Get the girl talking. Women love to talk if you can get her to talk about things
that interest her by asking questions and taking an interest. The best questions to
ask her are:
1) "What work do you do?" She will tell you all about her duties and coworkers.
She could talk about this for hours. You and she could then talk about each
other's work and really get into a good conversation.
2) "What school did you go to?" You can follow up on this by asking her what
courses she took, what kind of activities she engaged in etc. You can even ask
her about some of her teachers.
3) "What kind of music do you like?" You can really get into it about music,
singers and records.
You can really talk about anything and everything, talk about movies, television
(your favorite shows), radio, politics, current events etc. Remember women love
a good listener and if you get her talking, she will love you for listening and
taking an interest in her ideas.
Some of the things not to talk about are sex (not at first), past girlfriends or
religion (not when you first meet her).
Women love a sense of humor so always be prepared to tell some humorous
stories or funny Jokes. Just do not engage her in very dull or uninteresting talk.
For example do not talk about science or the sex life of rocks. You will be
surprised how easy it is to talk to a girl after some practice.
Using Psychology On Good-Looking
Women
If you can use Psychology on women you will be very successful in handling
women. You can have a great degree of influence over the way women think if
you go about it the right way. You should train yourself in the art of influencing
other people the same way you train yourself for a job. First of all, to be
successful in using Psychology on women you must fulfill her needs. You can
determine her needs by a lot of listening and watching. Keep a woman talking
about herself and make mental notes of what she likes, her fears, her wants and
needs etc. Always watch what she does and you will eventually be given the key
to what makes her tick. You will know how to satisfy her deepest needs and
desires. This is not hard to do. All you have to do is be a good listener.
Another way Psychology becomes helpful in handling women is using the
principles of selling. You must create a desire for yourself in the woman. Just
think if a salesman was selling sweepers and he went up to a prospect and said,
"here it is lady, would you like to buy it?" He would make very few sales.
The most important aspect of selling is that a desire for the product can be
created in the person by a prolonged simulation of the person's imagination with
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favorable aspects of the product. This can be done by talking or writing about the
product.
You can do the same with a woman you're trying to impress. You can create a
favorable image of yourself by a continued exposure of your personality to a
woman. Be humorous, nice and gentle and you will sell yourself in her mind.
Fulfill her needs and let her feel good and important when she's with you and you
will have it made.
Why It's Easier To Pick Up Good Looking
Women Than Plain Ones
Many times it's a lot easier to pick up very pretty women rather than plain looking
ones. Why? Because a lot of plain looking women want handsome men. It makes
then look better to others, especially their friends.
But most women, especially pretty ones, attach much more importance to what's
inside a man than what is outside. Personality, sensitivity, and a sense of humor
are real turn-on for most women.
In fact a number of very beautiful women do no want handsome men. They feel a
handsome man is empty and has no personality because he relies on his looks to
meet women. They say that they would rather take an ordinary looking guy who's
fun to be with rather than a guy who is stuck on his looks.
Women slave over their looks so the last thing they want is to be with some
handsome dude who everyone stares at. They want to be with a man who lets
them be the pretty one. This is definitely true because I have heard it from nearly
every beautiful woman I know. So go to it and chase some beautiful women.
Summary - Enjoy Yourself
The things you have learned in this manual have brought a miraculous change in
my life and I am sure they will do the same for you. Those gorgeous women with
sparkling eyes, long beautiful hair, sensual lips, pretty hair and a sexy shape can
now be yours. The point is to meet a lot of women and get along with all of them.
Meet and date as many as you can. It will prepare you if you are looking for the
love of your life. But life is short, so enjoy it.
The techniques in this manual are very effective and no girl, no matter how
beautiful, is out of your reach. The world's most desirable women are yours for
the taking.
Enjoy yourself.
Wayne
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The Secrets Of Attracting Beautiful Women
I have found out the way to meet beautiful women is to be different and unique. Women do
not want the dull average guy. You can meet and date more beautiful women than the best
looking guy in the world if you come across as "different" than the average man.
With the various techniques I describe in this manual, beautiful women will be yours by the
dozens.
I guarantee it.
By the way this manual is titled" Secrets of Attracting Beautiful Women" which is "The
Complete Guide To Attracting Women Volume II". Volume one of Attracting Women covered
mostly meeting women in bars.
This manual will cover techniques that you can use anywhere and everywhere. If you see a
beautiful woman in the mall or a restaurant, use one of these techniques on her. You may be
surprised. Now let's stop hearing Wayne blow wind and let him tell you all the secrets of
attracting beautiful women.
Become The Ladies Man Of Your Dreams
The Seven Words To Meet Women Anywhere And Everywhere
The Best Place In The World To Meet Women
The Little Known Secret To Attracting Dozens Of Beautiful Women
Why 95% Of Men Fail To Meet Girls
Become The Ladies Man Of Your Dreams
How bad do you want beautiful sexy women? Do you want them so bad you can taste it? Let
me tell you a little about myself and how I became an expert (a legend in my own mind) on
meeting and dating beautiful women. You may see a little or a lot of yourself in my life.
I loved girls since I was in the 5th grade, maybe even before that because I think I had a
crush on a little blonde in kindergarten. But I remember distinctly in 5th grade I was in love
with a girl named Missy. She was so pretty to a boy like me in the 5th grade.
Most of my friends wanted to play baseball or football, I wanted to play with Missy. I carried
her books to school, followed her everywhere, and she broke my heart when she told me she
didn't like boys.
I stayed her friend and was in love with her through the sixth grade when she did find a
boyfriend, but it wasn't me. It was a boy named Tom. Oh how I hated him. I dreamt of various
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ways to bump him off so I could have Missy (must have been influenced by the horror movies
I liked).
Tom was a boy that others considered handsome. I was considered a nerd by most of the
other guys because I wore glasses, was skinny as a rail, and didn't like sports. The only
playing I wanted to do was with girls. I spent all my time thinking about pretty girls while other
guys thought about baseball and football.
This is still true today. Many of the guys I know can't wait for Sunday football, I can't wait until
the next time I have a chance to meet a beautiful girl. I would rather have a beautiful girl in my
arms than an ugly old football. But if you like sports, all well and good, just don't let it become
the dominant interest in your life. I go to some games, but believe me I still stare at the sexy
girls most of the time rather than the game itself.
Of course if I have a date with me I pay complete attention to her, but if I'm alone I look at the
girls. As I ramble on I'm trying to tell about some of the mistakes I made and try to stop you
from making them. I will tell you about Karen and the big mistake I made and because of that
I lost out on a teenage beauty that every guy in school had a crush on. Whatever you do,
don't mess up like I did.
To an average looking guy, especially a nerd, high school is the hardest time in life to attract
sexy girls unless the guy is handsome and built. That's why I never forgot Karen and how I
lost my chance. I was a sophomore in high school when I first saw Karen. I was working part
time after school in my uncle's shoe repair and she walked in with a pair of her dad's shoes to
be fixed.
My mouth fell when I saw her. How can I tell you what she looked like? How do you describe
an angel? She had long brown hair, a nice shape, and the face of an angel. When she smiled
I thought of an angel in heaven smiling. (This was the way I described pretty girls then, as
angels in heaven).
I found out where Karen lived by the slip she filled out with her shoe order. I bombarded her
with phone calls, love letters, poems of love, and dozens of small gifts pledging my undying
love. I suffocated her with love and words of love. I called her day and night telling her I loved
her and couldn't live without her. It was too much too soon.
Can you tell what the fatal mistake was that I made? I was having a 16th birthday party and I
invited Karen. She said she would come as a friend. I was so happy, the girl of my dreams
was coming to my party. I told everyone about how my beautiful girlfriend was going to be at
my party. I wanted to make all my buddies jealous.
I had a small picture of Karen that one of her friends gave me and I wrote on the back of it "To
the boy I love and hope to marry someday Karen". I was a teenage boy lying to my friends.
The day before the party Karen called me and told me she was not going to come to the
party. She was mad because the whole school thought I was going steady with her because
of my lies that she loved me.
She told me that I was only a friend and never to call her again unless I could be just a friend
and would stop with the lies and love letters. I should have said yes but instead I broke down
crying and told her I would kill myself if she didn't come to my party. I pleaded with her. I
begged her. I finally told her to go to hell and said that if I was a big football star that she
would probably go out with me. She hung up on me and I never talked to her again.
The next few months I lived in a fog thinking that I wish I were dead because the only girl I
ever loved would not love me. About three months later a friend of Karen's (Janice) told me
that I would have had a good chance with Karen because I was a nice guy and she liked that.
Most of the guys Karen dated were football stars but they all wanted sex or were stuck on
themselves. Karen told her that I came along at the right time but I was too serious and
possessive. I should have become her friend she told Janice and I would have had a good
chance. She asked me to become her friend and I refused. It was too late now because it
would look like I was only doing it to get in good with her.
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The lesson I want to get across here is that even if a girl does not want to date you or become
involved in a relationship with you then offer to become her friend. You never know what it
may lead to. A friendship with the woman of your dreams may lead to a relationship with the
woman of your dreams. My last two years in high school were miserable to say the least. I
only weighed 98 lbs. and was called "Bony" by all the guys. No girl would give me the time of
day because they all thought of me as that "skinny guy with the glasses." I was the last one
chosen in gym class for any team because I was lousy at sports.
I am only telling you all this to let you know what a washout I was with girls in high school and
how different it is today. Today I don't have to worry about being skinny but about getting fat. I
have a pot belly and have a very difficult time losing weight. Now I feel more confident around
women when I am thin. I am 5' 8" and weigh around 160 lbs. but still have a little bit of a pot
belly. I don't want to bore you with too much of my personal life but I want you to know that no
matter how bad you had it with women I will help you to become a ladies man.
Just listen to everything I say and you will be successful beyond your wildest dreams. All my
advice is based on experience and the help of hundreds of women. To succeed with women
you must ask them what it takes and I have done that. So let's get the meat of the manual.
THE SEVEN WORDS TO MEET WOMEN ANYWHERE AND
EVERYWHERE
Would you like to walk up to a pretty woman and say seven words, walk away and have her
call you within a few days? It's possible with this new method of attracting women. Women
love to meet a man who is different and unique. This method was told to me by one of my
customers in Florida.
He told me that him and his friend meet about a dozen sexy women each and every month
saying the seven words. Here is how it works:
Go to any print shop and get about 1000 business cards printed up with your name and
phone number on the front. On the back of the card have printed the following:
"Hi I think you're very pretty and I'd like to get to know you better... but I don't know how to
ask. Can we meet for a cup of coffee sometime. Call me."
You could have any variation printed. Just get across that you think she's pretty and you
would like to meet her. Go up to any mall or anywhere there is a lot of women and walk up to
the girls you want to meet and say these seven words.
"Pardon me. Do you have a phone?" Or you can say "Do you have a phone? Call me."
After you say the seven words you give them a card and leave. On the card you have printed
the following "I think you are really pretty and I'd like to get to know you better - but I don't
know how to ask. Can you meet me for a cup of coffee sometime? Call me. Wayne (330) 456-
5936."
You can use a little bit of variation. Let's see what a few other guys have done.
Brian - "I had horrible luck with women and I hated to get rejected when I asked a girl to
dance or to go on a date. When Wayne told me about the seven words I liked the idea
because there was no verbal rejection. I would say the seven words, give the girl the card and
walk away. If she called me fine, if not I would never know the feel of rejection when a girl
would say no to my face because there could be many reasons she didn't call other than not
liking my looks. I went to a printer and had a thousand cards printed up. I had the following
printed on the cards.
"I hope I'm not being too forward, but I had to do something to let you know I'm interested.
Please call me. Brian (my phone number)."
