Ross Jeffries ­vanced Speed Seduction 1


First principle

Learning to create and control your own state

So that when you go into a situation, you have a state that is powerful and fun and you feel totally confident that you are going to get the result.

You can control and direct your own state

You can control and direct the state of a woman you really want to experience

Create a conversational framework that allows you to direct the processes and the emotional states of the woman you want to seduce

Setup a frame work where we can do what ever we need to and it seems like normal conversation

You can be conversational and covert

You can be very blatant and directive

Both work

When you are blatant and powerful many women, not all, get really turned on, they want to be directed

Just because you might get a funny look doesn't mean you can't try something else, and get that to work

Attitude to wear

Everything you do is an experiment, take the pressure off and feel laid back and you'll get laid lack in return, or in other words (get laid back)

In fact if you were to find yourself being totally convinced

Won't it be great

As you find yourself reentering that state of total suggestibility

One of the skills that you need to learn to really master this material at a powerful level

Is the ability to back off if what you're doing isn't working, and take a different approach.

I have an intuition about you

“what's that”

I have an intuition that you are very visual

You make pictures in your head very well

In fact you have a talent

Your talent is that you can look right at someone

And they think you're listening

But you could be making movies in your mind of something you'd rather be doing

“oh my god that's right, how did you know that?”

You motivate yourself STOP!

And think of something that really motivates you

Something you just can't wait to do

“her pupils dilated”

Do you see it

It's a big picture in front of your face isn't it

And notice as you take the picture and pull it away and make it smaller

Doesn't it seem less motivating?

“oh my god yes it does”

But then there's like a blank spot that wants to be filled in

So notice what it's like as an image of you and I laughing over a cup of coffee

Just sticks itself and locks itself right in there

Doesn't it make it seem like something you want to do

“laughing” “My god I know you just shoved it in there, but it's working anyway”

Have you ever

If I were to say to you

Weasel phrases

If one pattern doesn't work, step back and change your approach until something works

If a woman laughs that is the best sign in the world

They are not laughing it off they are laughing it in

It's the sign of unconscious recognition

Basic principle

Look for an opening

Start off with a strong response

You could try all the patterns in the world word for word

But if you aren't watching the response it won't work

Watch the response or you won't get anywhere

If you use the phrase have you ever

Let them talk if they start talking

Because they will go into that state or give you the information you need to put them into the state you want them to

People are hypnosis machines

People are used to content and because of that they resist it

People are not used to having the direction and the process of their mind directed and controlled they're not used to that

They don't resist it

Direct the process of their mind so they are ready for any content that you want to give them

“I think you'll find as you listen carefully, and become even more fascinated it allows you to go inside

and find all the reasons why what I'm saying is so important

to the point where you just find yourself riveted on every word

now let me tell you what I have to say to you

what is the difference between process and content?

content is verbalizing direct suggestions, typical conversation information, telling someone something like “I want to do something”

process is basically telling their mind how to go into a trance and how to respond to what you are about to tell them

if you are powerful enough with these skills you can be blatant as hell push the limit and what ever they throw my way I'll duck and come right back at them

If you run into a brick wall and it'll crumble right in front of you

Every decision is constantly being remade and every decision is state dependant

If you don't like the decision change the state first

If someone is in a state of being disagreeable, get them out of that state

Never pit strength against strength, never push against resistance in any persuasion situation

Time distortion is perhaps the most powerful tool you can use, it's unbelievable !

If you can time distort a woman the fight is over

Some women are going to take longer than others

There are varying degrees of suggestibility

Some people are more suggestible than others

Some people have more barriers than others

The best way to get somebody to do something is to have them hallucinate a future where they've already given you what you want and they've experienced tremendous pleasure doing so

Because you can't resist what already happened, if it already happened it's too late… to do anything but relax cause your about to get what you want, what you've been wanting, haven't you

You really need to look at the person in front of you Ask yourself what do I want, and is this person worth the effort I'll have to put into it

Dating is for women who you're already sleeping with, dating is not the vehicle that you use to seduce a woman

Have you ever met someone and you just were overwhelmingly attracted

I had her point to where she sees that picture

“where do you see that?”

Notice what it's like as for whatever mysterious reason a picture of me, just sneaks itself, inserts itself right there, doesn't that feel great

However you can do it, create states of powerful emotional connection before moving on to sexual arousal

If they already like you and feel involved with you then what ever you want to get from them is much easier

Beware of sequence

Challenge is where the fun is, if it isn't easy, at least make it fun

Isn't it great to where you feel that sense of intrigue

If you're not going to have fun in the process them what's the point ?

This is a very sexy attitude

A guy who is not put off and who also is not hungry and is having fun in the process of courtship, a woman is attracted to that

A man who will playfully court her, without being pushy, a man who's persistent at the same time is playful about it

Use and combine patterns together don't just use one, flow hitting

Setup a conversational framework moving from pattern to pattern to pattern

Skill 1

The ability to observe and see what response you're getting

Skill 2

The flexibility to change to something else if aren't getting the response you want

Skill 3

Is the ability to be patient and learn from trial and error

If something isn't working congratulate yourself you are about to find what does

No failures just learnings

The minute you see a negative response, back up and do something else

The more intelligent the woman is the better it works

Find an intelligent woman

Smarter is always better

Smarter is always better

Even if they have a hard edge to them, when you break through that they surrender completely

Woman are looking for someone to surrender to

The challenge is they need to know that that man is worthy of being surrendered to

That's a terribly hard challenge

Because most men aren't worthy, they truly aren't

You will be worthy because you will know how to match every value that she holds dear with precision and no guess work



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