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I went to one of the biggest malls in town where hundreds of good looking girls hung out. This
would be a good place to test this method. I took a hundred cards and took off for the mall. I
figured handing out a hundred cards that I would get some calls. When I got to the mall I saw
dozens of sexy girls and my mouth watered at the beauty I saw before me. The first girl I saw
that I wanted to approach was a beautiful sexy blonde sitting in the food court having a cup of
coffee. She was absolutely gorgeous. I walked up to her and muttered
"Do you have a phone? Call me?"
She looked up at me and I dropped the card on the table and ran. I handed out about 10 more
cards that night, all to real pretty girls I saw in the mall. I was nervous as hell when I handed
out the cards, but it would be worth it if just one of those pretty girls called. I went home that
night hoping and praying that I would get a few calls. About three days later, after giving up on
the idea of anyone calling, I received a call. The girl sounded very sexy and nice.
She told me that it was very creative to hand out such a cute little card. Her name was Linda
and we talked about 2 hours. I met her at the mall a few days later and she was absolutely
beautiful. She liked my sense of humor and would probably never even give me a second
look in a bar. We dated about four months and we ended up parting as friends. I now meet
many girls using the seven words with various sayings and approaches. Thanks Wayne."
Joe - "I guess you could call me a loser when it came to meeting women. I would go to bars
mostly and just stand around looking at the pretty girls. Some guy at one of the bars told me
he heard about a dynamite way to meet women by just saying seven words. He told me that a
guy named Wayne Ross was writing a book on meeting women and that the seven words
was one of the techniques to meet a lot of women. I met Wayne the next day and became a
very good friend of his.
I told him I was very unlucky with girls and I went through high school and college with very
few dates. I'm tall and thin with a pot belly and I wear glasses. I am very nerdish looking and
never thought I could meet pretty girls saying the seven words. I told him that I was ready to
try anything because I was so miserable. I was tired of getting rejected and watching all the
other guys walk off with the pretty girls. I was scared shitless when I first went to the mall to
try out the seven words. I had about 500 cards printed up.
On one side I had printed:
"I really think you're pretty and I'd like to get to know you. Please give me a call. My name and
phone number are on the back."
I handed about 15 out to various nice looking girls the first day at the mall. I just walked up to
them, asked them if they had a phone, gave them the card, and walked away. I kept handing
cards out all that week at different malls and stores. I even handed some out at Burger King. I
couldn't believe the response.
I got about a dozen calls the very first week and met about half of them. Most of them said
they called because it was different and they were curious. Most guys come up with the same
old line in a bar and women were tired of the same old technique. I finally met the girl of my
dreams. She was beautiful and had the nicest personality of anyone I ever met. I would never
have believed I could meet someone like her and it all took place because I walked up to her
and asked her if she had a phone."
Doug - "I hate bars, so when Wayne told me about the seven words and how it could help me
meet all kinds of sexy girls, I was very skeptical to say the least. I knew Wayne about seven
years and he was just average looking but in the last couple years whenever I saw him he
had a different girl with him so I figured he knew something. I invested in about 1000 cards
and had the following printed on one side.
"I want to know you better...but I don't know how to ask. Can we meet for a cup of coffee
sometime? My first name and phone number are on the back of this card."
I handed them out everywhere I saw pretty girls. I even gave a couple to a girl I saw in the
movie show. Of course I was too shy to talk to her so I just handed her the card and even
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forgot to ask her if she had a phone. She called me, along with a lot of other girls, and I met
most of them and ended up dating about a dozen. Here I met a dozen girls in a month using
the seven words and before I couldn't meet a dozen girls in a year. Thanks Wayne."
There you have it. This is a great way to meet women and anyone can do it. You really don't
even have to say the seven words. Just hand girls the cards and walk away. You will be
surprised at how many girls will call you. In the next section I consider the most important I
have ever written. I will tell you the best place ever to meet women and will tell you the secret
of attracting dozens of beautiful women to you without saying a word.
The Best Place In The World To Meet Women
Now I'm going to tell you the best place to meet dozens and dozens of sexy gorgeous women
and how to get many of them attracted to you without saying a word. There are nearly ten
women to every man at these places and your odds are great in meeting the woman of your
dreams or becoming a ladies man, as I have, with all kinds of women at your side.
Please listen to me as I lead you on how I, a nerd without anyone, became a ladies man in a
very short period of time. Let's start off with my experiences.
Wayne - "The very best place in the world to meet a lot of women are singles dances. Now
hear me out before you pass judgment and come up with all kinds of excuses why it won't
happen to you. Like I said the women outnumber men ten to one (Only count the men who
dance, don't count the guys who hold up the wall drinking and staring but never asking a girl
to dance.)
All you have to do is get up and dance. I'm talking about dances where top 40 music is played
not ballroom dancing which attract all older people. Be young whether you're 25 or 55. Fast
dancing and slow dancing are easy to do. Anyone can do it. I want to tell you how I went from
a lonely nerd at the dance to the most popular guy there.
Crystal Light is a very popular singles dance spot here in Canton. They have top 40 bands
and once in a while a 50's band. Sometimes they just have a disc jockey who plays top 40
music. You can do exactly what I did and meet dozens of beautiful girls so listen up. When I
first went to Crystal Light about 2 years ago I walked in and was scared stiff. I was alone and
everyone looked so unfriendly and snobbish. There were a lot of beautiful women but they all
looked like snobs. (First mistake I made is to form an impression.)
That very first night I only asked 5 girls to dance. They all said no. The excuses ranged from "I
don't like to dance" to "I'm with someone." One girl even told me that she just got her foot
operated on and couldn't dance. I saw her a few minutes later dancing with someone else. I
was really depressed and looked in the mirror and thought maybe it was because I was too
old.
The dances were held every Friday and Sunday night so I decided to give it a few more
chances. One of the first things I noticed at these dances were that the really pretty girls were
getting asked to dance all the time and the unattractive girls, especially the heavy ones, were
never asked. I thought why not ask them. I was there to have a good time and to learn how to
dance a little better.
I started asking the heavier girls to dance and they almost always accepted. I was having a
good time. A strange thing happened. After about two weeks of dancing with the relatively
heavy women a beautiful girl came up to me and asked me to dance on a ladies choice. I
was shocked.
She told me she asked me to dance because I seemed like a nice guy who would dance with
anyone just to have a good time. She also told me how to attract a lot of women there and
that was to be seen dancing with a lot of women. She said women always want men other
women want. That was the best advice a woman ever gave me. She also told me women,
especially attractive ones, were more prone to agree to a fast dance than a slow one.
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So from that night on I always asked women to fast dance first and I danced with some of the
most beautiful women there. If a girl dances with you fast first she is more prone to dance a
slow dance with you later. So many guys want to slow dance but they don't want to fast
dance. Just get up there and move. Today it's more freestyle than anything. Some guys are
so afraid of rejection that they make excuse after excuse so they won't have to ask a girl to
dance. Every week I hear the same old excuses from the guys standing in the back watching
everyone else have fun. They range from "There's too many guys here" to "The women all
look like snobs."
Life is passing these guys by.
Are you like this?
Rejection is only temporary. If you ask ten girls to dance and only one says yes, so what,
have fun with the one that says yes. Forget the ones that say no. Remember Babe Ruth? He
had the most home runs but also had the most strike outs. I ask girl after girl to dance. Many
say no, but I've also danced with some of the best looking girls in the world. Many of these
women have become my friends and many want to date me. I can have my choice of many
beautiful girls I dance with week after week at the singles dances.
Do not ever hold a grudge against a girl that refuses to dance with you. She has the right to
turn you down if she wants. She may be tired or just not in the mood. Girls have turned me
down who have turned around and danced with me the following week. I have asked two
other guys to give you their views on singles dances.
Jack - "I started going to singles dances about a year ago. I've dated three girls I met at the
dances and many others wanted to go out with me but I'm having too much fun to get serious
with anyone. I dance with at least ten to fifteen girls every night I go to the dances and I have
the time of my life. Those other guys that don't dance don't know what they're missing.
If a girl refuses to dance with me I just ask someone else. Hell, it's her loss. I'm a great guy
and a lot of fun. This is the greatest place in the world to meet women. Those losers that
stand in the back and just drink and stare at the girls are nuts."
Dick - "When I first came to the dances two years ago I was lonely and depressed. I did the
bar scene for a couple of years but was tired of all the games and lies. Someone told me
about the singles dances. I heard there were a lot of girls there. I wanted to meet some nice
women to date.
The first night I went I got turned down ten times. I was really depressed and wanted to give
up and never come back when a friend of mine told me what I was doing wrong. I learned that
a woman likes a guy who is in a good mood and laughs and has a good time. I ask dozens of
girls to dance and many times will get turned down but I just smile when a girl turns me down
and walk away. Being turned down is not the end of the world."
I spent a lot of time on this topic because I really believe that singles dances are one of the
best places to meet women in the world. You can meet dozens of girls to have a good time
with or you can meet a girl to fall in love with. Just ask the girls to dance. You don't have to
know how to dance. Just get up and do your thing. Watch the teenagers on MTV and pick up
a few pointers fast dancing and far as slow dancing just have the girl teach you if you don't
know how. Personal ads and singles dances are the methods I've met the most women with,
but there are a lot of other ways to meet women such as the seven words I've described
above and the following methods I will cover now.
THE "NC" TECHNIQUE
This is a method of meeting girls that very few guys ever use. It is the name card technique
and can be used wherever a girl is using a name card to identity herself. Banks, department
stores, restaurants, discount stores and many other business establishments have girls
working for them who wear name cards with their fist name. You simply find a girl who you're
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interested in, name, call up the store and talk to her. This is a lot simpler than you think. Let
me give you a couple examples of how this worked for a couple of my friends.
Jim - "I was shopping at Penney's on Sunday for a gift for my sister. It was her birthday and I
wanted to get her something nice. I was in the women's department looking at some sexy
looking tops when I heard a soft feminine voice "Can I help you?"
I looked over and I saw one of the sexiest girls I ever had the pleasure of talking to. I told her I
was looking for a gift for my sister and I didn't know for sure what size she wore. I looked at
the name tag she was wearing and her name was Debbie. She helped me pick out something
nice and suggested what size she thought my sister would wear after I told her how tall she
was and how much she weighed. I left the department dreaming about how pretty and sexy
Debbie was. I could have tried to pick her up right there and then but I was not that
aggressive. Instead I decided to call Penney's and talk to her.
I waited a few days and called Penney's and asked for the woman's department. "Hello?
Woman's Wear"
"Hi. Is Debbie there"
"This is Debbie."
"Hi Debbie. This is Jim.
I was in there last week and you helped me pick out a outfit for my sister. I wanted to thank
you for helping me and to tell you my sister really liked the outfit."
"Why, thank you," she said, I don't think she remembered me but she was being polite.
"I don't know how to say this Debbie but you seem so nice and I think you're very pretty. I'd
like to get to know you better. Can I see you sometime and maybe have lunch with you there
at the mall?"
"I'm not sure," she replied. "I hardly know you."
"I understand," I said.
"What if I call you back again and talk to you a little more. We can get to know each other a
little better."
"Okay, if I'm not too busy, we can talk a few minutes now and then." I told her goodbye and
hung up.
I called back three or four times and talked to her and finally met her on her lunch hour for
lunch. We had a good time laughing and joking. I had lunch with her, as a friend a couple
more times and finally asked her out for a date. She went out with me for about three months
and I had the time of my life with her but she was ready to get serious and I met three more
good looking girls using the name card technique and I wanted to spend more time with them.
There was Joan from Sears, a real pretty blonde. Lisa who worked at a restaurant in the mall,
and Linda who worked at the Taco Bell in the food court at the mall. I am almost an expert
using this technique. Almost every restaurant I eat at have pretty waitresses wear name tags.
If I'm interested I call them up and start talking to them.
If they 're married or have a boyfriend I just make friends with them and try someone new.
Sometimes they introduce me to their girl friends because they like my nerve and imagination
in trying to meet them this way. Any guy can meet a lot of girls using the name card
technique. Sam - "I have breakfast at a place called Country Manor nearly every morning
before work. One morning I saw this beautiful waitress working there. She must have been
new because I never saw her before. She waited on me and I looked at her name tag and
saw that her name was Barbara. She was really friendly and I just couldn't eat that first
morning I saw her. I hardly talked to her because I was so nervous around her. I had read
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somewhere where a guy tried to meet a pretty girl by sending her flowers and signing "From
your secret admirer"
I decided to do this and went out and bought a dozen daisies and send them to the restaurant
with a card that said "I think you're very pretty, from your secret admirer" I still went in the
restaurant every day and saw her looking around trying to figure out who sent the flowers. I
sent her a few cute cards and always signed them the same,
"From your secret admirer."
I don't think she ever guessed it was me because every day I just talked to her like a friend
and she never mentioned the cards or gifts. I decided it was time to tell her the truth. I went to
a T-Shirt place and bought a T-Shirt and had printed on it From Your Secret Admirer. The
very next day I went in the restaurant and had a jacket on so she couldn't see my T-shirt.
After she waited on me I got up my nerve and took my jacked off. When she came over to
give me the check I looked at her and said, "Hi Barb, From Your Secret Admirer."
I didn't know what to expect but I didn't expect her to cry and that is what she did. I thought I
had embarrassed her but she looked at me and said, "That's the nicest thing anyone ever did
for me." Barb and I are going together and we plan on getting married. I really love her and
would never have met her if I didn't use the name card technique to get her name and try to
get attention. Thanks Wayne."'
You can use the name card technique any way you want. You can get her name and call her
up like Jim or you can send her cards and flowers like Sam. I met a beautiful girl that works at
my bank just by looking at her name and sending her flowers and cards. She waited on me
nearly every time I went to the bank and at times I think she guessed it was me. I finally got
the courage to ask her out and I told her I was the one who sent the cards because I was too
shy to ask her out right away. We dated nearly six months and are friends to this day. Try this
method and you'll be amazed at the number of girls you will meet. Remember girls like guys
who are different and unique and they love romance and this method is very romantic. Ask
any female you want on her opinion of this method and I bet she'll love it.
The Amazing 1-5-10 Technique
This is a technique that can be used anywhere there is a lot of women. You can use it at
parties, at bars, at malls, anywhere and everywhere there are women. It goes like this. You
see a pretty girl that you would like to meet. You walk up to her and say, "Hi, aren't you Joe
Miller's ex wife?"
"No I'm not", she says.
"No, I work at Bailey and Bailey law firm."
You apologize and say "I'm sorry. My name's Wayne, what's yours."
If she tells you her name you got the information you need to work the 1-5-10 technique. You
talk with her one minute using any kind of conversation to get her to tell you her name and
where she works. You wait ten days and then you call up where she works and talk to her.
You talk to her about 5 minutes and try to get a date with her.
She will more readily accept a date with you on the phone because she is more relaxed than
in a bar or party. Let's see how a couple guys used this technique and how you can do the
same.
Chad - "I was at Belden Village mall one Sunday afternoon just having a cup of coffee sitting
at a table in the food court. I saw this beautiful girl sitting at a table not far from me. She had
long blonde hair, a dynamite shape and looked like a movie star. I figured I had nothing to
lose so I decided to try the 1-5-10 technique. I gathered up my courage, went over to her
table and looked down at her. "Hi Barbara. How are you doing. How's your baby sister?"
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"Pardon me, do I know you?"
"Yes, my names Chad James. I used to work at Goodyear in Cost accounting with you. Don't
you remember me?"
"I never worked at Goodyear. My name's Peggy and I work at Trinken Mercy hospital in the
credit office."
"I'm sorry. You looked just like Barbara. Well it was nice talking to you."
I left her alone and went to the restroom and wrote down her name and where she worked. I
carry a pen and a little notebook around and write down all the info in the notebook. I waited
ten days and called Trinken Mercy hospital.
"Trinken Mercy", the operator says when I call.
"Credit, please." "This is credit." "Is Peggy there?"
"This is Peggy."
"Hi Peggy. This is Chad James. I met you the other day at the mall. I thought you were
Barbara a girl I used to work with."
"Oh yes, I vaguely remember."
Sometimes the girls don't remember very much about me. That works to my advantage
because I have more of a chance selling my wonderful personality on the phone.
"Well, I remember you being so nice that I wanted to call you and talk to you a little. Maybe
we can become friends. I don't know many people in town and I thought I'd like to know you."
"Well I guess its okay. As long as I'm not too busy I can talk to you."
"What I'd like to do Peggy if it's okay with you is to meet you for lunch or a cup of coffee
someday. We can get to know each other."
"I don't know you very well. Chad so I'd like to wait a while."
"Okay, I understand. Can I call you in a couple days and talk a little more?"
"Sure that would be okay."
"Well, it was nice talking to you"
"Good Bye Chad."
I called Peggy a few more times and finally met her in the cafeteria at the hospital for lunch.
We really hit it off and dated about six months. I have become an expert using the 1-5-10
technique. I easily meet ten to fifteen girls a month using this method. I meet them in bars,
malls, department stores and restaurants."
Nick - "Chad talked me into trying this method of meeting girls. I had terrible luck in bars and I
considered myself average looking, actually a little ugly. I could not attract girls on my looks
alone. I was in a singles bar one night looking at all the beautiful girls and hoping one of them
would fall for me. But the only guys who seemed to have the luck were the real good looking
ones. I was really down. I saw this really sexy looking girl fast dancing with her girlfriend and
decided I'd try the 1-5-10 technique on her.
When she came back to her table I decided I would go up to her and say I knew her from
somewhere. I had a few drinks and was a little braver than usual. I did go up to her and told
her I knew her ex-husband from college. I guess I sounded pretty convincing because she
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explained tome that she was never married and that she wished she was sometimes. I finally
got her name and where she worked and excused myself and left the table. Sometimes I
wonder if I should have stayed but if I pursued her I may have been rejected without a chance
to show her what I was really like.
I called about ten days later and talked to her on the phone about five minutes. She did not
remember me but she gave me a chance to talk and I finally met her for a cup of coffee at a
fast food place. We became good friends and dated as friends and finally had a relationship. I
have become more proficient using the 1-5-10 technique and meet more and more girls." This
is a great method to meet women.
Remember these points:
You must be convincing and get her name and place of employment. You can always tell her
later that you wanted to meet her and didn't know how so you pretended to know her or
someone she knows. This is only if you feel guilty because you had to tell a little white lie. You
know that I believe in total honesty with women but sometimes you have to use little tricks to
meet them. Go out tonight and try this method. Don't forget your notebook and pen.
The Baby Technique
This is a dandy idea to meet a lot of women especially at malls and restaurants. Borrow a
baby from one of your relatives or even a friend and take the kid to a mall or restaurant. I did
this recently and met two extremely pretty women. My niece Tanya has a beautiful baby girl
named Jaime. She's 2 1/2 years old and looks just like Shirley Temple when she was that
age. Jaime is a real cute adorable little girl and women just love her.
One day Tanya asked me if I would watch Jaime for her a couple hours when her and Steve
(her husband) went to the movies. I said I would because I didn't have anything planned. I
picked Jaime up and decided to take her to the mall and get her a coke. We went to
McDonalds and sat in the food court. Jaime loves Ronald McDonald and she got French fries
and a coke. We were sitting down and Jaime was talking a blue streak talking about her
YiYi(her grandma, my sister) (By the way my sister is only 41, looks 25, is extremely beautiful
and gives me a lot of advice and approves of most of what I say about women and her advice
is invaluable to me).
As Jaime was talking I heard a soft feminine voice say, "My, what a cute baby." "Hi," Jaime
said." What's your name?", she asked Jaime. "Jaime Nicole", answered Jaime. "Is your
Daddy buying you lunch", she asked Jaime. "That's not my Daddy. That's my Uncle Wayne
and he's a butt hole." This had us both laughing and I introduced myself to this pretty woman
with long brown hair and beautiful eyes.
It turns out her name was Laura and she was newly divorced and had two little kids herself. I
found this all out after I invited her to sit down and have a cup of coffee with me. She couldn't
get over the idea of me taking Jaime to the mall with me. She thought most men didn't want to
be bothered with taking kids with them anywhere. I told her I loved kids and Jaime was a joy
because she was adorable and was a good talker.
I made friends with her and got her phone number and told her I'd call her when they had a
good band at the singles dance I go to. She was new at the dating game and wanted to stay
away from bars. Again I must stress to you make friends with every woman you meet whether
you want to date them or not. I did date Laura and we had a wonderful time for a couple
months. There is no way I want to get serious yet because I'm having too much fun. Besides if
I got married where would all you guys get your advice about meeting women. A great ladies
man (me) would have to hang up his guns if I retired and got married.
I met another girl that day with Jaime. This was in the bookstore where I was buying Jaime a
coloring book. Her name was Janice and she too remarked how cute Jaime was and how it
was so nice an uncle took interest in his little niece. So, like I said, borrow a baby and take
her or him places and I guarantee you a lot of women will comment and you will gain value in
their eyes because you are a caring man who loves children.
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Little Known Secret To Attracting Dozens Of Beautiful Women
I have mentioned this before but it is so important that I'm going to cover it in complete detail
here. To attract dozens of beautiful women all you have to do is be seen with other women.
This sounds so simple yet it is so powerful that I must spend sometime on it. Why is this
important? You don't even have to say a word when a woman sees you with another woman.
They figure if you are with another woman you must have something going for you. If you are
seen with more than one woman (at different times of course) you will really attract women.
I'm going to show you exactly how to do this. To be successful with women you must make
friends with women. Treat women as human beings and they will love you for it.
Build up a number of female friends, take them out on dates as friends, and be seen with
them everywhere and anywhere. Other women will see you and find you highly attractive.
This helped me meet two beautiful women just recently. I told you about the singles dances. I
have at least fifteen or twenty female friends I dance with every week at the dances. About
two weeks ago a sexy looking girl came up to me and asked me to dance.
Of course I said yes.
She said I must really be popular because I dance with so many women. This girl would never
have approached me if she didn't see me with other women. I became attractive because she
saw me with a lot of women. Another instance was in a restaurant where a cute looking
waitress worked that would not give me the time of day.
I started going out with a couple female friends for lunch every so often to this restaurant and
the waitress usually waited on us. When I went in alone one time she was real friendly with
me and made the comment that I must know a lot of girls or that I must be a great lover to
have so many women. I told her they were just friends (the truth) but she laughed and told me
she would like to be friends with me. I asked her out as a friend and we not only became
friends but also lovers.
Bryan Redfield, the author of A Bartenders Guide on How to Pick Up Women says that being
friends with women is crucial to your success with them. I agree 100%. Bryan should know.
He's been a bartender in some of Hollywood's hottest nightclubs for 14 years. He hears from
all kinds of women.
As mentioned in A Man's Guide to Women the authors stress being friends with women.
There are many reasons for this. The main reason is that you will be seen with women which
is good for your image. Another reason is that one of the best ways to meet women is through
women especially women that know you, they like you and appreciate you. There is always
the possibility that one of these friendships will turn into something else. Remember the best
relationships are ones that started as friends. So make as many female friends as you can.
Do not put a girl down if she is not interested in you but try to become her friend. Why do men
have to approach girls on asexual level? Approach them on a non physical level and you will
be surprised how many girls will respond to you. Make some female friends and other women
will find you attractive. I guarantee it.
SINGLES BARS - WHY 95% OF MEN FAIL TO MEET GIRLS
Singles Bars are the most difficult place to meet women and nearly 97% of men who try to
meet girls in bars fail to do so.
Do you know why?
It is because they approach them wrong. Never, and I mean never, go up to a girl and ask to
buy her a drink. In fact never buy a girl a drink unless you are on a date with her. This makes
a girl feel obligated to you and most of them will only use you to buy them drinks all night.
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Most men approach women in a bar on a sexual level and that is why they fail. Approach
them on a friendly level and you will have a lot better chance of getting to know them.
You must sell yourself to women and if they become your friend they will see you are a nice
guy and may become more than a friend. This is so important. In a Singles Bar if you want to
meet women go up to them in a non sexual nonphysical way. Go up to them and just say Hi.
That's all.
I met a beautiful girl named Lisa in as Singles Bar and here is how I did it. I was at the Holiday
Inn one night and I saw this beautiful girl sitting at a table with a girlfriend. She had long black
hair and was fairly young. I knew the worse thing to do was to ask her to dance because I
saw her turn down a bunch of guys. Now Singles Dances are different than bars. At the
Singles dances women go to dance. In a bar you will get turned down ten times more than a
singles dance. I'd rather go to a singles dance but a lot of guys still go to bars so I want to tell
them how to succeed. I go to singles bars about once a month just to see how I can meet
women there. Anyway back to Lisa.
I saw her sitting at a table and was deciding how to meet her. I just decided to go over and
say Hi. I went over to the table. "Hi", I said to both of them."
Hi", they replied back.
"Do you girls like the band?"
"Yes," they both said.
"My name's Wayne, what are your names."
"My name's Lisa and this is Joyce."
"Nice to meet you."
"Sometimes it's hard to talk because the band is so loud. I like the music and I love to dance
but the dance floor is so small in here."
"Yes it is." said Lisa.
Lisa did most of the talking and she was the one I was interested in but I was friendly with
both of them. I told them it was nice meeting them and left. Very important. I did not make
them feel threatened by making them think I was going to sticklike glue to them all night. A lot
of guys make their mistake by talking to a girl and if she answers he tries to hog her time. I
remarked I like to dance but I did not ask her to dance at this time because I wanted to give
her some time to think.
I saw Lisa and Joyce a couple more times that night and I was friendly to them each time but I
still did not hog their time. I figured I would run into them again. I did run into them again, the
following week, and this time Lisa was real friendly. She was all smiles when she saw me and
treated me like a old friend. I finally danced with her and we had a very good time. I laughed
and joked and treated her like a good friend. She said she was very comfortable with me. I
have not asked her out yet but whenever I see her we have a good time dancing and a lot of
the guys envy me because I'm dancing with such a beautiful girl. You can do the same.
The same thing happened to me with another girl named Jackie. She turned me down three
different times when I asked her to dance but I did not make the mistake a lot of guys make. I
did not put her down and I did not hold it against her because she did not dance with me.
What I did do was talk to her a few minutes each time I saw her. She talked to me more and
more each time I saw her. We became friends. After a couple months of 'running into her at
the same bar she asked me why I never asked her to dance. I told her she turned me down
three times.
She didn't remember but we did dance and I did take her out a few times. The lesson here is
to talk to as many women as you can as friends. Many of them will turn out to be more than
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friends, mark my words. If you remember nothing else just remember that women are human
beings and not sex objects. Treat them as such and you will have success beyond your
wildest dreams.
SUMMARY - ENJOY YOURSELF
Women are everywhere and anywhere so go wherever there are women and try to meet
them.
The Seven Words, the "Name Card" Technique, the 1-5-10 Technique and the Baby
Technique can be used anywhere you see women. Malls, restaurants, bookstores, auctions,
swimming pools. Bowling alleys, and any other of the hundreds of places you see beautiful
women. Don't forget to check on singles dances in your area because you will be surprised at
the number of good looking women you will meet here.
Well, I hope you follow my advice and never give up in your desire to meet the woman or
women of your dreams. The biggest enemy you have if fear. Banish fear from your life forever
and live every day as if it were your last because you never know when God will call you
home. Approach dozens of women and you will be surprised at the number of women who
will respond to you.
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My Very Own Confidential Letters
Letter #1
Overcoming Rejection
Dear Friend And Subscriber,
This is the first issue of my newsletter and I guess you will experiment with me
as to format. I have all these books on desktop publishing and am still typing
this on my word processor on my computer. I am really computer illiterate and
heed help. If you can advise me on how to use a desktop publishing system,
give me a call. Right now I want to get this newsletter started so bear with me
as to format.
I decided to start this newsletter because so many of my customers loved my
manuals and wanted to know when I was going to write a new one. This way
you will get info every month on what I have learned on meeting and dating
women.
I am an average guy and could never attract women on my looks alone and
yet I get dozens of beautiful women each and every month who want to get to
know me and date me. How do I do it? You will learn how by reading and
digesting this newsletter each and every month. This month I will cover a
subject that is extremely important to every guy out there and that is how to
handle rejection. I am going to tell you about a system so powerful that if you
follow my advice, you will never be bothered by rejection again. Follow exactly
what I am about to tell you and you will never fear approaching women again.
So let's get on with it.
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Overcome Rejection
What I am about to tell you is a way to overcome rejection that will have you
approaching the most beautiful women in the world without any fear of getting
rejected. It really works. I will first tell you what I did and how I discovered the
"beat rejection" system. First, I want to tell you about two of my devastating
experiences with rejection and how they affected my entire adult life. Maybe
the same type of experience happened to you.
I had just turned eighteen years old and was crazy about girls as I always had
been since I was ten or so. A buddy of mine named Ed was coming with me to
my friend's wedding. We assumed there would be a lot of good looking girls
there because my friend was also eighteen and a lot of young people would
be there. He was also going to have a rock and roll band and was going to
have a big wedding.
We spent the whole day getting ready and attempting to look our best. We
both got our parents to buy us a new suit and were both getting a nice haircut.
We were fit to kill. Even though I was shy and backward, Ed convinced me
that there would be some wild girls there who like shy guys. I was ready to
score.
The night of the wedding, Ed and I were amazed at the number of sexy
women who were at the reception. Ed quickly went over and asked some
good-looking girl to dance and she said yes. It was my turn.
I saw this really sexy looking blonde sitting by herself and I really wanted to
dance with her. I never really danced with a girl before but I had taken a few
free lessons at school on slow dancing and the instructor said I could get by. I
was ready to test myself.
I walked up to that sexy blonde, gathered up my courage and asked her to
dance. She looked at me, up and down, and said, "No, thank you." I did not
expect to be turned down. Everyone else was dancing and I never saw
anyone get turned down. I walked away feeling like shit and wanted to sink my
head in the floor. Probably everyone saw me get turned down. But Guess
What! Two seconds later she got up and danced with someone else who
asked her. I was devastated.
That girl danced with everyone else that night. I must have really been ugly for
her to turn me down because she danced with everyone else. I sat in the
corner watching her all night and never asked anyone else to dance. I had a
horrible time and Ed had a great time. My self-esteem died a little that night all
because a girl turned me down.
Well I met a girl by accident in college, got married, and it was nearly 12 years
later after I got divorced that my second experience occurred. I had just turned
30 and was going to the Holiday Inn to a singles bar. I had heard that dozens
of beautiful women were there every Friday night. I had heard they are easy to
pickup and make love to.
After being there for a while and having a couple drinks I walked up to this
sexy looking brunette and asked her to dance. She looked up at me and said,
"Yes, I would, but not with you." And then she laughed. I was shocked. While I
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was still standing there, another guy asked her and she danced with him. I felt
like the whole bar was looking at me and laughing. I felt two inches tall and
wanted to crawl in the nearest hole. I went home and cried.
The years went by and I got older and older and wondered if I would ever
have the courage to approach women. I finally met some women through
personal ads and even wrote a manual about them. You may have them, but I
still yearned to approach a sexy woman and have them dance with me. I
finally discovered the system and you’ll read about it here for the first time.
Before I get into the actual system I must tell you what not to do when you
approach a woman for a dance or even to try to meet. Do not concentrate on
one target. That is one of the things I always did wrong. Guys who waste time
on one lousy target, for example one sexy woman they see, are prime
candidates to commit the worst possible pick-up mistake and that is striking at
a target a second time after they have already been rejected. The reason
guys do this is because they invested so much time after they have already
been rejected. If a girl turns you down or says she has a boyfriend, do not
keep talking to her or trying to talk her into something. She’ll talk about you in
the restroom and you will get a lousy reputation.
I guess I better get into the actual system and I promise you if you follow what
I say you will never bothered by rejection again. I perfected the system and
now I approach dozens of sexy women every Sunday night at the singles
dance and meet many beautiful women. I still get rejected a lot but it does not
bother me and here is what you will do so it will not bother you.
If you fear rejection so much that you're even afraid to approach women, than
you have a massive fear of rejection and you have to overcome it. The best
way to overcome it is to go out and get rejected as much as possible. You
have to go up to women and get rejected.
Take a couple weeks and go out a couple times each week to a singles bar or
dance and work on getting rejected. Make a goal of getting rejected up to ten
times in an hour. Believe me it works. I did it. The very first time you try it,
shoot for at least four times in four hours. Work your way up to four rejections
in two hours and than four rejections in one hour. Four rejections in an hour is
a lot of abuse and you will be much better at handling rejection after that. Your
final goal should be ten rejections in one hour. You will then be a pro (not that
that is good though!).
You will have a lot of fun and will build your self-confidence which is
noticeable to men and women. Go up to women with corny lines, anything to
get rejected a lot. This works, believe me. I have gotten rejected as much as
fifteen times in an hour and laugh about it because it prepares me for those
beautiful women that do say yes.
After a few weeks of getting rejected all the time the pain of rejection will
lessen and you will be approaching some of the most beautiful women in the
world and they will say yes to you. Good luck. Call me if you need any help.
You can call me anytime at (330) 456-5936.
Charlie's Corner
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Here is the first letter that Charlie is going to answer in her corner. Charlie is
my beautiful sister and knows a lot about the female mind. Go to it Charlie.
Dear Charlie,
"I'm in love with a wonderful girl. She's a little older than me. I give her all
kinds of gifts. I give her flowers. I want to be with her always. I want all her
attention. I want to dance every dance with her when I see her at the singles
dances. I want her to want all this too but she keeps telling em that she just
wants to be friends and to stop buying all these gifts, but I can't help myself, I
love her so. What can I do to make her love me as I love her?" Bobby in Ohio.
Dear Bobby,
First of all, do not make the mistake nearly 90% of men make, not listening.
She wants to be friends. You need to be friends before you even attempt a
love relationship. The most successful relationships are when the couple are
friends first. At this rate you may even lose her friendship because you don't
seem to care about her feelings. You are thinking only of yourself.
You cannot force someone to love you. Become her friend and at the same
time start becoming interested in other women. Do not force your attention on
her. Tell her you love her if you want, but also tell her that you respect her
feelings and that you will stay her friend be there for her if she needs you.
Give her some breathing room. If it comes to pass that she falls in love with
you and you are still in love with her than so be it. But do not try to force the
issue. Good luck Bobby."
Letter #2
How To Have Women Beg You To Have Sex With Them
This is the second issue of my newsletter and I hope you find it very
informative. I really hope to make this the best newsletter around on meeting
and dating women so let me have your feedback on what you want to read
and see featured in each issue. This is going to be a very important issue
because I am going to tell you how to have women beg you to have sex with
them and how to make love to a woman so she keeps coming back for more
and more and more.
To build up to my extraordinary findings I am going to tell you about Ron, a
guy who women at the singles dances here in Canton consider the greatest
lover in the world.
As most of you know I love to go to the singles dances every Sunday night.
About a year ago I met this girl named Susie and she was going with a guy
named Ron. All she talked about while we danced was Ron and how much
she loved him and got goose bumps just thinking about him. Ron, however,
did not want a serious relationship.
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As the months passed I found out Ron had dozens of women after him and
from one of my female spies (Women talk in the restroom). I learned that Ron
was considered a great lover. I finally decided to check this out.
I got to know Ron and found out that he was a super nice guy. Women asked
him to dance all the time even though you would not consider him good
looking. He had the reputation of satisfying women so much they begged him
for sex. I had to find out what he had because I could use this info to put in my
manuals and also for myself.
The Shocking Truth
I don't know why but Ron confided in me and told me his secret but he did. To
say I was shocked would be an understatement. What he told me goes
against everything we men have even been told about satisfying and making
love to women. Ron told me he has dozens of women in love with him and
dozens of women who are begging him to make love to him all the time.
Women desire him like crazy. Every woman that knows Ron agrees he is the
best lover they ever had and they would all like to marry or have a relationship
with him.
Ron looked me straight in the eye and said, "Wayne, I am impotent. I cannot
keep it up. I take medication that has made me impotent."
I asked myself, How the hell could this be. How could Ron have so many
women desire him if he couldn't even get it up? Ron then told me his secret
for satisfying women even though he could not keep it up. He became an
expert on cuddling, kissing, and foreplay and made the woman crazy with
desire without ever attempting intercourse.
I could not believe this. Every book I read or movie I saw had women moaning
in ecstasy when men were doing the old in and out. How the hell could a
woman ever love or want a man that could not get a hard on or only some of
the time get one or not keep it up half the time? I had to study and do
research on this. And how does the guy get satisfied?
Proof Comes Through
A few months later an Ann Landers article appeared in our local paper talking
about the same thing. Ann Landers sent a survey to over 90,000 women and
asked them, "Would you be content to be held close and treated tenderly and
forget about the act?" 72% said yes and of those 72% who said yes, 40% of
them were under 40 years old.
Does this surprise you? I think this is the greatest news about women that we
men could ever hear. All you have to do is become an expert on holding,
kissing, and touching women and forget about the actual act of intercourse. If
you do not have any problems, so much the better. But tease her and not
make love to her after every sex encounter. I guarantee you she will be
begging you for more. And now I will lead you step by step on how to make
women desire you like crazy.
Before I do that I carried on a survey and asked nearly 200 women at the
dances the same questions that Ann Landers asked. Nearly 80% of the
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women I asked said they would prefer romance, holding and cuddling to the
actual act of intercourse because most men worry so much about intercourse
they forget what it really takes to satisfy a woman. A few years ago there was
a great book out called "The Hite Report". It was by a woman who talked to
thousands of women and she concluded nearly 80% of women do not climax
during intercourse. This just backs up what Ron and Ann Landers said. If you
get a chance to read The Hite Report by Shere Hite and you will learn a lot
about women. How do you think lesbians satisfy each other?
Actual Instructions
Now lets go on an actual date and I will tell you what I did and what you can
do to make women desire you like crazy. Remember I am here to give you the
right advice because everything I say is based on what women want and not
what some self-proclaimed men say who think they are Gods gift to women.
So listen to me and you will have more women than you know what to do with.
On the first date I always take a woman to somewhere where there is
dancing. Most women love to dance and this is a great chance to hold her
close and start your steps to having her desire you. I always fast dance many
dances before I slow dance. She gets to know me and when we start slow
dancing she is a little more relaxed. You do the same thing. When you are
slow dancing do not crush her or hump her like most guys do. Hold her fairly
close and touch her hair once in a while. Do not touch her breasts.
When you are sitting at the table put your arm around her and laugh and joke
most of the night. Pay strict attention and do not flirt when you are on a date. If
she gives any indication that she wants you to lightly kiss her than do it but not
unless you know she wants you to. Tell her you enjoy her company and that
you are really having a good time with her. Do not and I repeat do not tell her
she is beautiful or that you have eyes only for her. Be attentive yet a little aloof
and let her know you can get a lot of women.
When you bring her home do not go into her apartment or take her to yours.
Walk her to her door and lightly kiss her goodnight and tell her you will call her
again. And do not call her for a couple days. Do not play her along and always
be honest and let her always hint you have other women because women
want what other women want.
After three or four dates get a little more intimate and kiss and cuddle as much
as you could. Wear different colognes and ask her what one she likes the best
and the one she likes will probably turn her on. After six dates or so she will
be ready to attack you and still do not make to her but satisfy her by (can I say
this) going down on her. You will have her so hot and bothered that she will
beg you to make love to her but give her a climax by oral sex and she will
never forget it. If she asks what about you tell her that your main concern is to
satisfy her.
I will guarantee that if you become an expert at kissing, cuddling, and touching
and satisfying a woman orally you will be in great demand. Women will beg
you to make love to them. Your reputation will spread and women will start
asking you out. Do not underestimate the power of what I am telling you.
Every book on making love stresses how to keep it up, premature ejaculation
and all kinds of techniques that make men worry and not really enjoy love
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making. Stop worrying and start giving women what they want and that is
kissing, cuddling, touching and being treated tenderly. You will be sought after
by all kinds of women and I guarantee the ones you do date will fall madly in
love with you. Like I said, the women have spoken and we men just listen if
we want to be successful with them. So go ahead and give me some
feedback.
Feedback
I have a little feedback from last month’s article on rejection. Most of you that
called disagreed with me because you did not want to set yourself up to get
rejected but I got a call from a subscriber who told me the following. "Wayne, I
read your article on rejection and was very leery about doing what you said
but I decided to give it a try. Me and a buddy both went to singles dances,
singles bars and many other places where there were a lot of women. We
went up to literally hundreds of women and either tried to get them to dance or
engage them in conversation. To tell you the truth we were rejected 90% of
the time. We set ourselves up and went up to the best looking girls we could
find.
We found out something that really helped. We were together and when we
got rejected we kind of laughed about it and really comforted each other by
not being so depressed and it really helped. Maybe you should tell your
readers to take a buddy along. The great news is out of the 10% that I did
meet there was a beautiful blonde that I am already in love with and I would
not have met her if I did not try your rejection idea. Thanks"
Well, if you guys are still doubtful try it out and let me know your feelings.
Charlie’s Corner
Well here is this month's question. "Charlie, There is this girl I want to know
but I'm not sure how to talk to her. Should I start by asking her name? What
she does? Where she works, etc? What should I say?
"The first thing you have to remember is never, never ask a women a bunch
of personal questions. That will turn her off. Wayne is informing me he will
cover conversation in next month’s newsletter, so look for it. And from a
woman's point of view this month’s advice about touching and cuddling is right
on the money. We women wish all men would heed that advice and forget
about how great the sex act is. Well next month I will cover how to become a
master of conversation and how to warm up to a woman by skillful
conversation. Most men do know how to talk to a woman but you will become
a master after reading next month’s letter.
Letter #3
Become A Master Of Conversation With The OEQ Technique
Dear Friend And Subscriber,
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This is the third issue of my newsletter and I hope I am starting to help you.
This issue I am going to cover something extremely important and that is the
art of conversation. I probably get more calls on how to talk to women than
any other topic. Most men just do not know how to talk to women. I am going
to tell you about a technique to use on women to make you a master at
conversation.
Brad Isaac, a friend of mine, who wrote a guidebook on Date Women Now
says to ask women open ended questions and you will never be at a loss on
talking to women. I am going to explain what open ended questions are in a
minute but another friend of mine, John, who uses this technique meets about
ten to fifteen women a month through personal ads. He meets them at a
coffee shop and spends about an hour with them and all he does is ask five or
six questions open-ended questions. He asks the same questions of every
woman and this is really helpful because he doesn’t have to constantly think
of things to say. Every woman he meets wants to meet him again because he
has mastered the art of asking open-ended questions.
All right, you are probably saying, Wayne what the hell is an open ended
question? An open-ended question is a question that begins with one of the
following words:
What, Why, Where, When, and How.
An open-ended question cannot be answered with a one word answer and
you can get a woman talking for an hour if you ask the right questions. If you
become an expert at asking open-ended questions you will never again be at
a loss for words on what to say to a woman.
Now I want you to stop reading and write down 5 open ended questions you
will ask every woman you want to meet. I will help you before you start. Here
is what I say and you can basically do the same thing. Following this through
and you will be an expert at talking to women.
I am going to use asking a girl to dance and how I talk to her and why she
considers me a great person to carry on a conversation with. Here is exactly
what I do.
I go up to a girl and I say, "Would you like to dance?" If she says yes, I take
her out to the dance floor and the first thing she usually asks me is what I do. I
tell her I write manuals for men on how to meet women and I could really use
her help. I ask her the following question and you can ask every girl you meet
the same question.
"What do women think is wrong with men today?" Believe me she will talk for
an hour. Since you don't write manuals, you can go up to any girl and say, "Hi,
can you help me. I just bought this book by Wayne Ross on women and I
would like your opinion on what he says. What do you think of...", You can
basically ask her anything you want on what she thinks of my opinions.
I want to digress about the dance. I always ask a girl to fast dance before I
ask her to slow dance. After I fast dance with her, I will slow dance later and
that is when I ask the open-ended questions. Now write down your five
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questions before you continue reading. Remember they should start with
What, Why, Where, When and How.
Remember practice makes perfect and I promise you if you just practice you
will become an expert at asking the right questions with any woman you meet.
Here are some good questions to ask a woman you are talking to. "What
qualities do you like most in men?" "What qualities do you like least in men?"
"What do you think of the kind of movies they are making today?" "Why do
you think there are so many people breaking up their marriage?" Have you
ever been in love?
There are probably dozens of questions you can ask but the important thing to
remember is to her talking. I once asked a girl why do women think men lie so
much and she talked for an hour. I never said a word and she told all her
friends a great person I was to talk to.
People love to talk about themselves and if you her talking herself, you will
have it made. Show an interested when she is talking and she will love you for
it.
Remember, since you are a subscriber to this newsletter you can call me
anytime for advice so don't hesitate. That is one of the bonuses you get. An
author I know that writes book on meeting women charges over $200.00 an
hour to seek his advice and he was one of my first customers years ago. I
have over fifteen years of experience with women so I know what I am talking
about. My knowledge comes from the women themselves and to be
successful with women you must know what they want and to be a great
listener is what a woman wants. Men do not listen so you have a head start on
asking her the right questions and getting her to talk about herself. Just listen
and you will be surprised at how well you will do with women. If you want
more advice on conversation call me and I will help you.
Now I want to talk to you guys about the value of the newsletter. I guess this
could be called Feedback. I got a letter from Todd and he said that to him that
the newsletter on rejection was a waste of time. Maybe so, but to some of you
guys it was a great help. The value of a newsletter is not that every issue will
help you but that some will. If only one issue helps you than it will be worth it. I
remember when I bought my first newsletter on Direct Marketing. It cost nearly
$300.00 a year. It was only an eight-page newsletter every month. I got one
great idea the first year and to me it was worth the money. I want to cover
something different every month and some will be of interest to you and some
won't but I know some will help. So let me know what helps you and what
doesn't.
Charlie’s Corner
Dear Charlie,
I talk to women I don't know, they say "Hi" and just walk away. I'm desperate.
Nothing seems to work for me. Please give me some suggestions for
techniques that will work. Please don't send me to PWP dances. Even the
"dogs" there acted "too good" to dance with me. Women seem so capricious
and unpredictable. I date women 18 to 25 years old you have to pre-program
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yourself and be what you are not. I haven't had a girlfriend in 3 years. Charlie,
please help me. Al
Dear Al,
First of all I think your attitude on women has to change. I assume you are an
older man (Yes, we found out he's 41). Stay away from young women, 18-25.
That is too young for you. Approach a woman in her early 30's. Wayne meets
a lot of women in their early 30's and 40's that look and think young. You
called women "dogs". A woman is a person with feelings and your attitude
must come across when you approach them. Just go up to a woman and talk
to her as if you knew her all her life. Ask those open ended questions and
change your attitude. Treat women with respect and be sincere when you
approach them and start to listen when they talk and under no circumstance
approach them with the idea that you want to "pick them up".
I got a call on last months newsletter that I had to share with you. "Wayne,
thank you for writing about who to make women desire you like crazy. I'm 45
years old and for 15 years have not had ex with a woman because I was
afraid I could not get a hard-on. I let this stand in my way and I would not date.
After reading your February newsletter about cuddling and hugging I asked
this girl out that I've known as a friend for years. She was sexy as hell and I
was afraid to ask her out because if it came to sex I would not be able to
satisfy her.
Well we went out and I was honest with her. I told her because of medication
that I could not get an erection. She really understood and we did everything
but actual intercourse. It was the best sex I ever had. I think I am in love with
her and he told me something I think your readers would like to know. She
said she would rather have one guy that is good at touching and cuddling than
the best lover (who could last for hours) in the world.
Well that's it. Next month I will talk about the supply and demand law and how
this could help you get dozens of beautiful women.
Letter #4
Meet Women With The Supply And Demand Law
Dear Friend and Subscriber,
I have an idea I want to throw at you before I get into the meat of this
newsletter which is the supply and demand law. I want to put this idea before
my subscribers first before I send out mailings on it. Would you be interested
in attending a seminar and meeting me and hearing me speak in person? I
would like to know if this would appeal to you. I would charge around $195.00
for a full days seminar. My competitor is charging $895.00 to attend his
seminar but that is too much to charge. It would probably be on a Saturday
from around 9 in the morning to around 5 in the afternoon. If you want to stay
the next day, Sunday, you can go with me to the singles dance and see me in
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action. This would be on the job training and you would get to meet and dance
with a lot of women. Let me know what you think of this idea. Call me or write
me.
I want to get into the supply and demand law. A guy called me from Chicago
and told me about this law. He said he has at least 10 to 15 women in love
with him by using this simple law.
I want you to think back. Have you ever noticed when you don't want or need
a woman it is easier to get them. That is the supply and demand law. If you
can act like you do not need a woman it will be easier to get a woman. This
really works. And I am going to tell you how to do it.
First, I am going to tell you exactly what Bill from Chicago said.
"Wayne, I never knew it could be so easy getting women. I was always shy
and never could talk to women. I was desperate to meet them and I think it
showed. They could tell I was hard up. I went to all the dances and singles
bars and always got shot down. I think I was trying too hard. I found out about
the supply and demand law by accident.
My cousin Karen was coming to visit my family. She was from Italy and was
going to spend about a month with my parents. They asked me if I would take
her to some of the single spots sine she was single and my age. She was 28
years old.
At first I argued. I told them I was not going to entertain her and spend all my
time with her at my favorite haunts. They said it would not kill me to spend a
few weekends with her. I finally agreed.
I had not see Karen for about ten years. When I saw her I was shocked. She
was beautiful and I could not stop staring at her even though she was my
cousin. She could talk English pretty good and we got along great.
I took her to some singles bars and some of the single dances. I spent a lot of
time dancing and having a good time with her. A lot of guys wanted to
approach her but she asked me to say I was with her because she was not
interested in men at this time. I found out she had a boyfriend in Italy and did
not want to get involved with anyone else. I really had a good time with Karen
and did not pay attention to any of the other women at the bars or dances.
Karen finally left and I knew I was going to miss her. A strange thing
happened the next time I went to The Pub, a local singles bar. I went to the
bar to order a drink and a sexy girl came up to me and started talking to me.
She asked me where my girlfriend was that she saw me with the week before.
I tried to tell her it was my cousin from Italy but she did not believe me.
This girl's name was Susie and she asked me to dance and I quickly agreed. I
almost fainted on the dance floor because I was dancing with a sexy girl. As I
found out in the following weeks it was easier and easier to meet women. A lot
of them saw me with Susie and Karen and assumed I had a lot of girls.
Karen called about two months later and I told her how I was meeting so
many women since she left. She then told me about the supply and demand
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law. She told me that the more a guy acts like he needs a girl, the less chance
there is of him getting a girl. When I was with her, a lot of other women saw
me with her and I looked like I was having a good time and became attractive
to them because I had an attractive woman with me. They found me attractive
because I was not hard up.
I thought a lot about what Karen said and I knew she was right. I meet a lot of
women because I act like I don't need them and that is what they find
attractive."
I know Bill is telling the truth because I do the same thing. I have a lot of
female friends I dance and spend time with and many other women see this. I
am attractive to them. If you come to my seminar I will let you see this
principle at work at the singles dances.
So the supply and demand law is very simple for you to put into action. Do not
act like you need women and they will flock to you. If possible get a female
friend or relative to go with you to some of the singles hangouts and have fun
with them. Be seen with women and you will get a lot of women. Act like you
do not need them and they will need you. In fact, the feedback I got from
Richard illustrates this fact.
Feedback
"Hi Wayne, This is Richard. I want to say God Bless You. I got the girl of my
dreams. Remember when I called you about three months ago and told you I
was in love with a girl named Sally and all she wanted to be was friends? I
kept sending her flowers and gifts and telling her how much I loved her. You
told me to stop treating her like a queen and not to be there for her night and
day. You told me to be a friend and to start dating other women and to tell
Sally I would be her friend and would not bug her any more. Well, I took your
advice and it really worked. I started dating a girl named Tiffany and even
asked Sally to double date with us and evidently Sally became jealous and
finally started calling me and asking me out. I still acted aloof and not really
100% interested (even though I was really in love with her). The more aloof I
acted, the more she became interested in me.
Well we are together now and she told me that I used to be so boring and not
a challenge because I was like a doormat and treating her too nice. I learned
my lesson and know now how right you are. I love Sally but still find other
women interested in me because of my attitude. Thanks again, Wayne."
It will work for you too. Remember always act like you don't need a woman
and they will think they need you. Call me if you have any questions on the
supply and demand law.
Charlie's Corner
"Dear Charlie,
I hope you can help me. I can get dates with women but after the first date
they usually give me the brush off. After a date with a woman that I want to
see again they will not go out with me a second time. When I go out on a date
it is usually to a nice restaurant just to get acquainted. Then I say I will call
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them again. When I do call them they never respond or just say they want to
be a pen pal and nothing more. This happens all the time. What am I doing
wrong?" George
"George, I think the first mistake you are making is taking a date to a
restaurant. A restaurant is dull and boring. I, myself, like most women do not
like to eat in front of a man I hardly know. Take her somewhere different like
to an amusement park or dancing. Take her somewhere fun and not so
formal. Do not take her to a movie or restaurant. And do not be so formal.
Laugh and have fun on a date and act like you are really having a great time
with her and especially do not come off too serious. I guarantee if a woman
has fun on the first date, she will go out again. Try it and let me know what
happens, Charlie."
Letter #5
How To Get Any Woman To Go Out With You By Saying A Few
Simple Words
Dear Friend And Subscriber,
I am writing this about July 31, and just finished my research on what I am
going to write about this month. I am going to tell you how to get nearly any
beautiful woman to go out with you by saying a few simple words. I had many
of my friends try this and tried it myself to see if it works. I also asked many,
many women about it. Nearly all women agreed that they would go out with a
guy who asked them out in this way.
I only heard from a couple of you guys about the seminar. One of my readers
suggested something and I think it is a good idea. The suggestion was to
have the seminar on a Sunday and finish the day by going to the singles
dance I was telling you about. I will only charge $99.00 for the seminar instead
of $199.00. What do you think of that idea? Let me know. As I said you can
see me in action at the dances and meet a lot of women yourself.
I got the idea for this month’s topic when I thought back to the time I had three
of the best-looking girls in high school and college go out with me. As you
know I was a nerd in high school and got no girls. There was something I did
that got some beautiful women to go out with me and I want to share it with
you. The entire month of July 1995, I tried it again and also had three of my
friends try it and it worked. Like I said above, I also asked a couple of dozen
women about it and they all said they would go out with a guy who asked
them in this manner.
First, I will tell you about how this worked for me in high school, college, and
very recently, and at all times with beautiful women. Follow my lead and it will
work for you also. Is there a beautiful woman you see every so often at the
bank, grocery store, or mall? Try this next time you see this woman.
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There was a beautiful girl in high school I was really wild about. Her name was
Lori and she looked like a movie star. I would see her every day in the halls
and was more in love with her every time I saw her. She was going with a
football player and I knew I had no chance. But a miracle came along and she
ended up in my English class. She actually sat next to me and it was really
hard to concentrate when you are sitting next to a goddess.
It took me about three weeks to get up the courage to talk to her and the way
it came about was because she liked my essay. I wrote an essay on how I
would defend myself if accused of treason. I got a B+ on it and had to read it
in front of class. I made it very emotional and when I got done there were
women crying because it was so heart wrenching.
When I sat down Lori said to me that it was very good. I got to know her and
we talked every day and became friends. I wanted to ask her out and a friend
told me how to get Lori to go out with me. I will now tell you what to say to any
girl you want to date that is showing no romantic interest in you. Ask her out
as a friend only. Listen to me now and follow this through.
I went up to Lori one day and said to her, "Lori, Would you like to go out
sometimes as friends only? No obligation as guy and girl, just friends going
out to have a good time."
Lori accepted and we dated for about three months as friends and then I
made the cardinal mistake and ruined what may have ended up as a romantic
relationship. I started talking love and started sending her gifts and flowers.
And, of course, her boyfriend told me he was going to kick my ass if I didn't
leave Lori alone.
I couldn't help myself. I was madly in love with her. I kept calling her through
the summer and begged her to go out again and she told me 'no' because I
was breaking out agreement and spoiled the friendship. I later learned from
one of her girlfriends that Lori had a real good time with but I became too
serious about love and stuff and we probably would have had more than a
friendship if I only gave it more time and did not push the love stuff.
You can do the same thing. Just go up to any woman you know casually and
ask her out as a friend only. She will probably accept. And do not make the
mistake I made with Lori. Let the woman make the first move. Remember, a
woman must make friends with a guy before she really knows whether she
really loves him or not. And the only way you will get her to go out with you is
if she is attracted to you or as a friend. And do not go to the other extreme like
I did with Bonnie.
Some of you may have read about Bonnie before. She was a sexy woman I
met in college. We sat next to each other in Psychology class and quickly
became friends. We studied together, had lunch together and drove to college
together. Bonnie and I were friends about a year and I never made a move.
She threw many hints but I was too stupid to see them. She would keep
touching me and hugging me and would cross her legs in the car with a short
skirt on. I was so stupid at the time and even now want to kick myself for not
following up. Bonnie was the kind of girl that would make any guys mouth
water. Many of my friends used to ask me who she was and I would say that
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she was only a friend and they would say that they wish they had a friend like
that.
The secret is to ask a girl out as a friend only, and if she makes a move to
want more than a friendship, then follow up. And also don't be a wimp and a
doormat for her. The trick is to be a challenge when you are dating her as well
as being a friend. It worked for Dick and I will let him tell it.
"My name is Dick and I know Wayne from the singles dances. There was this
sexy woman there that would never dance with me but she was friendly and
would talk to me sometimes. Wayne said to ask her out with the stipulation it
was as friends only and nothing else. Well I did and she accepted. We had a
good time and she even started dancing with me. I wanted to jump her bones
but Wayne said to be patient. It was hard to be patient with a sexy girl sitting
next to me or having her in your arms when you are dancing.
I was getting nowhere so Wayne said to try dancing with other women and
asking her advice about other women to see if she was interested in me. I did
and it worked. She thought I was losing interested in her and was falling for
someone else and now Donna and I are dating and we are having a hell of a
good time - all because I asked her out as a friend first."
That is the secret of getting almost any girl to go out with you. Ask her out as
a friend only and see where it goes from there. I asked dozens of women and
they all said if a nice guy asked them out as a friend, they would go even if not
attracted to him.
FEEDBACK
Paul called me and told me the following about the newsletter on
conversation.
"Wayne, your newsletter on conversation was a godsend. There was this girl I
see at the bowling alley all the time and I never could talk to her. One day I
walked up to her and asked her some open-ended questions as you
suggested and she really talked to me. She is telling everyone what a great
person I am to talk to and all I do is ask her open ended questions like you
suggested and now we are going out this Saturday. Thanks, Wayne."
There is no Charlie's Corner this issue because you guys did not write any
questions for Charlie to answer, so guys write in. I also want to hear about
what topics you guys want to hear about.
Write and let me know what you think about the seminar.
Letter #6
How To Get Dozens Of Women To Fall In Love With You
Dear Friend and Subscriber,
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I recently got a call from one of my subscribers and he told me that he had a
friend who was bald, ugly as sin, had only an average income, yet women
love him. I told him to have this guy call me and tell me his secret. He did call
me and I also found out that he a friend who women follow around as if he
were the president of the US...and the guy weighed nearly 300 pounds. I
wanted to know what these two guys were doing so that I could write about it
and help my customers have some of their success.
I am going to refer to the two guys above as the bald and the fat guy so you
know who I am talking about when I mention them. They are both very, very
successful with women all because they practice the art of flirting.
Bill, the bald one, told me that he's bald, ugly as sin, only has an average
income, but women love him. I told him to tell me exactly how he gets so
many women. Here is what he told me and you can adapt what he says to
your own circumstances.
"Wayne, I love women. I appreciate all women. I talk and dance with all
women no matter what they look like. I find something I like or appreciate
about every woman I meet. I try to be funny and laugh and joke with every
woman I meet. I learned women love a man who is witty and funny. I just have
a good time with all women and they feel relaxed around me. I date at least a
dozen different women now and I love it."
I agree with Bill 100%. I asked a lot of women what they find attractive about a
man and they told me in no uncertain terms that a sense of humor really gets
to them. Men are too serious, they say. So get going and laugh and joke with
every woman you meet.
The other guy, the fat one, said basically the same thing. He just laughs and
has a great time with all women. There are so many problems in the world, so
fi you can make a woman laugh you'll be on your way to success.
Another little tip I got from a huge number of women on how men can be
irresistible is this. An overwhelming percentage of women find men more
irresistible in a suit and tie. I tested this myself. I get a lot more women to
dance and talk to me when I wear a suit and tie than when I do not. Think
about it. Women want men who are successful and men who dress up
emulate success.
Learn how to flirt with women and make them laugh and you will have all the
success in the world. I know this works because many women have told me
that they wish men would flirt with them and not in a sexual way. Let a woman
know that you find her attractive without pawing over her. Look at her like she
is attractive but do not stare at her in a sexual way. And never ever give up
and I want to elaborate on that.
When I was at the dance last Sunday night I learned that a friend who came to
the dances for years died. I remember talking to him many times and he
hardly ever asked women to dance or even talked to them. He would always
make excuses like that there were too many men at the dances, or the women
were too stuck up. For years he made excuses and now he is dead. He could
have had a great time and not have been lonely when he died. Please if you
do nothing else, never give up on women. Just approach as many as you can
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and learn how to say one very important word in overcoming rejection...that
word is NEXT! And move on. You do not have time to dwell on someone who
does not want you. Go approach someone else.
Charlie's Corner
"Dear Charlie,
I wanted to write to you to ask some advice. I have had health problems for
over a year and the young ladies in my area are not interested in going out
with people that are not in perfect health. I'm also on a limited income. Any
suggestions?"
"Don,
Your picture you send shows you to be a very handsome guy. Wayne said a
guy with your looks should not have any trouble with women but I will give you
some pointers on what you should do. Concentrate on talking to women in a
very relaxed way. Do not talk about your health problems until you find a
woman that you are really interested in. Have a good time and approach all
women in a very friendly way, as if you expect them to react favorably to you.
You will be surprised. As to a limited income, just take a woman to very
inexpensive places that do not cost any money. A walk or a night watching a
few videos. Most men are too worried about how much to spend. Just show a
woman a good time and she will forget that you have little money."
Next month I will write about the Secrets of Six Sexy Men. This was in a
recent issue of a woman’s magazine and these men reveal the sources of
their appeal. They are not models or lifeguards, just average looking men.
Letter #7
"Ask The Question"
Dear Friend and Subscriber,
I hope all of you had a nice Christmas and a happy New Year. I hope that
your resolutions will be to meet more women or to met the woman of your
dreams and I hope I can help you do it. This month I want to talk about
something very important and that is what I call "Ask the Question." I know I
said last month that I was going to talk about the secrets of six sexy men but
that will be in the near future because I think this months topic will help you a
lot more.
In order to tell you what I mean to ask the question I will give you a few
examples of what happened to me and a few other guys. I will tell you two
about me and how I lost two beautiful women and how you can avoid the
same mistake.
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I talked about Bonnie in one of my manuals. She was a beautiful girl I sat next
to in Psychology class and she was gorgeous. It was my second year of
college and I was the nerd I always was. In Psychology, we sat by our last
names and since my last name was Ross, I sat next to Bonnie whose last
name also started with an R. She had long black hair, a dynamite figure and
looked like a model. We became friends over the course of the semester and
even studied together. Many of my friends saw us studying together and
asked me who she was. When I replied she was only a friend they told me
that they would like to have a friend like that.
Bonnie and I had lunch together many times and even drove to college
together at times. Many times I would look over at her and ream about kissing
her or making love to her. Man was she pretty. I figured that there was no way
she would be interested in me other than as a friend.
Bonnie and I lost touch for about a year and one time I had some books for
sale so I put a little ad on the college bulletin board. Well guess who called. It
was Bonnie and she needed the books and wanted to buy them and said she
was really looking forward to seeing me. I made the big mistake of taking my
buddy with me. We both met Bonnie and she looked beautiful as ever and I
ached to ask her out because she looked so sexy and beautiful. All we did
was talk for a few minutes and we parted forever.
I thought about Bonnie over the years and it was 25 years before my buddy
told me that he took Bonnie out after he met her. But he told me something
else too. He said that all Bonnie did was talk about me and what a nice guy I
was. She really hoped that I would ask her out someday. He looked at me and
said, "Why didn't you ask her out?" I told him I was afraid and he said I would
never know until I asked. So he said just ask the question next time. I lost out
on Bonnie because I did not ask the question and I do not want it to happen to
you.
I am going to give you another example that just happened to me recently and
how I missed out on another good looking woman. It was right before
Christmas and I was in the line at the post office and I was wearing my Santa
hat. Another point I can insert right here. If you want a lot of women to pay
attention to you wear a Santa hat during the Christmas season.
Well, anyway, I was in line and this good looking woman about 30 or 32 was
behind me and kept smiling at me and started talking to me telling me that she
should have worn her Santa hat. We talked about 5 minutes because the line
was long, we talked about various things such as being in the Christmas spirit
etc. When it came to my turn to be waited on I just did my business and left.
I raved to my sister Charlie about the pretty woman I met at the post office
and do you know what she said to me? That's right. She said, "Did you ask
the question?"
I told her that there was no way in the world a woman was going to give me
her name and phone number after only a few minutes of talk. Then Charlie
told me how I could have had a date with that woman and I knew it would
have worked. I'm going to tell you shortly how it can work for you too when
you meet a beautiful woman and engage in a few minutes of talk.
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I looked for her every day and never ran into her again. I had let a real
opportunity pass me by. Don't let it happen to you.
Now I'm going to tell you how I could have been dating Bonnie and what to do
if you run into similar situations. All I had to do was ask Bonnie the question.
Just ask her out. I did not do it. I assumed she was not interested in me that
way. I could have asked her out as just a friend and it could have grown from
there. Instead my fear prevented me from dating one of the most beautiful
women I had ever met. Do not let it happen to you.
If there is a woman that you now know and you would like to take her out just
ask the question. Ask her out as a friend if that makes you feel more
comfortable and believe me most women will go out as friends. It amazes me
how most guys, and I am also guilty of this, will meet a woman and a dance
and see her week after week and never ask her out. Just ask the question.
I met a girl at a singles dance about 5 years ago. Her name was Mary Ellen. I
danced with her every week and was surprised when she danced with me
because she was so pretty. She finally met a guy and got married. I ran into
her at Burger King one day and she flat out asked me why I never asked her
out. I told her that I did not thinks he would go and that she only thought of me
as a dancing partner. She told me that she would have gone out in a
heartbeat if only I had asked her. How many women are you letting fly out of
your life because you are afraid to ask them out? Do it now.
I want to tell you how I could have met that girl at the post office and how you
can do the same thing when you run into a strange woman that you only see
once and may never see again. I could have met that woman by giving her my
business card and tell her to call me with ideas on men and women because I
was an author who wrote books on how to meet women for men. I would have
said, "I need your help." When you ask a woman for help and are sincere
about it she will respond. You could tell a woman you have a friend in Ohio,
that's me, who is writing a book on men and women and relationships and
asked you to interview women in different states and get their ideas on men. It
will work and you will be helping me. I do need that information. Women will
not give their phone number out to strangers in today’s age because of their
fear of what kind of men may ask.
It is a lot easier to give them a business card and ask them for help and to call
you. You must be sincere and really come across as needing help. Ask the
question. Ask them to call you and they will.
Remember if it's a woman you have known for a while, just ask her out. if it is
a strange woman you just met give her a card and tell her to call you with
ideas on men and women and when she calls make a date to meet for
conversation.
Women want to meet men but they are very careful today. You must come
across as a friend and not as a man who just wants to get into her pants. I
have asked nearly a hundred women about this and they all agreed that they
wish more of the men they are interested in would ask them out, in other
words ask the question. I wish you would go out this month and ask many
women out, for practice, and you maybe surprised at the response. I hope I
have put some ideas into your head.
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I am going to mention this because a few guys have brought it up and that is
the price of this newsletter. I think that $99.00 a year is a fair price. If you got
one idea all year and it helped you with women it will be worth it to you. The
three words in this issue could be worth the entire subscription to you. Ask the
question. There was once a famous corporation president who offered
$25,000.00 to anyone who could double his business. He finally paid a man
who gave him the answer in one sentence. You guys are paying for ideas, not
a bunch of fluff.
Every month I plan to give you an idea that is tested on women I know or my
sister knows. I have done all the market research and know the ideas work.
You just have to follow my advice. If any of you come up with ideas and ways
to meet and date women call or write me and I will test it and write about it.
Letter #8
Meet 10 to 15 Women A Month With A Simple Personal Ad
Dear Friend And Subscriber,
How would you like to meet 10 to 15 girls a month with a simple little ad that
costs you nothing? This issue alone may be worth the price of the entire
newsletter. I will write the ad for you, make the voice greeting and all you have
to do is place the ad and wait for women to call you!
Let me tell you about John. I helped John place an ad in the Personals and he
now meets 10 to 15 women each and every month. Here is how John does it.
He calls the newspaper and places the same ad I am about to write for you.
He places it in three different newspapers around town. You can check
around where you live and place the same ad in from 1 to three newspapers
that carry personal ads.
John then places the prize winning voice greeting that I will also write for you
and all you have to do is call the ad number of the paper and place the voice
greeting. Every ad must have a voice greeting so the women who answer the
ad can leave their name and number.
John has been doing this for a little over two years and has now met over 300
women. He is having the time of his life. You can do the same thing and when
and if you meet the girl of your dreams, you can cancel the ad and start a
relationship with the one and only girl of your dreams. John does not want a
relationship so he is content to meet and date as many women as possible.
Last week John met four new women and this week he has three more lined
up. It is so easy. Here is what to do:
Place the following ad in as many local papers that you can that carry
personal ads. Remember substitute your own age in place of Johns.
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SEEKING AN ANGEL
Twenty words can't describe how wonderful a D/SWF is. Give this successful,
above average, romantic SWM, 41, your consideration.
That's it. That is the ad. The twenty words is used because the newspaper
limits the ad to twenty words and that is not enough to describe a woman. If
your newspaper limits it to twenty-five words or thirty words or four lines than
use those in the first two words of the ad. The ad has been praised by many
women. It is short and to the point. Call right now and use it. Call at least two
papers. Almost every paper places ads for free.
And now for the prize winning voice greeting. After you place the ad you will
have to record a voice greeting that the women can hear when they answer
your ad. Use the voice greeting I am going to give you right now. Almost all
the hundreds of women John met have praised him on his voice greeting too.
They love it. Record it and use it every time you place an ad. Here it is:
"Hi, this is John speaking and I'm happy you answered my ad. With a little
luck, we could be having some marvelous times together. First of all, I live
here in Canton, Ohio, I'm 41, young at heart, very young at heart, and I'm
looking for a companion for dancing, dating, holding hands and fascinating
conversation, your subject or mine. I'm tall, about 6'4", smart, cuddly, and
romantic, very romantic. My career as a self-employed professional gives me
a totally flexible schedule with plenty of time to devote to you and only you.
Please leave your first name and phone number and I'll call soon. By for now."
That is the prize winning voice message that John uses. That is not mine but
is from the book "Love By Mail" by Richard Cote. You do not need the book
but if you want to have more knowledge about the personals you are welcome
to purchase it.
Almost every woman that answers the ad has commented on the voice
greeting. Say it with gusto and enthusiasm. Remember change the age,
height, and occupation to your own age, height, and occupation.
Do not argue with success and place the ad like I say. I have just saved you
dozens and dozens of attempts at placing ads because most guys stink when
it comes to placing ads. Next month I will tell you how to answer ads and get a
great response and meet even more women.
I am writing a new manual and I need a title. Remember my second
newsletter where I wrote about how to get women to beg you to have sex with
them? I told you all about Ron who is impotent, yet has dozens of women in
love with him and is deemed the greatest lover by all women who have met
him. I have interviewed Ron extensively and my next manual will be on how to
seduce women.
Ron has told me some of the greatest secrets of how to satisfy a woman that I
have ever heard. For instance he can make a woman have an orgasm without
ever touching her. This shocked me to no end and I will write about it in my
new manual and I need a title. Do you like the title, "The Complete Guide to
Seducing Women"?
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This newsletter is short but it has more information than a manual 100 pages
long. I could have given you 100 pages of fluff about the personals but I gave
you a prize winning ad and voice message. You know I checked into it and if a
professional were to charge you to write an ad it would probably cost you
$100. Place the ad and let me know the results.
Your friend,
Wayne Ross
Bonus Reports
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How To Make Women Fall In Love With You
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How To Break Down A Woman's Resistance (3 Techniques)
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How To Get Girls To Pick You Up
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How To Win Dates With Hard To Get Women
How To Make Women Fall In Love With You
This is very easy. Most guys today, I'm sorry to say have no idea how to treat a woman.
They treat girls like a piece of garbage or they act like a doormat to beautiful women and let
these women walk all over them. You cannot be a rotten no good, but you cannot be a
doormat either. Once you start dating girls, treat them with respect. Treat them like you'd like
another guy to treat your mother or sister.
Do not make a pass at a girl on the first date. She'll think you're different from most men and
will want to go out with you again. Act romantic, not sex crazed. Hold her hand in the movie,
open the door for her, and be polite. Act like she's precious and sweet. When you bring her
home, give her a good night kiss at the door and say "I'll call you sometime." She'll be
amazed at being treated like a lady.
When you take her out again, still treat her like a lady. Women are dying for romance today
and the guy who knows how to provide it is a rare find. She'll let you know when she wants
sex. Do not force her. Be patient. Before long she'll fall in love with you because you're a
man who treats her with respect. Believe me, even a prostitute likes to be treated like a lady.
Tell her she is pretty and that she's nice to be with. Women love compliments. Do not ever
flirt with other women when you're on a date. The girl you're with should get all your
attention. But do not be a doormat either. If she flirts with a lot of men or talks about all her
boyfriends, don't take her out again. If you treat her with respect she should treat you with
respect.
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Before long you'll have so many girls wanting to go out with you, you want have time for them
all. Won't that be nice?
Also, never lead a girl on. If she tells you she is in love with you and you don't feel the same
way, be honest with her. Always be honest. Women will appreciate it.
Now the most important piece of advice I can give you on women. If you can accomplish this
nearly every woman you meet will fall in love with you. Always be a friend with the woman
you go out with. Let her relax with you, and before long you'll become on of the most likeable
guys around. All women will like you. The girls you go out with will brag to their girlfriends.
Girls will be begging you to go out with them because they know you know how to treat a
woman. When a woman is asked why she is deeply in love with her husband or boyfriend,
she usually replies, "He is my best friend."
The Circular Method
This is what is referred to as "The Circular Method." I tried this and was amazed at how well
it works. You can meet up to twenty extra girls a month using this method. It's a very unique
way of advertising for romance. What you do is simply put circulars on windshields of cars in
the parking lot of singles bars.
I did it this way. I had about 1,000 circulars printed at the local print shop. The circular was
worded as follows:
"Single bars are great if you want to stay single. I don't. I want a girl who doesn't either. So,
if you'd like to meet and get together and are disappointed in what you've had up until now.
And if you are ready for a first class man to come into your life and and extend to you first
class treatment, just send a picture and a short note to..."
The best time to do this is between 10 P.M. and 12 A.M. when the parking lots are full. Do it
on the weekends or on ladies night. You can also leave some inside the bar. Just talk to the
manager and get his permission. He probably won't care.
You can also leave them at anyplace women go. How about laundromats, supermarkets,
etc. Remember what I said about being unique and different. This is why this will work.
Women will think it is very unique and will be curious on who tried this method to meet
women. Try it. You'll be surprised.
How To Break Down A Woman's Resistance
When you first approach a woman she will usually build barriers that will make her resist you
and any hope you may have of getting to know her. However, there are certain techniques
that you can use to overcome these barriers. They are the following
1) The Power Of Touching - Touching is one of the most powerful techniques of reaching out
to others. It is so powerful that it is one of the very best ways to get close to a woman. I don't
mean touching in a vulgar, dirty way. Instead, a way that is warm and very intimate.
You can observe the power of touching on T.V. when a minister on a healing program
touches people who are sick and then they feel are healed. Is it real or is the touch so
powerful that they feel they are healed? It proves how strong the power of touching can be.
Some of the ways touching can be used are offering her your arm as you walk to the car or as
you walk to the bar for a drink. Another nice gesture that would really melt a girls heart is to
hold her hand while walking. This is a romantic gesture and would really melt the coldest
heart.
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2) Smile - When you approach a woman you would like to meet always put on a smile. A
smile will do more than you can imagine in trying to meet a woman. A beautiful woman once
told me that a smile from a homely looking man would give him a better chance than a frown
from a handsome man. So many men today approach a good-looking girl with a frown on
their face. How can they expect to get anywhere with a beautiful woman with a horrible
looking frown? Try to smile next time you approach a woman. You'll be surprised at the
results.
3) Use Her Name - Nothing establishes mutual trust and admiration more than the sound of
ones own name. Use the girl's name often while you are talking to her. If you use her name
a lot she will feel more important and appreciated. Using her name will make you seem like
two old friends instead of two strangers. Try it next time you are talking to a woman.
Touching, smiling, and the frequent use a girl's name will help tear down her barriers and melt
with distance when you first meet her. These suggestions will help you turn complete
strangers into friends, perhaps lovers.
What Girls Are Looking For
There are six reasons a girl will date a guy and if you can fulfill her needs in any of these
areas you will stand a very good chance with nearly any good-looking woman. A woman will
consider dating a man if he can instill one of the following:
1) If she has fun with him.
2) If she is entertained by him.
3) If she feels safe with him.
4) If she thinks she has something to gain by being with him.
5) If her mind is stimulated by him.
6) If she is sexually attracted to him.
Try to fulfill as many of these needs as possible with women. It is very easy to do this. Have
a very good sense of humor and she will have fun. Take her to some fun places such as an
amusement park etc. This will also entertain her. Talk about world problems with her
sometimes and let her know you read more than comics. Always act at ease with women and
be nice and romantic and you will be very attractive to them. A woman will always enjoy
being with you if you can satisfy the above six needs and now you will be able to. Good luck.
How To Get Girls To Pick You Up
You have probably heard this a hundred times. To have women pick you up you should take
a woman's course or class at a local college or go where all the women are. Well, it works
and I'm going to tell you how to make it work and how to be where all the women are.
About six months ago my sister wanted me to take an aerobics class with her. I am basically
lazy so I told her I really didn't want to because I would have to work too hard and besides it
would be filled with women. She told me that it would more of a reason to take because I'm
always looking for a place to meet women to mention in my books. So I took it.
The first day of the course came and when I walked into the class there were 15 women and
me. My sister was number 15. I was so nervous and did everything the exact opposite of
what the instructor said. It turned out that many of the women though it was cute and told my
sister I really seemed like a nice guy. When the class was over I had six women wanting to
date me. I had the best ten weeks of my life. What fun!
Take an opposite sex class at your local college or take an aerobic or exercise class. Don't
laugh. It really works. Remember if you are the only guy in a class you will be very desired
and wanted. Hardly any competition. Take a dance class, any dance class, ballroom
dancing, popular dancing, jazz dancing, etc. Not only will the girls be interested in you but
you will be able to hold them in your arms and all of them will want to dance with you.
Now I'm going to tell you how I will help you get girls to pick you up. Take a copy of one of my
manuals with you to the mall or restaurant or wherever there are a lot of women. Approach a
lot of women and tell you are helping me do research for my next manual and you would like
to know how a nice guy can meet a nice woman. They will offer all kinds of advice, and in the
meantime, a lot of these girls will want to get to know you because you will be asking their
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advice. They will respect this. One of my customers met at least a dozen girls this way and
also gave me some good ideas. So try it.
So go wherever there are a lot of women and as few man as possible and you will be
surprised how easy it will be for women to show interest in you.
How To Win Dates With Hard To Get Women
I bet you see some real sexy looking women that are so pretty it makes your heart flutter
when you see them and you wish you had the courage to meet them and date them. How
would you like to know how to have a real beautiful woman want and desire you? it is easy
and I will you how.
The main way to get a beautiful woman to want you is to disarm her. A beautiful woman
thinks that all men want her and desire her because of her looks. You must come across as
very aloof and not really interested in her as dating material. This is how you do it.
If you see a beautiful woman you want to meet, if it's at work, at a dance, at a party or
wherever, walk up to her and say "Hi." Show no interest in her as a desirable woman as you
are talking to her. Talk to her as a person only and walk away after a few minutes. All other
guys are probably fawning over her and telling her how beautiful she is and you will be the
one she wants because you are different. Be natural when you approach her and talk to her.
Again just talk to her as a friend. Show no sexual interest in her at all. Next time you see
her or dance with her you will be more desirable to her because are a rare man.
This works beyond your wildest dreams because all women want a man who is a challenge.
You will be a challenge. Slowly turn up the male-female heat concerning your desire for her
as a woman and eventually she will want to date you as a potential lover.
Remember the secret to getting dates with hard to get women is simply to treat them as a
person and not as a sex object. Show no interest in them as a desirable woman and
eventually they will want and desire you. It works. Always remember that no woman is too
beautiful that she can't be yours. All women are humans and have wants and desires. Just
make her think you don't really need her. Beautiful women always tell me this. Good luck.
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Document Outline
- Bonus Reports
- How To Make Women Fall In Love With You
- The Circular Method
- How To Break Down A Woman's Resistance
- What Girls Are Looking For
- How To Get Girls To Pick You Up
- How To Win Dates With Hard To Get Women
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